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Offline Herts_Outcaller

Sometimes, when I have meet a working girl with a bad attitude, I still quite enjoy afterwards the satisfaction of thinking "well you were a bitch, but the jokes on you because I just fucked you!"

any thoughts on my slightly sick take on this?

there's almost never a bad punt in my opinion, even the worst ones leave me with the thought of "still had sex", and positive memories of being in between their legs.

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Sometimes, when I have meet a working girl with a bad attitude, I still quite enjoy afterwards the satisfaction of thinking "well you were a bitch, but the jokes on you because I just fucked you!"

any thoughts on my slightly sick take on this?

there's almost never a bad punt in my opinion, even the worst ones leave me with the thought of "still had sex", and positive memories of being in between their legs.

Bit if a strange attitude, I would think she would say the jokes on you as you're the one who's paid quite a bit of money for the shit service she's given you.   :unknown:

Value for money's quite high on my agenda, but if you're happy not getting that fair enough. 

Offline LLPunting

Sometimes, when I have meet a working girl with a bad attitude, I still quite enjoy afterwards the satisfaction of thinking "well you were a bitch, but the jokes on you because I just fucked you!"

any thoughts on my slightly sick take on this?

there's almost never a bad punt in my opinion, even the worst ones leave me with the thought of "still had sex", and positive memories of being in between their legs.

Subjectively speaking from your POV, happy days.

Objectively speaking from our exterior view, you need to experience some truly good sex and raise your standards.  Otherwise why not just dress your hand in a Barbie outfit and save yourself a wad of cash?

Offline peter purves

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Offline Bogof60

Sometimes, when I have meet a working girl with a bad attitude, I still quite enjoy afterwards the satisfaction of thinking "well you were a bitch, but the jokes on you because I just fucked you!"

any thoughts on my slightly sick take on this?

there's almost never a bad punt in my opinion, even the worst ones leave me with the thought of "still had sex", and positive memories of being in between their legs.

I can relate to this way of thinking.
The times it has happenedd to me mostly has been with a good looking young Romanian.
I then as you say think fuck it and go-ahead and do so.
At least I am balls deep in a fanny so I just Switch off and plug away until I am done
It's almost like a grudge fuck.
It also keeps your thoughts positive.
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Offline Herts_Outcaller

I am aware that in circumstances such as this, the money may have been better spent elsewhere.

and yeah, this actually does make it a bad punt, but still with positives

and YES the 3 girls that come to mind when I was thinking this were ALL good looking young Romanians with a bad attitude!

It's like "LL" said in this thread , it's not exactly GFE but it can be quite enjoyable

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=78737.msg980605#msg980605

But yeah, if a girl is rude to you in a shop, at a bar, at work etc, You may think to yourself "suck my dick bitch". The good thing about punting is they actually will!

Offline peter purves


But yeah, if a girl is rude to you in a shop, at a bar, at work etc, You may think to yourself "suck my dick bitch". The good thing about punting is they actually will!

 :D

I guess it also depends on the interaction process of whether one can derive any satisfaction from a punt if the WG is truly hating it? :unknown:
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Offline Marmalade

Sometimes, when I have meet a working girl with a bad attitude, I still quite enjoy afterwards the satisfaction of thinking "well you were a bitch, but the jokes on you because I just fucked you!"

any thoughts on my slightly sick take on this?

there's almost never a bad punt in my opinion, even the worst ones leave me with the thought of "still had sex", and positive memories of being in between their legs.

Yeah. Worked for me with a Russian. Lovely face but expression like fizz. Turned her over. She’s less likely to talk and spoil the mood. It’s a bit like using her cunt as a masturbation tool but better than dealing with her bad attitude.

The only upgrade would be seeing her in full HarveyNicks make-up and hair do then come all over her face. Unfortunately her no-no response would doubtless intervene on that one.  :cool:


Offline Malvolio

Sometimes, when I have meet a working girl with a bad attitude, I still quite enjoy afterwards the satisfaction of thinking "well you were a bitch, but the jokes on you because I just fucked you!"

any thoughts on my slightly sick take on this?

there's almost never a bad punt in my opinion, even the worst ones leave me with the thought of "still had sex", and positive memories of being in between their legs.

If you're happy enough with getting your end away then fair enough, but to me bad punts leave me with the thought "should have had a wank and saved myself £100".

Offline JonasG

Shit sex doesn't give me much pleasure at all.

Then you factor in the cash and it's pretty depressing all round tbh.

It's amazing the difference between a good and bad punt, which makes the determination to avoid shit punts all the more great.

Offline bearcat69

It depends if I'm specifically looking for a P&D or expecting a GFE really.

Most the time I'm looking for and expecting a GFE though as that is what I tend to get the most enjoyment out of.

It's not like I can't get any satisfaction out of a bad punt when the girl is a bitch and only good for fucking and dumping, but it's not much satisfaction. Good and enjoyable sex for me is something that involves both participants being actively involved in. There's few things worse than a short covered unenthusiastic BJ, tense kissing, or penetration limiting shenanigans. Those are definitely not things I look back on and feel much sense of joy or satisfaction on having wasted my money on.

If I was expecting it and wasn't looking for a fancy punt, and just a cheap unload, then that's an entirely different thing though. This punt comes to mind actually, basic services, but cheap and I did enjoy fucking her, but it wasn't up to the level of a genuinely good punt.
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=152478.0
« Last Edit: April 30, 2018, 06:24:49 am by bearcat69 »

Offline Spencer Fobby

Interesting points... as long as my meagre conscience isn’t piqued (by which I mean the girl is doing it of her own free will) then her pleasure is not much of a concern sometimes. I’m reminded of a girl who was reluctant to take anal despite confirming by text. I insisted and she didn’t enjoy a moment of it. But I did and I walked away with a “just fucked you is the ass” smirk on my face.
Bit of a shitty attitude, sure, but if a girl advertises a service, then that’s her problem.
Obviously much prefer a girl who seems into it, and there’s a connection - but a ‘rapey’ mindset can help you avoid thinking it was a waste of money.
Funny thing this sex business...
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Credit on the positive thinking but a bad punt is a little like going to a bad restaurant if the service was poor and food was so so even though i may come out not feeling hungry anymore, I would still feel short changed and vow never to return and even advise any one i knew from going to it (i.e negative review on UKP)

Offline Jayne_cobb

I get no satisfaction at all from a bad punt, it's why I've completely stopped seeing Romanians (and mostly stick to tried and trusted regulars).  Thinking back to some of my truly awful punts (with Roms) makes me shudder even now.

On the flipside, deciding to walk from a grumpy looking Rom in her dressing gown and keep my cash in my pocket left me with a very warm fuzzy feeling inside.

I get lots of and lots of schadenfreude from reading negative reviews on here though - I tend to read more negatives out of sick curiosity than the positives.

Offline shagmore

If you have paid your cash and got a bad service, then I can not see any satisfaction in that. I would rather keep the money and have a wank.
I am constantly looking for new Wgs but go back to the same ones on my HL more often than not, as I know I am going to get a good service. When I do go for new then have to make sure do the research before hand to negate the possibility of a shite punt

Offline RAJEC

Saving cash and having a wank instead are the benefits of hindsight.

It’s almost impossible to predict what service you will receive or what the hygiene will be like, hence varying reviews.

By that token (and a few more intricacies, such as a punters rapport with an sp), having a shit punt and deriving some sort of satisfaction is the only way to get over it, surely?

As the saying ‘money comes, money goes’ goes, money may likely come again, but for the sp, that’s one extra notch on her bedpost. The fact that she gave a shit service indicates her displeasure at having to do this job. The money she has earned - well who knows how long that will last her?

The way I look at it, we’ll all have good and bad punts. Some may be exceptional, but to take the rough with the smooth, we have to try and enjoy everything.

Offline Marmalade

Saving cash and having a wank instead are the benefits of hindsight.

It’s almost impossible to predict what service you will receive or what the hygiene will be like, hence varying reviews.

By that token (and a few more intricacies, such as a punters rapport with an sp), having a shit punt and deriving some sort of satisfaction is the only way to get over it, surely?

As the saying ‘money comes, money goes’ goes, money may likely come again, but for the sp, that’s one extra notch on her bedpost. The fact that she gave a shit service indicates her displeasure at having to do this job. The money she has earned - well who knows how long that will last her?

The way I look at it, we’ll all have good and bad punts. Some may be exceptional, but to take the rough with the smooth, we have to try and enjoy everything.

Which is where price comes into it.

Let’s say you have £500 to spare without feeling it would be a cataclysmic loss. Like betting in a casino, an amount you can afford to lose under the heading of ‘entertainment’ or ‘pleasant relief’ or whatever one likes to call it.

1. Some punts will be good and some punts will be bad.

2. If you only visit well-reviewed prossies whose reviews you believe of course) your options rule out new, untried prossies (many of whom, in my experience can give a superior GFE).

So 500 will give you

2 punts at 250, hopefully at least one will be good. Both are likely to “have nice bedsheets”.

4 punts at 125, and only 2 need to be good for the same batting average.

10 punts at £50 which is a vastly bigger talent pool.

50 punts at £10 which is a sensible price but mostly for short time except for a few long haul destinations.

So the best way of sampling new territory is to go for the cheap end of the market (one can always “double up”). It accepts that some punts will be shit but it doesn’t matter cos they cost fuck all anyway.  :cool: :music:

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Offline RAJEC

Which is where price comes into it.

Let’s say you have £500 to spare without feeling it would be a cataclysmic loss. Like betting in a casino, an amount you can afford to lose under the heading of ‘entertainment’ or ‘pleasant relief’ or whatever one likes to call it.

1. Some punts will be good and some punts will be bad.

2. If you only visit well-reviewed prossies whose reviews you believe of course) your options rule out new, untried prossies (many of whom, in my experience can give a superior GFE).

So 500 will give you

2 punts at 250, hopefully at least one will be good. Both are likely to “have nice bedsheets”.

4 punts at 125, and only 2 need to be good for the same batting average.

10 punts at £50 which is a vastly bigger talent pool.

50 punts at £10 which is a sensible price but mostly for short time except for a few long haul destinations.

So the best way of sampling new territory is to go for the cheap end of the market (one can always “double up”). It accepts that some punts will be shit but it doesn’t matter cos they cost fuck all anyway.  :cool: :music:

 :hi:

Agree with this, and sometimes price is no indicator. I think it comes down to vibes, rapport etc.
Some sp’s may have a high ‘standard’ for ALL punters, but there will doubtless be a marked difference if she is not feeling one over another (there’s another thread on Freya I think, and a fat punter - had she actually met him he may also be complaining about having had a shit time, compared to some others who state otherwise).
I think op may have been referring to the feeling post punt, which should in theory be the same regardless. If you pay £10k for a Corsa or £100k for a Tesla, you’d assume both to get you from a to b.
The problem with theories is that they are often flawed - here is where price, I think, comes in.

Offline Bogof60

Which is where price comes into it.

Let’s say you have £500 to spare without feeling it would be a cataclysmic loss. Like betting in a casino, an amount you can afford to lose under the heading of ‘entertainment’ or ‘pleasant relief’ or whatever one likes to call it.

1. Some punts will be good and some punts will be bad.

2. If you only visit well-reviewed prossies whose reviews you believe of course) your options rule out new, untried prossies (many of whom, in my experience can give a superior GFE).

So 500 will give you

2 punts at 250, hopefully at least one will be good. Both are likely to “have nice bedsheets”.

4 punts at 125, and only 2 need to be good for the same batting average.

10 punts at £50 which is a vastly bigger talent pool.

50 punts at £10 which is a sensible price but mostly for short time except for a few long haul destinations.

So the best way of sampling new territory is to go for the cheap end of the market (one can always “double up”). It accepts that some punts will be shit but it doesn’t matter cos they cost fuck all anyway.  :cool: :music:

 :hi:

Marm
Sometimes you come out with utter crap.
Then otherimes you come out with pure gold
Above was one of your gilded ones.
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Offline Marmalade

Marm
Sometimes you come out with utter crap.
Then otherimes you come out with pure gold
Above was one of your gilded ones.

Hope you didn’t choke too badly when coming out with that ‘compliment’.  :cool:  :drinks:

Offline Analist

There are plenty of punts where I've left incensed with the bad service, but it's never been mellowed by schadenfreude. The fact that I've fucked someone, even in all three orifices, does not make me feel any better
if the service was substandard. I just feel I've been cheated and parted with some hard-earned money and pray  to the punting gods that the next one will be good.

Offline stevesimmons101

Sometimes, when I have meet a working girl with a bad attitude, I still quite enjoy afterwards the satisfaction of thinking "well you were a bitch, but the jokes on you because I just fucked you!"

any thoughts on my slightly sick take on this?

there's almost never a bad punt in my opinion, even the worst ones leave me with the thought of "still had sex", and positive memories of being in between their legs.


Ooh, I've had a few bad ones. I see where you're coming from though as there have been times when I've worked for that cum and run and felt great a great sense of achievement upon completion  :yahoo:

...then there have been quite a few totally disappointing, completely unenthusiastic, lacklustre punts that ended in walking out hard. I wish punting had the same consumer protection as the UK retail sector  :dash: :D   
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