I use RB's 95% of the time for my meets. I'm a very occasional punter these day (always in London) and only have 3 or 4 meets this past couple of years.
RB works a treat for me because I can plan weeks ahead and
almost every time it is has been perfect, at rates much lower than they advertise.
Invariably the first half dozen bids or so are from the same munters that reply on every RB going, but gradually the genuine ones start to come in. Personally I am always looking for an independent, part timer who looks for RB's as an occasional way of getting their rocks off with someone like me who has a ton of genuine and very flattering feedback.
I always go for a two or three hour outcall at my hotel. I tell them in the RB the general location so they have a rough idea if they can travel there easily. Even though the meetings are usually in central London I get bids from all over the country from ladies either willing to travel or who are on business trips and staying in London anyway. Those are the best because they are always the most genuine and most horny.
I tend to enjoy a very full on PSE and as a switch will be looking for someone who offers a long list of services. To make sure I get the right ones bidding, I make sure all the info they need is in the RB
For example
Age range, English or very good English speaking, All of the services I definitely want to include and others that are a bonus if they like them. Specify I never meet with anyone who has bareback listed and if I want to have a roleplay, I give a good overview of the scenario, and how I would like it to start.
Then I give a brief description of myself, Age, appearance, body type, smoker. I think this is important for a good RB. Most sex workers couldn't give a fuck about your appearance, but the ladies who I want to reply to my RB are looking for just as much out of the booking as I am, so why paint a false picture about my appearance?
If they know roughly what to expect from me appearance wise they have the choice to keep scrolling if I don't appeal, or if they don't like what I'm requesting. But I find that most independents who are in it for kicks rather than a regular income are far less shallow than full time sex workers and are turned on by a kinky mind rather than looks or money. Don't get me wrong - I know they are still paid workers at the end of the day but most meets it is their only fuck of the day if not for several days)
I give myself a bit of flexibility on price. I list £250 for two hours but I state that is my starting offer and I might consider a higher bid with the right lady. I'm more than happy to meet with someone for £350 who has reduce her price from £500, if they meet the requirements but I will never meet with someone who advertises at £200 and then offers £250. That happens more than it should and they don't get selected even if they do tick a lot of boxes because they have pissed me off.
It's not an infallible plan, I get late cancelations but I always make sure I have a reserve. And I have had a couple of less than great RB's where even my careful selection process got it wrong.
I always make sure the RB is confirmed at least a week before the meeting. Before accepting a bid, I email who I've chosen to make sure they are still available and I copy in the RB details to remind them since it might have been a couple of weeks since they bid. Once they let me know they are still available I accept the booking.
I'll probably have a couple of emails with them to confirm a roleplay, set limits etc on both sides and also ask them more about what they enjoy, if they have and special kinks they don't list on their profile (they often do), if they have any requests and find out what wine they drink or if they prefer water.
On the day I let them know the hotel and room number a couple of hours before the meeting time.
All of those things tend to make a perfect RB for me. It is obviously too much effort for someone who punts regularly but for a once every few months it's worth it. I've not been very active here for a while but I will get a couple of reviews up later today, while I'm in the mood
