Author Topic: Do you leave your wedding ring on or off when with a girl? (Read 2379 times)

Crockers · « **on:** March 22, 2021, 06:59:53 pm »

On or off (if applicable)?

I take mine off, as looking at it takes my mind elsewhere.

cambsguy · « **Reply #1 on:** March 22, 2021, 07:04:05 pm »

Off.

I take nothing of value into a call other than punting phone and car keys. All ID and watches etc... stay in car.

PaulRuff · « **Reply #2 on:** March 22, 2021, 07:12:58 pm »

Off.

Been told by a few girls that seeing what they assume to be a wedding ring on you will usually result in them having a low(er) opinion of a punter than they normally would have...and occasionally a lower quality of service is a result too.

Shouldn't make any difference IMHO, but that's what they have told me.

threechilliman · « **Reply #3 on:** March 22, 2021, 07:29:05 pm »

On. Take it off and it would be easy to forget to put it back on or worse, leave it behind. Never really understood the taking it off thing as it wouldn't even occur to me.

The sperminator · « **Reply #4 on:** March 22, 2021, 07:44:02 pm »

Quote from: PaulRuff on March 22, 2021, 07:12:58 pm

Off.

Been told by a few girls that seeing what they assume to be a wedding ring on you will usually result in them having a low(er) opinion of a punter than they normally would have...and occasionally a lower quality of service is a result too.

Shouldn't make any difference IMHO, but that's what they have told me.

I have been asked if im married as I never wear a ring. I tell them i am, and that i am in a loveless marriage. They couldnt gove a toss and seem to give good service

Paris69 · « **Reply #5 on:** March 22, 2021, 07:47:10 pm »

I wear mine on a chain around my neck. Always have.
WG's couldn't care less tbh...... The nicer one's wont judge; the others see you as an ATM so don't care.

Fuzzyduck · « **Reply #6 on:** March 22, 2021, 07:49:20 pm »

Don't you guys have a mark on the finger where the ring normally is? I like to think that if I get married that I would knock this on the head, but I'm not naive enough to think I might have to face this dilemma sometime.

Chazz · « **Reply #7 on:** March 22, 2021, 07:50:42 pm »

I wear two rings, one on either hand. An SP once asked me if I had two wives!

PaulRuff · « **Reply #8 on:** March 22, 2021, 07:52:25 pm »

Quote from: The sperminator on March 22, 2021, 07:44:02 pm

I have been asked if im married as I never wear a ring. I tell them i am, and that i am in a loveless marriage. They couldnt gove a toss and seem to give good service

As said, given their chosen profession and the fact they're being paid I find it hard to understand but when I've spent some time with girls on a long session or an impromptu overnight and the booze flows this sort of thing tends to surface during conversations.

Wood2017 · « **Reply #9 on:** March 22, 2021, 07:52:50 pm »

Speaking as an unmarried punter i have no ring to remove. Playing devils advocate though if a punter is solely removing it for fear of 'judgement' by the escort wouldn't she more than likely see the indent where the ring was when getting closer and more intimate anyway

Maybe i'm over thinking that or maybe the punters removing their rings are lol. It's anyones guess.

Edit - Fuzzyduck had already raised the same point i was thinking. Ignore me lol.

mills_and_bhuna · « **Reply #10 on:** March 22, 2021, 08:29:20 pm »

I can't actually get mine off.
However I've never seen any evidence of a poor service due to wearing a ring.
The few times where I've had a subpar punt I pretty much assumed either they would be poor anyway or more likely thought I was too fucking ugly

PaulRuff · « **Reply #11 on:** March 22, 2021, 08:30:17 pm »

Quote from: Fuzzyduck on March 22, 2021, 07:49:20 pm

Don't you guys have a mark on the finger where the ring normally is? I like to think that if I get married that I would knock this on the head, but I'm not naive enough to think I might have to face this dilemma sometime.

My wedding ring is fairly loose, so even though it's been there for 18 years there's no mark...also take it off when sunbathing here or abroad so no tell-tale tan line either...

mgkerx · « **Reply #12 on:** March 22, 2021, 08:39:55 pm »

These are not potential girlfriends so I really don't care what they think wether I'm wearing a ring or not,However, my biggest fear would be removing the ring and then loosing it at the SP's flat Imagine trying to explain that way with the OH

davxx · « **Reply #13 on:** March 22, 2021, 09:20:56 pm »

Quote from: Fuzzyduck on March 22, 2021, 07:49:20 pm

Don't you guys have a mark on the finger where the ring normally is? I like to think that if I get married that I would knock this on the head, but I'm not naive enough to think I might have to face this dilemma sometime.

During a punt a number of years ago the SP mentioned about the tell tale mark left on the finger by a ring, she could not care less as most of them are interested in the cash....

Fac51 · « **Reply #14 on:** March 22, 2021, 10:58:43 pm »

Quote from: mgkerx on March 22, 2021, 08:39:55 pm

These are not potential girlfriends so I really don't care what they think wether I'm wearing a ring or not,However, my biggest fear would be removing the ring and then loosing it at the SP's flat Imagine trying to explain that way with the OH

Totally agree

sparkus · « **Reply #15 on:** March 22, 2021, 11:02:41 pm »

Quote from: PaulRuff on March 22, 2021, 07:12:58 pm

Off.

Been told by a few girls that seeing what they assume to be a wedding ring on you will usually result in them having a low(er) opinion of a punter than they normally would have...and occasionally a lower quality of service is a result too.

Shouldn't make any difference IMHO, but that's what they have told me.

One said to me she thought all men were dumb and had too much money if they could punt, it later turned out she was married herself.

centry · « **Reply #16 on:** March 22, 2021, 11:12:46 pm »

Quote from: PaulRuff on March 22, 2021, 07:12:58 pm

Off.

Been told by a few girls that seeing what they assume to be a wedding ring on you will usually result in them having a low(er) opinion of a punter than they normally would have...and occasionally a lower quality of service is a result too.

Shouldn't make any difference IMHO, but that's what they have told me.

I really really really doubt it. As if an actual whore's going to judge your life decisions, and not think about their own questionable one.

Brumish · « **Reply #17 on:** March 22, 2021, 11:51:39 pm »

On. Everytime. Think some even get off on the fact that they're fucking a married guy. Most SBs (mainly students) are kinky fucks that will start conversations on wedlock whilst in the middle of snogging and sucking.

Crockers · « **Reply #18 on:** March 23, 2021, 12:01:36 am »

I like the idea of wearing a ring on a necklace.

snaitram99 · « **Reply #19 on:** March 23, 2021, 05:16:09 am »

There have been previous threads on this - put wedding ring in search box.

Can only get mine off with difficulty and would leave an obvious mark, so no point. Occasionally commented on but just in conversation, not had disapproving comments. I'm not looking to marry the SP. May be useful to deflect some Thai ladies who I am told are sometimes looking to marry a Brit (although many seem to have done that already).

Retired WG I used to see kept hers on.

Stevelondon · « **Reply #20 on:** March 23, 2021, 06:28:53 am »

Quote from: PaulRuff on March 22, 2021, 07:12:58 pm

Off.

Been told by a few girls that seeing what they assume to be a wedding ring on you will usually result in them having a low(er) opinion of a punter than they normally would have...and occasionally a lower quality of service is a result too.

Shouldn't make any difference IMHO, but that's what they have told me.

What a load of bollocks.
As if a SP is going to care one way or the other if a punter is married, single, bi, widower or a Catholic priest for that matter.

Personally being unmarried. I always put on a wedding ring before a punt.
Because a few girls I have seen always give a reduced service to blokes they think are sad single types who can't get a fuck on civvie street.

Vic69 · « **Reply #21 on:** March 23, 2021, 06:46:04 am »

Quote from: PaulRuff on March 22, 2021, 07:12:58 pm

Off.

Been told by a few girls that seeing what they assume to be a wedding ring on you will usually result in them having a low(er) opinion of a punter than they normally would have...and occasionally a lower quality of service is a result too.

Shouldn't make any difference IMHO, but that's what they have told me.

Speaking for myself (and I would imagine a lot of other WG) it doesn't make a blind bit of difference to my opinion or my service if you are married or not.

Fuzzyduck · « **Reply #22 on:** March 23, 2021, 06:47:31 am »

Interesting to hear the discussion around what the SP thinks and whether that affects service or not. For me, it would be more about how I feel about wearing a ring and fucking someone else. I'm sure I would get over it.

I've been queried many times about my (lack of) marital status and figure it's part of the navigation you sometimes have to do when SPs try to psychoanalyze you. For some girls, they despise being a whore and despise men who see whores. The wedding ring is just the icing on the cake.

alabama1 · « **Reply #23 on:** March 23, 2021, 07:22:48 am »

Quote from: davxx on March 22, 2021, 09:20:56 pm

During a punt a number of years ago the SP mentioned about the tell tale mark left on the finger by a ring, she could not care less as most of them are interested in the cash....

I would substitute the word "most" with "all"

Tongue in Cheeks · « **Reply #24 on:** March 23, 2021, 07:23:06 am »

Always on because I don’t give a fuck, metaphorically of course because I do, what the WG thinks or says.

I have had a meet with one WG that is married, a swinger and her husband encourages her to go out and fuck whoever she wants. I just hope that if we meet again she doesn’t want her husband to join in.

stevedave · « **Reply #25 on:** March 23, 2021, 08:25:39 am »

I'm not married (thankfully

) but if I was, the ring would stay on.

I've seen too many shitty soap operas, movies etc where a fella playing away takes his wedding ring off and loses it

RAJEC · « **Reply #26 on:** March 23, 2021, 08:37:24 am »

I’m not married either, but if I was I wouldn’t wear it to or during a punt.

There’s too many risks with punting as it is (punting phone being one remedy). But if ever you crossed paths with a vicious sp, there’s nothing stopping them using your marital status as collateral in a potential ransom game.

I admit this is a far fetched and rather unlikely scenario, however in this game one must try and be prepared for almost anything.

Whiteknight · « **Reply #27 on:** March 23, 2021, 08:47:39 am »

Leave it on, wouldn't like to leave it behind.

It makes no difference to the SP anyway.

JimmySW · « **Reply #28 on:** March 23, 2021, 09:00:57 am »

Quote from: mills_and_bhuna on March 22, 2021, 08:29:20 pm

I can't actually get mine off.
However I've never seen any evidence of a poor service due to wearing a ring.
The few times where I've had a subpar punt I pretty much assumed either they would be poor anyway or more likely thought I was too fucking ugly

+1!

PaulRuff · « **Reply #29 on:** March 23, 2021, 09:01:52 am »

Quote from: centry on March 22, 2021, 11:12:46 pm

I really really really doubt it. As if an actual whore's going to judge your life decisions, and not think about their own questionable one.

So, you're free to make a judgement on her choice but she's definitely not going to do the same to you... interesting...

FLYING BLUE · « **Reply #30 on:** March 23, 2021, 09:08:21 am »

I leave mine on.
I've not taken it off for close to 20 years, even though I am single (widower) - I won't take it off for anybody.
It's a constant reminder of very happy times.

It has prompted several WGs to ask if I was married - my reply used to baffle them (deliberate) - "Married? - technically yes I suppose, however, I'm single"

sparkus · « **Reply #31 on:** March 23, 2021, 09:55:55 am »

Some single women wear rings on that finger to 'deter' approaches from men.

Doc Holliday · « **Reply #32 on:** March 23, 2021, 10:53:50 am »

Quote from: Crockers on March 23, 2021, 12:01:36 am

I like the idea of wearing a ring on a necklace.

Yes I did this for many years, as it avoided the need to constantly having to take it off when working and risk losing it. Now long retired I wear it on the finger all the time .. although it is a different ring to the first one.

Lou2019 · « **Reply #33 on:** March 23, 2021, 12:04:44 pm »

Quote from: PaulRuff on March 22, 2021, 07:12:58 pm

Off.

Been told by a few girls that seeing what they assume to be a wedding ring on you will usually result in them having a low(er) opinion of a punter than they normally would have...and occasionally a lower quality of service is a result too.

Shouldn't make any difference IMHO, but that's what they have told me.

what a load of crap, IMHO

Jonestown · « **Reply #34 on:** March 23, 2021, 12:23:57 pm »

I'd imagine most SPs can tell if a guy is married just by looking at him and maybe a few minutes conversation, a ring would just confirm their opinion.

Rochelle · « **Reply #35 on:** March 23, 2021, 12:28:41 pm »

Quote from: PaulRuff on March 22, 2021, 07:12:58 pm

Off.

Been told by a few girls that seeing what they assume to be a wedding ring on you will usually result in them having a low(er) opinion of a punter than they normally would have...and occasionally a lower quality of service is a result too.

Shouldn't make any difference IMHO, but that's what they have told me.

What? I've never heard that before. Sounds ridiculous, judgemental, and hypocritical. Even if they do judge, it shouldn't affect the service given.

Rochelle · « **Reply #36 on:** March 23, 2021, 12:37:48 pm »

Quote from: centry on March 22, 2021, 11:12:46 pm

I really really really doubt it. As if an actual whore's going to judge your life decisions, and not think about their own questionable one.

Not that I agree with them judging, but why can't they? They're not the ones cheating.
People judge people all the time, rightly or wrongly.

Criminals in jail judge paedophiles...just an example.

Doc Holliday · « **Reply #37 on:** March 23, 2021, 12:45:03 pm »

Quote from: Jonestown on March 23, 2021, 12:23:57 pm

I'd imagine most SPs can tell if a guy is married just by looking at him

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advent2016 · « **Reply #38 on:** March 23, 2021, 01:08:03 pm »

Never worn a wedding ring regularly and only at home. Many work roles a wedding ring or jewellery was forbidden or foolhardy. Now I have a shrapnel wound on my left hand it's even more difficult. Good conversation starter though.

Bebebelle · « **Reply #39 on:** March 23, 2021, 01:34:32 pm »

Quote from: centry on March 22, 2021, 11:12:46 pm

I really really really doubt it. As if an actual whore's going to judge your life decisions, and not think about their own questionable one.

Well speaking as a “whore” I can definitely say that I don’t make any judgement on any client that walks through my door, in fact I presume they will be married as the vast majority are. It doesn’t bother me at all if he’s wearing a ring , he will get the same service as the guy who turns up who is single and not wearing a ring. We provide our services because there is a market there and we are happy to provide those services that the wives are refusing to do, often for years. So maybe you think my decision to do this as a job is “questionable” but if it wasn’t for women like me and all the other WG’s, you and many others on this site wouldn’t enjoy the benefits of sharing intimacy and hopefully great sex with a real women and not just your hand.

centry · « **Reply #40 on:** March 23, 2021, 01:50:13 pm »

Quote from: Rochelle on March 23, 2021, 12:37:48 pm

Not that I agree with them judging, but why can't they? They're not the ones cheating.
People judge people all the time, rightly or wrongly.

Criminals in jail judge paedophiles...just an example.

My reply was in context to someone saying that the Sex Provider in question will give lower service standards to a client that is found cheating, I view escorts as a little more open-minded than the average Karen walking down the street so I doubted this would happen.

"They're not the ones cheating"

Cheating is morally wrong by society's standards, but what of being an escort? By that standard, both the punter and the escort are in the wrong, but what you've just implied is that the punter is the greater of the two evils.

Not that I believe any of it is evil.

"Criminals in jail judge paedophiles...just an example"

Bad example, you've just compared your situation as an escort to mentally unstable convicts whom steal, murder, rape, and do other heinous activities.

centry · « **Reply #41 on:** March 23, 2021, 02:09:18 pm »

Quote from: Bebebelle on March 23, 2021, 01:34:32 pm

Well speaking as a “whore” I can definitely say that I don’t make any judgement on any client that walks through my door, in fact I presume they will be married as the vast majority are. It doesn’t bother me at all if he’s wearing a ring , he will get the same service as the guy who turns up who is single and not wearing a ring. We provide our services because there is a market there and we are happy to provide those services that the wives are refusing to do, often for years. So maybe you think my decision to do this as a job is “questionable” but if it wasn’t for women like me and all the other WG’s, you and many others on this site wouldn’t enjoy the benefits of sharing intimacy and hopefully great sex with a real women and not just your hand.

You seem to have taken a real problem with the word "questionable", my point was to drive home the fact that I doubted there was any judgement going on at all as both parties are practically in the 'wrong' (at least by society's standards), one for being a cheating partner and the other for sharing intimacy in exchange for money.

I don't believe any of whom participate in the exchange are in the wrong either, but questionable yes, I often ask myself once or twice a year of why I'm participating in this bizarre world of paid-sex, and I extremely doubt that only the clients/punters ask themselves that question.

Lou2019 · « **Reply #42 on:** March 23, 2021, 04:11:12 pm »

Quote from: Bebebelle on March 23, 2021, 01:34:32 pm

Well speaking as a “whore” I can definitely say that I don’t make any judgement on any client that walks through my door, in fact I presume they will be married as the vast majority are. It doesn’t bother me at all if he’s wearing a ring , he will get the same service as the guy who turns up who is single and not wearing a ring. We provide our services because there is a market there and we are happy to provide those services that the wives are refusing to do, often for years. So maybe you think my decision to do this as a job is “questionable” but if it wasn’t for women like me and all the other WG’s, you and many others on this site wouldn’t enjoy the benefits of sharing intimacy and hopefully great sex with a real women and not just your hand.

Lou2019 · « **Reply #43 on:** March 23, 2021, 04:15:12 pm »

Quote from: Rochelle on March 23, 2021, 12:37:48 pm

Not that I agree with them judging, but why can't they? They're not the ones cheating.
People judge people all the time, rightly or wrongly.

Criminals in jail judge paedophiles...just an example.

not exactly a fair comparison is it, odd

Tom1976 · « **Reply #44 on:** March 23, 2021, 04:15:15 pm »

I have had sex with service providers wearing Wedding rings.

Horny AF....

Stevelondon · « **Reply #45 on:** March 23, 2021, 04:20:08 pm »

Quote from: Tom1976 on March 23, 2021, 04:15:15 pm

I have had sex with service providers wearing Wedding rings.

Horny AF....

Me too......I always give them a reduced service

Hobbit · « **Reply #46 on:** March 23, 2021, 04:32:48 pm »

It would be good if they could invent a wedding ring that turns into a cock ring. But it would need to be stretchable. That would solve the dilemma.

sparkus · « **Reply #47 on:** March 23, 2021, 05:11:50 pm »

Quote from: Tom1976 on March 23, 2021, 04:15:15 pm

I have had sex with service providers wearing Wedding rings.

Horny AF....

I've done it with WGs with pics of hubby up on the wall.

Doc Holliday · « **Reply #48 on:** March 23, 2021, 05:35:59 pm »

Quote from: Hobbit on March 23, 2021, 04:32:48 pm

It would be good if they could invent a wedding ring that turns into a cock ring. But it would need to be stretchable.

Yes ... when you take it off your cock you would need to be able to stretch it over your knuckle

PaulRuff · « **Reply #49 on:** March 23, 2021, 07:15:32 pm »

Quote from: Lou2019 on March 23, 2021, 12:04:44 pm

what a load of crap, IMHO

Since we've a SP referring to 'cheating' punters a couple of posts after yours I'd say it isn't really is it?

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Author Topic: Do you leave your wedding ring on or off when with a girl? (Read 2379 times)