Corporal Punishment.

[Cabbie]

Have any of you actually asked a girl to cane or slipper you? If so did you get the impression she just thought you were some kind of weirdo? I am interested to get a few strokes just to see what it is like. Do they just do a few strokes and go full force?

[TomR]

Doms will do whatever you ask them. A good one will talk to you first and discuss what exactly you want, what's going to happen etc. Yu are always in control. If you are thinking of asking an ordinary WG with no experience it may turn out a bit differently. However, if you search AW you will find plenty of girls who do know what they are doing. Also you could searching on here for reports of this sort of thing. I am sure there will be some. Good luck.

[The first of his name]

In my experience the first couple of minutes feels kinda awkward as with any meeting but then it's just normal and asking for a service like spanking or CP is no different to asking for any other, there's nothing wrong with it and most have heard way worse so don't worry about asking for it.

As for the person you choose, from experience there is a pretty big difference between a girl who had 20 quid of kit (not a bad thing, but it's a very different experience) from Ann Summers and is calling herself a Dom and those who are more specialised and experienced at it, as with anything else it's really obvious if the girl is genuinely enjoying it or putting a brave face on something she isn't into.

Just be honest up front about your experience and what you are hoping for from the session as it will help her plan for those objectives, in general they build up to your pain tolerance and everyone is different and a good Dom will respect that and adapt accordingly, bad ones won't think about it or ignore your wants and needs.

Look on Twitter as a lot of the pro Doms tend to do a lot of advertising on Twitter and drive bookings through there and their own websites, many have AW profiles but they aren't well used in a lot of cases so might get lost in the noise of lots of profiles that have been around for years with few or no ratings. Most of all, it's supposed to be fun, don't be intimidated by all the equipment and latex, a good Dom has a job she enjoys doing what she does and helping people live out their fantasises and will enjoy helping you with yours.

[timsussex]

Having dabbled a little I can only echo the advice above find a specialist not a chick with a whip

I was first intrigued when i visited a lady who had one bedroom set out for gfe but when leaving I asked about the other room which was setup for cp.  Wasn't brave enough to try it but eventually my curiosity won and I tried half an hour with a pure domme - deliberately picking an older lady that I didn't fancy -so as not to embarrass myself!
My experience is
1) Good dommes read you and know how far to push
2) I haven't met a good domme yet  who offers more than hand relief and many not even that Note I'm not saying its impossible just that I haven't met one YET
3) I'm not sure you can actually combine cp and gfe - I think the mindset is different from both sides. I indulge in both but separately with different ladiez

Give us a clue where you are and we might be able to recommend someone

[Marmalade]

Another "have you ever..." troll post. ffs. 

[glasscentre2]

Another "have you ever..." troll post. ffs. 

Marmalade, why are you so rude so often, when you don't have to be? You don't like a thread, that's fine, don't contribute.

[DannyJames]

Marmalade, why are you so rude so often, when you don't have to be? You don't like a thread, that's fine, don't contribute.

You need to grow a thicker skin.

Part of this site's success is because trolls and the like are weeded out by eagle-eyed members, including Marmalade.

[Marmalade]

Marmalade, why are you so rude so often, when you don't have to be?

This is true. We could just let the forum be dominated by prossies and trolls. 

[Punter115]

Hi Danny ...2 reviews in 5 years and you complain about trolls?

[DannyJames]

Hi Danny ...2 reviews in 5 years and you complain about trolls?

What the fuck is your problem exactly? I recognise your name and whilst I can't be bothered to look at your post history, you sound butt hurt over something I've said previously. Have you been sat waiting to spit something out? How pathetic.

I don't need to justify how many reviews I have or haven't done. You do not make the rules here, admin does, so don't act as though you are in charge. It's clear from my post history that I'm not trolling, but your post suspiciously sounds like you are. Shame on you.

[Punter115]

No problem with you or what you have said previously .......I only say it as I see it ,nothing personal.
Regarding me not putting genuine reviews up ..... don't think so......you need to calm down mate!

[DannyJames]

I'm perfectly calm.

You accused me of complaining about trolls and implied that I'm a troll. I pointed out how the site polices itself, that's all. Perhaps you would know this if you had been here longer than a couple of months.

You think that your higher number of reviews implies some kind of seniority; it doesn't. There is admin, then the rest of us. You are not special. Again, if you had read a bit more then you would know this.

As for how many reviews I have. Currently, I have a couple I am waiting to post up, but for quite a long period of my membership here I was too unwell or too disinterested to go punting. Quite a few members don't post reviews (James 999), have stopped posting them (CoolTiger), or had breaks from punting (Nik - this site's founder), are you accusing them of being trolls too?

You might 'say it as you see it' but maybe you need to read a bit more?
Or perhaps you have done and this isn't your first nic? 

I look forward to your apology.

Edit: I haven't suggested you haven't put genuine reviews up 

[DannyJames]

I'd just found the thread you are clearly butt hurt from. You put up a suggestion about removing members from the site who haven't reviewed in 12 months and obviously got offended by the responses. You remarked before that you didn't know who posters like Nik were, I wonder if you do now?

It's clear that you have sat waiting for me to make a post like I did in this thread yesterday so that you can have a cheap pop at me. Does that make you feel like a big man?

I won't bother waiting for that apology, it's clear that anyone who sits around waiting for petty revenge is clearly a bit unstable. You're welcome to have the final word - it's what Internet hard types like you do - I'll be off enjoying the rugby.

[Punter115]

Listen Mate I ain't "Burt hurt " by anybody and I am not that clever to somehow wait for you and then pick you out ! I don't think I have ever noticed you before and I am certainly not a big man anything but and I am not wanting the last say ...honest ! So please reply and have your say...no more from me!
Hope you enjoy the rugby and  I hope your team wins ...... Happy punting!