Cum & Regret

[5th Musketeer]

Pedant ! 

With five syllables, indubitably is kind of a mouthful. Here's how to say it: "in-DOO-bit-a-blee." And while it is more of an old-fashioned adverb, indubitably remains a unique way to say "undoubtedly." In fact, doubt and indubitably share a root in the Latin word dubitabilis, meaning "doubtful."
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Who's the pedant now? 

[Sattob]

Seeking arrangements, a sugar daddy/baby site 

I once joined SA. Some girls were genuinely seeking 'daddies' for long-term relationships involving financial transactions,  however, many were just chasing down guys for very short-term relationships where full intimacy was guaranteed, in exchange for them being remunerated in cash.

[Sattob]

With five syllables, indubitably is kind of a mouthful. Here's how to say it: "in-DOO-bit-a-blee." And while it is more of an old-fashioned adverb, indubitably remains a unique way to say "undoubtedly." In fact, doubt and indubitably share a root in the Latin word dubitabilis, meaning "doubtful."
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Who's the pedant now? 

I say it as 'In-DUE-bIT-aB-Lee', with the second syllable slightly different from yours. Not sure which is correct. Local variation in pronunciation?

[Scotpunter]

I cannae spell them big high falutin words.  But like the others, I only feel pissed off when a punt has been shit and I feel ripped off. Just the same as getting a bad meal.

The money itself I don't get too hung up on. I work hard, I am a seperated guy with low expenses in real life. I'm happy to treat myself to a little me time now and again

[Gregory]

I once joined SA. Some girls were genuinely seeking 'daddies' for long-term relationships involving financial transactions,  however, many were just chasing down guys for very short-term relationships where full intimacy was guaranteed, in exchange for them being remunerated in cash.

I thought these sugar daddy websites are mostly a scam by the providers to make money. Do they really work?

[Thecunninglinguist]

With five syllables, indubitably is kind of a mouthful. Here's how to say it: "in-DOO-bit-a-blee." And while it is more of an old-fashioned adverb, indubitably remains a unique way to say "undoubtedly." In fact, doubt and indubitably share a root in the Latin word dubitabilis, meaning "doubtful."
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Who's the pedant now? 

So are you undoubtedly or indubitably right then? 

[Gregory]

Can relate to this, but for me I think it's more anxiety about getting out of the place, i.e. parlour or hotel, and blending back into society. Once I'm through the door and out into the open then feeling disappears within seconds. However I've not done a normal punt for a good six months now and moved on to SA. Different ball game as I feel that I almost know the girl I'm fucking so it's a mixture of fuckbuddy and hooker which can be the best of both worlds if you get lucky.

I tend to plan most punts in advance so feeling guilty about the money side isn't an issue. And strangely if I've planned a punt and it falls through or I back out then I actually feel really good about saving the money.

same for me as mentioned. Strangely, only a few years ago masturbation helped me a lot to avoid punts, After coming I was cancelling bookings and felt great not to have wasted the time and money and avoided the health risk. I did not think about booking an escort for at least 3-4 days .These days masturbation no longer works for me - half an hour later I am browsing again.

[Gregory]

Gregory, whilst I feel for you writhing in dilemma, how about sharing information on these two hotties you mention ?

Sorry, that's a trade secret ;-), they would loose the appeal for me if I knew there was a stampede of fellow punters going for them, in particular as I am paranoid about catching an sti.

[cueball]

Sorry, that's a trade secret ;-), they would loose the appeal for me if I knew there was a stampede of fellow punters going for them, in particular as I am paranoid about catching an sti.

Well thanks for stopping by and giving us your invaluable input....not 

And

Are you saying we're a bunch of clap infected skanks?

[Shearer1955]

What a nice chap....I don't think 

[Sattob]

So are you undoubtedly or indubitably right then? 

sans any doubt...

[Sattob]

I thought these sugar daddy websites are mostly a scam by the providers to make money. Do they really work?

I could say, but I'm afraid if I let the secret out I might get an STD... 😂

Share and share alike. That's the way a forum community works

[mrbobbit]

See also: Hangovers "I am never going to drink again". 8 hours later......................

[king tarzan]

Does anyone regret going to a WG as soon as they've cum i.e. the time, money and effort spent + the hopelessness of it.

It's nothing to do with the WG but a personal feeling.

Then you say to yourself;"that's the last time". Then you forget all those feelings, get the itch and the cycle starts all over again.

Or, I'm the only one?

If I'm not, how does one break the cycle?

Thanks

Happened to me plenty of times
It's natural feeling I " think"

[glenmere]

I never regret the money being spent but I always feel that I shouldn't be doing this to the woman at home. Leading up to a punt I don't give a single fuck but afterward I have a few days of mourning for the man I always believed I would become

I think this sums up the way I feel perfectly!

[king tarzan]

I once joined SA. Some girls were genuinely seeking 'daddies' for long-term relationships involving financial transactions,  however, many were just chasing down guys for very short-term relationships where full intimacy was guaranteed, in exchange for them being remunerated in cash.

Pay your own way in life is my motto

Why should I pay for someone's else way in life in exchange for my weakness which is physical lust.
Just go to stunning escort once maybe 2 times max ( which I am doing next week) have your fun bye bye permanently and move on to next 1..

[madmania]

Sorry, that's a trade secret ;-), they would loose the appeal for me if I knew there was a stampede of fellow punters going for them.

What the fuck is the point in coming here then asshole? Take information but give nothing back? 

I am paranoid about catching an sti.

Why are you a barebacker as well? 

[vw]

Sorry, that's a trade secret ;-), they would loose the appeal for me if I knew there was a stampede of fellow punters going for them, in particular as I am paranoid about catching an sti.

I think you are a bellend making suck claims.

[5th Musketeer]

I say it as 'In-DUE-bIT-aB-Lee', with the second syllable slightly different from yours. Not sure which is correct. Local variation in pronunciation?

I use your pronunciation - I just Googled the word, took the first definition, and didn't realise it came up with the American pronunciation until you pointed it out.

[5th Musketeer]

So are you undoubtedly or indubitably right then? 

Absolutely and indisputably it is spelled that way, but pronunciation depends on where you live.

[datwabbit]

Does anyone regret going to a WG as soon as they've cum i.e. the time, money and effort spent + the hopelessness of it.

It's nothing to do with the WG but a personal feeling.

Then you say to yourself;"that's the last time". Then you forget all those feelings, get the itch and the cycle starts all over again.

Or, I'm the only one?

If I'm not, how does one break the cycle?

Thanks

Every time. But it does pass.

[Gregory]

What the fuck is the point in coming here then asshole? Take information but give nothing back? 

Why are you a barebacker as well? 

Relax madman , relax

[Gregory]

Well thanks for stopping by and giving us your invaluable input....not 

And

Are you saying we're a bunch of clap infected skanks?

not all of you, but yes those of the punter community whose reviews frequently state the unsafe practise of RO, OWO and CIM etc. Because all that carries a risk.

[Jeff_withpetersen]

If it's any consolation, I get this incredibly, incredibly badly. Like, the second I've cum, even with a gorgeous woman who is great as what she does, I go from thinking 'fuck there's nothing else in life I'd rather be doing at this second' to 'fucking hell, jesus I have to make bullshit small talk with this woman for another few minutes, where everything we both say is probably shite, and then politely leave, not to mention what else could be done with this cash and the fact her skin is probably crawling at the very thought of me'.

I don't think it's unique to punting though, I've felt the same with 'civvy' shags. Just part male physiology/psychology I guess and part something I need to (and am) working on. Happy thoughts, happy thoughts 

[Gregory]

Similar to me. One of the worst aspects of punting to me is the feeling of typically being perceived as 'unwanted', even with girls in a 'good punt'. Few girls I have met got actually wet and I am not the most unattractive, disrespectful and rude guy on the planet. quite a few girls told me that I was their favourite client in a way that I trust this was not just a marketing gimmick.
Whenever I read in a review guys stating the the girls 'came' I burst into laughter. If they really believe this they are self-delusional.
It is the distance the girls keep/have to keep to guard themselve that makes any punting stint so hopeless. Putning is not a substitute for a lack of a relationship/the sex in a relationship.   

 

[claretandblue]

not all of you, but yes those of the punter community whose reviews frequently state the unsafe practise of RO, OWO and CIM etc. Because all that carries a risk.

Doesnt sound like punting,or this site is for you 

[Jonestown]

Sorry, that's a trade secret ;-), they would loose the appeal for me if I knew there was a stampede of fellow punters going for them, in particular as I am paranoid about catching an sti.

Isnt that what you wanted, it to lose its appeal; thought you were an addict crying out for help, now here you are, still an addict, selfishly protecting your stash. And on some sort of moral high horse as well.

[Oralbgood]

Gregory, what have you actually contributed to this site?

You have apparently seen 2 delightful WGs, but won't disclose. You are worried about getting STIs from fellow punters and have as yet given any reviews.

Man up or leave 

[Sattob]

Whenever I read in a review guys stating the the girls 'came' I burst into laughter. If they really believe this they are self-delusional.

I know this guy is now banned, but I have, once for certain, made a WG orgasm. I think it caught her by surprise. The whole dynamic changed after that, as we both came at the same time. Weirdly, it felt like, for a moment (technically defined at 90 seconds) we connected. Afterwards, I felt both delighted, and guilty, the great dichotomy of punting.

[Sattob]

Man up or leave 

He was kicked off!

[CityTillIDie]

He was kicked off!

He indubitably had that coming!

CTID

[Sattob]

He indubitably had that coming!

It was fairly indubitable that he had that fate coming to him, true!

[howrude]

This was more frequent in the early days when i had less money. As for guilt over other aspects, I don't care.

[madmania]

I know this guy is now banned, but I have, once for certain, made a WG orgasm. I think it caught her by surprise. The whole dynamic changed after that, as we both came at the same time. Weirdly, it felt like, for a moment (technically defined at 90 seconds) we connected. Afterwards, I felt both delighted, and guilty, the great dichotomy of punting.

I was friends with a girl who decided to do escorting one Summer and I spoke to her about a range of things about the scene from her POV.

She said she did cum every now and again, primarily from R/O rather than sex. Also that the clients she saw who were in their 40s were the most skilled and were primarily the ones who could bring her to orgasm - old enough to know what to do yet young enough to still have the stamina to pull it off

[pumps]

I was friends with a girl who decided to do escorting one Summer and I spoke to her about a range of things about the scene from her POV.

She said she did cum every now and again, primarily from R/O rather than sex. Also that the clients she saw who were in their 40s were the most skilled and were primarily the ones who could bring her to orgasm - old enough to know what to do yet young enough to still have the stamina to pull it off

Ahh I do wonder if the day will ever come when I pay good money.... to pleasure a prossie.... 

[CityTillIDie]

Ahh I do wonder if the day will ever come when I pay good money.... to pleasure a prossie.... 

For some of us, part of the attraction is giving oral to a fresh, sexy young WG
Exploring their bodies properly

CTID

[madmania]

Ahh I do wonder if the day will ever come when I pay good money.... to pleasure a prossie.... 

I can see whilst your coming from but I enjoy it just as much as them - and helps get me revved up for when they go on me 

[Shearer1955]

Few girls I have met got actually wet and I am not the most unattractive, disrespectful and rude guy on the planet. quite a few girls told me that I was their favourite client in a way that I trust this was not just a marketing gimmick.
Whenever I read in a review guys stating the the girls 'came' I burst into laughter. If they really believe this they are self-delusional.

Gregory talks about the guys being self delusional when talking about a girls orgasms & yet believes what they say about him being their "favourite" - I don't know if he understands the hypocrisy of the statement or is he self-deluded! 

[Noah Hope]

It depended on position ,in my experience.
Missionary was often underwhelming.
Cowgirl, though,  esp while being simultaneously snogged, flooded me in oceanic bliss for ages afterwards.
- what makes it so hard to quit.
But, luckily, busty Angel LAURA's green availability light on Adultworks is off today. 
Gotta get distraction therapy .Going to the the pictures. Better not say what I'm going to see in case any Valerie Solonas-type types reading this rock up and to scan the ticket queue for suspects (Happiness is a warm gun    )

[MrMatrix]

For some of us, part of the attraction is giving oral to a fresh, sexy young WG
Exploring their bodies properly

CTID

Too right CTID. Sex is about giving as well as receiving. I love it when they've enjoyed themselves as well. Foreplay is important.

[Jonahp]

I never regret the money being spent but I always feel that I shouldn't be doing this to the woman at home. Leading up to a punt I don't give a single fuck but afterward I have a few days of mourning for the man I always believed I would become

This. For me it goes.
- Punt
- what have I done / what have I caught
- 4 weeks repeating above
- I seem to be in the clear.
- browse UKP.

[Jonestown]

This. For me it goes.
- Punt
- what have I done / what have I caught
- 4 weeks repeating above
- I seem to be in the clear.
- browse UKP.

What, and you do this for fun ?

If I had that level of paranoia I'd either find another hobby or take a long hard look at what I actually get upto with these girls and try and identify what if anything the risks involved are.

[Jonahp]

What, and you do this for fun ?

If I had that level of paranoia I'd either find another hobby or take a long hard look at what I actually get upto with these girls and try and identify what if anything the risks involved are.

I did it for fun. Enjoyed it immensely initially. Was later punts that it started.
My last review is from 2015 which was also my last punt.
It got too much so I backed off for a while. Possibly getting back on it.

[itk]

On a good punt I get none of the above feelings.... only on a shit one

Exactly the same as myself. Really pisses me off when the punt is average and I'm heading home thinking what a waste.

[Plan R]

Afterwards, I felt both delighted, and guilty, the great dichotomy of punting.

Poetic and profound. Like it 

[gingerthom]

Started to feel this more and more recently, not bad punts but more the feeling i could have have had a wank and saved the money.
It been a while since I've opened the door and thought WOW, i'm going to have sex with her
I think i'm going to save my money for more special occasions, if i add up all the mediocore punts i could afford the more expensive memorable punts

[wheeliebinwanking]

I am familiar with the feeling but not so much of late as I haven't been doing my hobby much...having said that I had a TERRIBLE massage HE lately. Honestly I would have paid myself £40 to wank me off.

But for me, it actually gets easier. And honestly, I was saying this to someone the other day see these bad experiences my mind pretty much erases them. I have to really concentrate to rememember the time I went to a crack whore prossie in a run down part of town and still managed to cum. But the good experiences stay with you

Try and take the positives and do whatever you can do to convince yourself...you have to make peace with you mind essentially

WBW

[Desimonic]

Only really get it when i been over doing it , but not often, especially after a couple of pops and you tried for another before you recovered   

[datwabbit]

Leading up to a punt I don't give a single fuck but afterward I have a few days of mourning for the man I always believed I would become

This is so good.

[wheeliebinwanking]

This is so good.

True but I myself mourn for the man I thought I 'wouldn't' become

My father was a cheating bar steward so it was in the genes....however to bang on a point. If I was getting action at home, I wouldn't need to do this

WBW