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Offline Metalgear2018

Update: in the mornings I do get 'morning wood' which is strong.

Does that make a difference to the situation?

Offline Waterhouse

Update: in the mornings I do get 'morning wood' which is strong.

Does that make a difference to the situation?
If there is no viagra/cialis in your system in the morning, then yes.  It would indicate that the plumbing is more than likely okay and that the problem may well be psychological... most likely anxiety.  Still best to visit your GP to discuss though.

Offline PhelTGrik

That would suggest the source of your issue lies in the head atop your neck rather than the one betwixt your legs.


We've given you all the realistic insight and advice we can, in my non qualified opinion, I would err towards performance anxiety...this could be because you're trying to go into a punt with the expectation your cock works like a lifejacket, inflates when immersed in something wet.

Go see a doc, rule out anything physical. Lay off the porn and wanking and then when you're carrying your balls around in a wheelbarrow book an hour with a decently reviewed escort and take the shower/brew/massage if they offer it... basically ease into the booking.

If you have trouble maintaining an erection after this then it'll point to something phsycological ...either you've got some moral quandary about the transactional nature of paid sex or intimacy/attachment issues which may point towards punting not being for you.

Offline scutty brown

BUT FFS IGNORE THE SPECULATION HERE AND GO AND SEE A GP.
Preferably a female one - they listen better

Offline winkywanky

...and you might even get a hard-on during the consultation - good ol' NHS!  ;)

Apologies, bad taste in the circumstances :hi:
« Last Edit: October 09, 2018, 09:11:13 pm by winkywanky »

Offline threechilliman

...and you might even get a hard-on during the consultation - good ol' NHS!  ;)


I have!!

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Offline Ce95

BUT FFS IGNORE THE SPECULATION HERE AND GO AND SEE A GP.
Preferably a female one - they listen better
+1
Have seen a female gp once and two other male for my ED issue. She was by far the most caring and offered the most options. Male gp’s couldn’t care less and all they had to say try to relax it’s mental. She was more tensed than I was during the consultation though as if I am the 1st to consult her with such problem or maybe none at my age have:p she was good looking too, but not close to getting a boner during examination I DK whats wrong with me! A good looking girl touching my cock and can’t get aroused :dash:

Offline Coverdad

Update: in the mornings I do get 'morning wood' which is strong.

Does that make a difference to the situation?

This, and the fact that you can masturbate, pretty much rules out that it's a physiological problem.

You probably just have performance anxiety, which can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. You're worried that you won't be able to get hard for sex, so you don't, and then the next time you try you're even more worried, so it's even more likely to be a problem. I used to have problems getting hard with a new partner, and it was purely psychological.

The solution is to create a low stakes situation where it doesn't matter if you get hard or not. Book a full service provider you find attractive for a mutual oily massage. Tell her you don't want sex or even HR, just the massage, because you don't want to cheat on your girlfriend (who lives in Canada). Enjoy being touched and touching her and maybe talking about sex. It doesn't matter if you don't get hard, because you're just there to enjoy a massage and to store memories for the wank bank.

You may need to repeat with the same provider a few times. Familiarity helps. After a couple of visits I predict you will be getting hard and you can move on to a session finishing with HR, then one with oral, then penetration.

Offline Mr_Shins

I went through a long phase of not being able to "perform" in the period end of 2016 up to 2017 and went onto Cialis which helped me somewhat but wasn't the total solution either.

With my current regular (Melysa) I take nothing and have no problems. Perhaps one reason why I keep visiting her and why I decided hopping around wasn't working. In my difficult period I was seeing multiple different women and yes, I felt I had to perform.

I see you say you are 30. I am a fair bit older than you and have been through a long marriage where I didn't cheat sexually so had just one partner for many years and so perhaps for me that is what I am used to.

Offline nothiingtodeclare

This used to happen to me, a mix of watching to much porn and nerves. I have found cutting down on porn has helped.

Also nerves wise, a couple of times I have struggled to stay hard, this was with girls who were way out my league and I kind of built it up in my head so much nerves got the better of me. Still the meets were great fun exploring bodies, and lots of oral both ways. I met with one girl a couple more times and by the end the nerves has gone and I was able to maintain an erection fully and have full intercourse.

Offline BarryProudfoot

I buy Brazilian baby
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watermelon
from Sainsburys eat that a few hours before, 1 sugar free large can of red bull and it does help..
I get it up easily 2 times within the hour, and it gets quite hard again about an hour later whilst on way home, 3rd hard on was unheard of for me for quite a while now, so therefore luckily a very positive  improvement certainly.
Sure does help when the ladies are engaging passionately too with plenty of non stop foreplay.

BINGO!!

The natural viagra which pumps nitric oxide throughout your body :hi:

Offline BarryProudfoot

Stop watching porn, masturbating, eat healthy and drink water. Try it.