ok I'm doing something out of the ordinary for me and I'm seeing this bird. I like her, find her attractive, sex is good and we have a connection but I just can't cum. Only thing I can think of is the buzz/turn on that I get from escort sex is missing, I could come on a one night stand no problem too.
I can't help feel that my 15 year long pursuit of the next sexual high has somewhat ruined 'normal' sex for me in a way.