Abstaining Before a Punt?

[Hawkwind71]

Talk to the guys in the shop about how you like to smoke and they match you very well.  Avoid the £20 starter packs they don't have enough vavavoom.

I quit 30 years ago but I still crave, and while the OH barfs at the suggestion of smoke I start sniffing like a bloodhound.

[Hank Moody]

Talk to the guys in the shop about how you like to smoke and they match you very well.  Avoid the £20 starter packs they don't have enough vavavoom.

Cheers VW. I tried the original type e-cigs years ago and made the mistake of buying cheap ones and they didn't last long at all so it was false economy. I'll call in at the shop this weekend and have a chat with them. The big motivation for me now is that the amount I spend on cigs could give me several decent 30 minute punts or at least 2 quality hour punts extra a month (or just fund my current punting) 

[vw]

Cheers VW. I tried the original type e-cigs years ago and made the mistake of buying cheap ones and they didn't last long at all so it was false economy. I'll call in at the shop this weekend and have a chat with them. The big motivation for me now is that the amount I spend on cigs could give me several decent 30 minute punts or at least 2 quality hour punts extra a month (or just fund my current punting) 

Any when lying there in the post punt moment you can have a puff, never been turned down yet.  Funniest was DaisyMay she vape's weak and had a blast of mine the reaction was hilarious !

[Hank Moody]

 

Any when lying there in the post punt moment you can have a puff, never been turned down yet.  Funniest was DaisyMay she vape's weak and had a blast of mine the reaction was hilarious !

 

[anonymous1]

Well I did find that after a few days of abstaining I seemed to be losing 'the urge' which is not what you want before a booking. Fortunately for me in the couple of hours before the booking the old excitement kicked in again  Hope you have better luck next time

Think I've lost a bit of sensitivity in that area to be honest, I wasn't really feeling much of what she was doing.

[Hawkwind71]

Think I've lost a bit of sensitivity in that area to be honest, I wasn't really feeling much of what she was doing.

Trust me. you guys have nothing to worry about. When you have nothing better to do, go into google and type in 'no fap' you will see a site called reddit/nofap

There are some sorry fuckers on there wanking daily to hard porn who have to stop wanking for six months to regain their mojo.
Fucking sorry bunch out there...

[anonymous1]

Trust me. you guys have nothing to worry about. When you have nothing better to do, go into google and type in 'no fap' you will see a site called reddit/nofap

There are some sorry fuckers on there wanking daily to hard porn who have to stop wanking for six months to regain their mojo.
Fucking sorry bunch out there...

Might be something I'll have to do lol. Don't really want to see anyone else and have the same problem. But anyway, I don't really know why I was so nervous, the girl was lovely and couldn't have asked for anyone better for my first punt.

[Hank Moody]

Might be something I'll have to do lol. Don't really want to see anyone else and have the same problem. But anyway, I don't really know why I was so nervous, the girl was lovely and couldn't have asked for anyone better for my first punt.

Glad it went well for you apart from that  The nerves do go but not entirely (for me anyway) but that is a good think I think. Wouldn't be the same without that little buzz of excitement/nerves beforehand.

[anonymous1]

Glad it went well for you apart from that  The nerves do go but not entirely (for me anyway) but that is a good think I think. Wouldn't be the same without that little buzz of excitement/nerves beforehand.

Found it a bit surreal at first walking into a flat and start making out with a girl I never met, I really went out of my comfort zone but glad I did. I wouldn't be so nervous if I saw her again which I probably will (unfinished business). Funny really, I was worried all week in case I cum too quickly, but that took 40 minutes.

I can see how this can become a bit addictive, only wanted to try this once but already thinking about the next time.

[uutarn]

Found it a bit surreal at first walking into a flat and start making out with a girl I never met, I really went out of my comfort zone but glad I did. I wouldn't be so nervous if I saw her again which I probably will (unfinished business). Funny really, I was worried all week in case I cum too quickly, but that took 40 minutes.

I can see how this can become a bit addictive, only wanted to try this once but already thinking about the next time.

Your comments are pretty much echoing my thoughts mate, and i'm sure some of the more seasoned guys here can relate also.

But yea going to what hawkwind was saying, thats pretty much my problem, spent a lot of my time getting off to just porn and nothing else, have abstained for about 2 weeks now and can feel a change already, slight... but a change.

I think hank said something about "losing the urge" earlier in this thread. Its called flat-lining i think and feels as though your cock shrinks and is lifeless, no libido etc. Had a bit of that and its not fun at all .
But it does pass though and apparently will continue to fluctuate...

Pain in the arse if you ask me...

[bushman]

Been abstaining for 11 days now. It's hell.

[Dingo1]

I'm a bit of a geek and I was watching this the other date, has a bit about storing up a load that's quite interesting



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[Ben4454]

I've been abstaining for just under 3 weeks and i am off to Berlin this thursday. Going to be carring my balls in a wheelbarrow. Trying not to trip over em'

[rogercock00]

I remember years ago when I abstained for the first proper time, I felt as if cum was literally oozing out of my bell all of the time - any slight arousal and pre-cum was evident. The best bit was that when I did edge, it was a lot more pleasurable. The thought of the lucky recipient spurred me on no end.

I now find that I need a helping hand to start the abstaining process as otherwise I have no willpower. The best things to help this are either working hard or sometimes feeling under the weather and having some early nights and before you know it, four days have passed. I can then turn this into two weeks knowing the orgasm will be tenfold when it happens.

[bushman]

Damn, what a disapointment.Punt I had lined up to empty my sack just cancelled..

Hunt for new one, was wainting 7 days for that one.

[MintRoyale]

I'm going to try this.

I think my brain is overstimulated browsing AW and my cock overstimulated on pornhub.

I think my sensitivity is shot to shit and need some recovery time. Hopefully this'll allow me to feel something again and make it easier to cum and make myself ready for round 2

[tonysoprano]

I can abstain for about 10-14 days max. After that I start getting random boners on the train or at work when I see a fit piece of ass. That's kind of awkward.

Longest I've ever gone without sex or wanking was 6 weeks by which time I was literally walking around with a constant hard on. Ended that drout with a punt where I covered this poor girl in so much spunk she thought something was wrong with me. The look of shock on her face as I kept coming all over her is still imprinted on my mind. 

[Hank Moody]

I can abstain for about 10-14 days max. After that I start getting random boners on the train or at work when I see a fit piece of ass. That's kind of awkward.

Longest I've ever gone without sex or wanking was 6 weeks by which time I was literally walking around with a constant hard on. Ended that drout with a punt where I covered this poor girl in so much spunk she thought something was wrong with me. The look of shock on her face as I kept coming all over her is still imprinted on my mind. 

If I can abstain for 10-14 hours I'm pretty chuffed. Don't know what the fuck it wrong with me at the moment but I'm like a fucking teenager that's just discovered his dad's porn stash  I think it's starting punting that has done it to be honest and like you say, too much time browsing AW and online porn. The worst thing is when I know I have a punt lined up the anticipation makes it harder to resist temptation. I almost ruined a great punt last week from being a bit sore. I think I need to start wearing boxing gloves at night 

[tonysoprano]

If I can abstain for 10-14 hours I'm pretty chuffed. Don't know what the fuck it wrong with me at the moment but I'm like a fucking teenager that's just discovered his dad's porn stash  I think it's starting punting that has done it to be honest and like you say, too much time browsing AW and online porn. The worst thing is when I know I have a punt lined up the anticipation makes it harder to resist temptation. I almost ruined a great punt last week from being a bit sore. I think I need to start wearing boxing gloves at night 

Yeh, it's a bit of a vicious cycle, punt, porn, AW or UKP and then before you know it you're either knocking one out or planning a new punt. Only way to break it is go cold turkey for a few days and no internet or porn. Easier said than done though.

[Ben4454]

Just to give you guys another reason to abstain:

I have found women become more attracted to you when you abstain and conserve your sexual energy. You will notice women reacting more and touching their hair when speaking to you (evolutionary attraction behaviour) I have known this for many years and the only thing I can attribute it to is some kind of pheromone the human body gives off when it is deprived of pussy. I always say to my friends the best pheromone is abstinence for a week because it is my belief that when you don't get pussy the human body starts working it for you.

[Two tone]

Just to give you guys another reason to abstain:

I have found women become more attracted to you when you abstain and conserve your sexual energy. You will notice women reacting more and touching their hair when speaking to you (evolutionary attraction behaviour) I have known this for many years and the only thing I can attribute it to is some kind of pheromone the human body gives off when it is deprived of pussy. I always say to my friends the best pheromone is abstinence for a week because it is my belief that when you don't get pussy the human body starts working it for you.

If this is true, what about the monks who live a celibate lifestyle? They must be mobbed every time they go into the village by the local women just gagging for it...no wonder they keep themselves locked away in the monastery! 

[punther]

If this is true, what about the monks who live a celibate lifestyle? They must be mobbed every time they go into the village by the local women just gagging for it...no wonder they keep themselves locked away in the monastery! 

 

[rogercock00]

When I abstain and I know that I am fully loaded, I like to play a bit of a game. If I am in a pub or maybe even at work, I look at a relatively fit bird and I imagine what she would be like to see my hefty load firing at her and what it would look like on her face and hair. Quite often I am so engrossed in my own game that I drift out of conversations and people think I am daydreaming.The only downside is that I sometimes end up walking around with a noticeable semi 

[Ben4454]

When you have abstained for a while just looking at a normal girl in the newspaper gives you a boner.

[oldrunter]

When you have abstained for a while just looking at a normal girl in the newspaper gives you a boner.

Ahh i remember those days.

[Agent W]

When I abstain and I know that I am fully loaded, I like to play a bit of a game. If I am in a pub or maybe even at work, I look at a relatively fit bird and I imagine what she would be like to see my hefty load firing at her and what it would look like on her face and hair.

My personal favourite is Which Orifice (mouth, arse or pussy)? It has to be a snap decision. Sometimes I surprise myself.

[Riprock]

I have found women become more attracted to you when you abstain and conserve your sexual energy. You will notice women reacting more and touching their hair when speaking to you (evolutionary attraction behaviour) I have known this for many years and the only thing I can attribute it to is some kind of pheromone the human body gives off when it is deprived of pussy.

Surely a placebo effect. Not sure i subscribe to this theory

[vw]

Surely a placebo effect. Not sure i subscribe to this theory

sounds like bollocks to me, like praying will make things better or Fasting for lent and Ramadan will make the afterlife better.

Now post punt after you have got laid that's when the pheromones get the civie birds swarming !

[Riprock]

Now post punt after you have got laid that's when the pheromones get the civie birds swarming !

I'd amend that to having civvy birds swarming, after you've laid another civvy.

[vw]

I'd amend that to having civvy birds swarming, after you've laid another civvy.

After you have laid anything, they always want what they can't have !

[bushman]

After 15 days of abstinence I had a profile lined up. Knock on the door, and it turned out to be "bait and switch" or just plain old fake profile(note to self:if AW doesn't have any decent profiles on, then vivastreet will be worse or all fake). I think due to the weight of my ballbag I didn't had the courage to walk. Normally I would have.
Negotiated owo and after 5 seconds I popped a big load in her mouth. Some abuse followed as she doesn't do cim and normally not owo unless you pay extra. But there I was with a massive smile on my face. It felt good.

Hopefully I would not be overly sensitive on my small man after this marathon abstinence event.

[billybobsmith]

I tend to abstain before a punt for the usual 3-4 days.
Not entirely sure if it makes a blind bit of difference to be honest although it does fill a condom more!

If the girl asks me if I want to CIM or COB, then a full load is a good thing.  Normally there's just a little bit that may or may not spurt too much.
That said, sometimes after abstaining, there's no sudden release - just coming out.

If doesn't necessarily make me quicker - various factors do that like how good/bad the girl is, whether I tighten my hips, how horny I am or a certain amount of friction.

[rogercock00]

I tend to abstain before a punt for the usual 3-4 days.
Not entirely sure if it makes a blind bit of difference to be honest although it does fill a condom more!

You just answered your own question....

[Ben4454]

During the first 3 years of punting I had erectile disfunction issues - although i refused to use viagra. I thought it was physical although it was mental. Very simple reason : too much death gripping/porn and too much masturbation. When you masturbate using your hand your brain gets used to the feeling and can only cum like that. Over time you grip harder and harder and need more pressure to get most stimulation. This is the reason a lot of guys say their first sexual encounters are crap - its because you haven't graduated as a professional wanker.

Everyone knows what porn does to the brain although quitting porn for 2 weeks and fix the problem. I found the most difficult problem to fix was the death grip syndrome.

[lewisjones23]

Im up to 1 week without cumming and been edgeing every night

Just organised a punt for this week so will carry on building myself up for a good release in a few days 

[bushman]

Im up to 1 week without cumming and been edgeing every night

Just organised a punt for this week so will carry on building myself up for a good release in a few days 

Good luck. Hope you don't feel short-changed due to an over sensitive willy.

[lewisjones23]

Good luck. Hope you don't feel short-changed due to an over sensitive willy.

Done it on purpose

Sometimes i struggle for 2 shots in an hour but an early shot will leave plenty of time for a second

[solentgeezer]

always abstain for at least 3 days before a punt 

[lewisjones23]

Like has been mentioned on the thread

I keep getting hard ons or at least semi's when previously id be well in control - also woke up in the middle of the night with one

Plus they are rock hard

Wanking too much 100% ruins sex/hard on quality/sensitivity

Gonna be a long wait now the punt has been set

[Ben4454]

Now for the last few years i have been 100% rock hard during the punt. it works wonders. thinking of quitting masturbation but punting would get expensive every other day. the trick is to quit death grip. get a masturbation toy which doesn't apply too much pressure to penis.

[rogercock00]

Im up to 1 week without cumming and been edgeing every night

Just organised a punt for this week so will carry on building myself up for a good release in a few days 

Perfect preparation!

I am quietly jealous of your impending waterfall 

[MintRoyale]

Now for the last few years i have been 100% rock hard during the punt. it works wonders. thinking of quitting masturbation but punting would get expensive every other day. the trick is to quit death grip. get a masturbation toy which doesn't apply too much pressure to penis.

I always thought masturbation toys would make sensitivity worse? That they would stimulate your nerves better than a pussy because it's "engineered that way"

[Riprock]

the trick is to quit death grip. get a masturbation toy which doesn't apply too much pressure to penis.

have you got a fleshlight then?

[lewisjones23]

Crumbled tonight and went to see IMO the best parlour girl for a BJ in the North-West

Oh well got a couple of days till my planned punt

Was in mine and said to myself i'll only bother going if such an such is working tonight - sure enough I was soon on the motorway

Not gonna bother with a review as it'll be nearly a copy and paste job of a previous review but it was / is Kelly at Sandys