#`176 is most amusing...but having read through the recent posts on this thread i think its time for a little bit of understanding. Now as some may know, i was a punter but havent dabbled or what must be now 5 years. Prior to that i was only an occasional dabbler. I have openly stated in the past that there were some occasions where known escorts have actively encouraged and wanted me to fuck them au naturelle and i have done so. These have all been women whom have visited in their own homes. Now we all know it isnt a great idea and all the risks involved but it isnt a perfect world and things happen.
So what was the outcome..well nothing,,,i was regularly tested in that era and i was clean. Of course that was 5 or more years ago and there are probably more HIV pos people out there now and more people who dont even know they have it.
The probability of this guy contracting hiv from one dabble is slim to remote. That is not to say,he shouldnt get tested because id advise that he does and then at least he knows and he can rebase his behaviours on this new found knowledge.
As for telling his wife,,,,if he is real then he needs to overcome those huge feelings of anxiety,stress,worry and guilt that he is currently feeling because that is what is driving him at the moment.
The chances are if he says nothing and gets tested, he will be all clear.
He could tell her, get tested,be all clear then get divorced and ruined for life financially
Take your choice.
Even if he keeps quiet, gets tested and found all clear then he needs to sit and have a long think about himself, his relationship and why he is shagging around. May he may choose then to get divorced
Wasnt there some insinuation that GHG was a tranny?? or am i getting mixed with Amrican Cassidy or are they one and the same?
