Keeping a new find secret

[Pete556]

You haven't read and understood my final paragraph.

I covered shops in general in my 3rd paragraph, i.e. we know what goes on in most of them, the owners/management know what goes on, the police and local authorities know too and yet they survive .... although sometimes there are clamp downs leading to shop closures.

The point I've made throughout is there are some shops, studios which are 100% legit ..... except sometimes you'll discover a lady who will provide "extras", without the knowledge of the owners/managment.  If these ladies are openly talked about then, once owners/managenent become aware, then those ladies will get kicked out. You have "outed" them in the same way as if you had published the address of a FS lady (which is against the rules here).

The risk is theirs - Shop/Legit/whatever. No difference in my opinion.

[houseboot]

The risk is theirs - Shop/Legit/whatever. No difference in my opinion.

No it's not.

Punters like you and azrael really need to think this through and understand the  consequences of how and what you report.

The rules are quite clear in terms of SPs :-

"- Privacy of service providers

* It is not allowed to post personal info of service providers, such as real names and personal social networking profiles.
* General description of incall locations is acceptable, but not specific house numbers or street names or postcodes."

In terms of FBSM providers it works basically in reverse.

The locations are known, therefore you have to be careful about the identities.

As I've stated before, but I'll add a bit more clarity for you because you're still not getting it, Chinese, Thai shops are one thing ..... something like a Beauty Shop, Hairdressers or Practice rooms (where you might have Counsellors, Chiropractors etc working in the adjoining rooms) is completely different.

[azrael]

No it's not.

Punters like you and azrael really need to think this through and understand the  consequences of how and what you report.

The rules are quite clear in terms of SPs :-

"- Privacy of service providers

* It is not allowed to post personal info of service providers, such as real names and personal social networking profiles.
* General description of incall locations is acceptable, but not specific house numbers or street names or postcodes."

In terms of FBSM providers it works basically in reverse.

The locations are known, therefore you have to be careful about the identities.

As I've stated before, but I'll add a bit more clarity for you because you're still not getting it, Chinese, Thai shops are one thing ..... something like a Beauty Shop, Hairdressers or Practice rooms (where you might have Counsellors, Chiropractors etc working in the adjoining rooms) is completely different.

As i said before

Each to thier own i guess, shame though this site is for punters and if this is the sign of the times then 

If a service provider chooses to go down the route of offering extras then that her choice, as it becomes my choice to review as i wont see her any different to a w.g

[houseboot]

As i said before

If a service provider chooses to go down the route of offering extras then that her choice, as it becomes my choice to review as i wont see her any different to a w.g

So you're comfortable "outing" ladies ? 

Shame on you 

[Pete556]

As i said before

If a service provider chooses to go down the route of offering extras then that her choice, as it becomes my choice to review as i wont see her any different to a w.g

Agreed.

Azrael and I have agreed not to ask our hairdressers for a happy ending next time we go!

 

[houseboot]

Agreed.

Azrael and I have agreed not to ask our hairdressers for a happy ending next time we go!

 

I think Beamer has a word to describe you.

I'm too much of a gentleman to use it.

[RedditchJay]

no.... put all my punts on here..... dont tend to punt much so any little hidden secret would be a long time waiting... plus.... love the chance to try someone new

[azrael]

So you're comfortable "outing" ladies ? 

Shame on you 

Maybe you need a new hobby? Theres a long list of reviews for fbsm do you believe they've outed the ladies?  Theres a word im thinking of its starts with a w finishes with a t

[dog999]

Maybee this is why SEBCO has posted ,'Birmingham has hit an all time low!'. Perhaps there are plenty of great service providers out their after all.

[houseboot]

Maybe you need a new hobby? Theres a long list of reviews for fbsm do you believe they've outed the ladies?  Theres a word im thinking of its starts with a w finishes with a t

Indeed there are a long list of FBSM reviews.

However, in line with the OP I posted the circumstances when it is advisable to keep thing secret, under the radar.

Unfortunately you seem to have difficulty comprehending the scenarios quoted which is worrying.

[pbrown355]

Houseboot is quoting one particular set of circumstances where he feels it is reasonable to withhold. Whether some of us agree or disagree is the cause of some debate.
The original post was not, as far as I can see, about that set of circumstances, it was about straightforward FS. If members are withholding reviews it doesn't make them much better than those we are constantly berating as leeches.
If we all do it we have no site.

[Littlefoot]

Houseboot is quoting one particular set of circumstances where he feels it is reasonable to withhold. Whether some of us agree or disagree is the cause of some debate.
The original post was not, as far as I can see, about that set of circumstances, it was about straightforward FS. If members are withholding reviews it doesn't make them much better than those we are constantly berating as leeches.
If we all do it we have no site.

I think it is about FBSM and FS. 

[houseboot]

The original post was not, as far as I can see, about that set of circumstances, it was about straightforward FS.

See Reply 2 where the OP responded to the question posed in Reply 1.

[pbrown355]

Point taken. However the thread seems to move away from there to comments which don't appear to be FBSM, just about WG in general although it's not been made clear in each post.
Each site member can quite make up their own mind whether to review any encounter or not. None of us have any moral high ground on which to stand on this subject, to me it's only about the practicality of a review site if people are selective about what they review.

[Tantric_mat]

I have posted quite a few reviews and commented on others but there are a couple of Massage providers who to the outside world are legit but having built a long term rapport the boundaries have moved and extras have been offered.

Would I share details with you all? No because it would only take one idiot to charge in with the newly found knowledge and set back any trust I had built. Also don’t assume the legit (or very discrete)providers don’t check this site.

I made the mistake of posting about a massage provider who was offering extras. They got in trouble with the place they were working out of and also worked out I was one of the people who’d posted about her. The result was some very uncomfortable text messages and me feeling like an idiot for blowing a good thing!

[Beamer]

Interesting thread.
I have posted reviews where I feel comfortable to do so......
But I agree that there are idiots on here who would go charging in stating e.g. "Oh I see you offer xyz now" hence I do not post anything too explicit, mainly for my own agro free meet the next time I am fucking a so called legit or semi legit SP.
However I have often shared some additional information via PM with punters i trust - after all isnt that what the PM facility is for?

[Sebco]

Going back to to my original thread, I never said there are no good punts out there, it’s just there were richer pickings in the past. As for reviews u all got to agree this site is so important as we call all flag up rip off or unhealthy girls. If see a girl I like, will come on here to see if she got bad reviews and base my judgment on that. I tend not to look at the positives as much as that can be so subjective to the individual.

[walrus70]

I’m wondering if I know the masseuse in question... had one review on here but reviewed as legitimate

[oldmanking]

While I can understand the benefits of withholding the odd special lady now & then; doesn't it also go against the whole idea of this forum in the first place by doing so?  The idea is to share, for the benefit of us users to get a better vfm & experience, but also for the ladies to get to earn a bit more money with a regular flow of guys willing to pay for their 'extras'?

[temptation]

Yes when it's a well known woman, full disclosure is fine and helps everyone.
But I can see the original point that if someone is a supposedly legit massage but after a few visits they offer more but ask you to keep it secret I would to save them from problems from their family (Google is a powerful tool)

[brandonpete]

Following on or elaborating on a couple of points made....
1) This is a forum for both review and discussion and without one the other makes the forum redundant.
2)  Like others have mentioned,I also do not give 'full' and explicit details of my 'paid for' service,just an overview of what occurred.Sp's may have asked us not to
     detail certain aspects of our visits in order to protect themselves or their families from embarrassment or financial demands from pimps or parlour operators.
3)  However there are at least 2 Sp's that I've reviewed on here,that due to increased business stopped working.For me that was a bloody awful shame,but it
     happens.But,everything taken into consideration,the money that I've saved thanks to peoples reviews on here MUST run into several hundreds if not, at least a
     thousand pounds,and I expect that to continue.
4)  Do your review,relate your experience,but I don't want to know if an SP lets you 'Lick her out "but please don't review it,as my partner thinks I keep that for
      only". I don't want to know if she let you fuck her BB for extra dosh,as you'll only put "we nearly did" on the review and the girl will get 'slagged on here.So
     keep your details to a minimum. A lot of SP's 'give' more to some OP's than others,in the same way that we 'try' for more,both based on a "do I fancy him/Her"
     principle or "I'm not doing 'xyz' with him/her,as he/she stinks,ugly,untrustworthy etc.
5)  But above all...Don't come on here saying "ooo I've got a favorite and she let's me do xy and z for fuck all and Nah Nah Na Na you don't know who she iiiiiisss
     and I'm not telling " because that will and does FUCK ME OFF!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                             

[houseboot]

While I can understand the benefits of withholding the odd special lady now & then; doesn't it also go against the whole idea of this forum in the first place by doing so?  The idea is to share, for the benefit of us users to get a better vfm & experience, but also for the ladies to get to earn a bit more money with a regular flow of guys willing to pay for their 'extras'?

If a lady advertises services of a sexual nature, e.g. on AW or Vivastreet-Adult, then, yes, this site exists to Review how good those services were and, perhaps, to highlight when a service advertised was not provided.

If a lady does NOT advertise any service of a sexual nature, e.g. just advertises on Gumtree, then some thought needs to take place as to whether disclosure here is appropriate or not. Care and consideration is required in such circumstances.

[dog999]

If a lady advertises services of a sexual nature, e.g. on AW or Vivastreet-Adult, then, yes, this site exists to Review how good those services were and, perhaps, to highlight when a service advertised was not provided.

If a lady does NOT advertise any service of a sexual nature, e.g. just advertises on Gumtree, then some thought needs to take place as to whether disclosure here is appropriate or not. Care and consideration is required in such circumstances.

Correct!.

[KarmaPolice]

I don't blame people for not reviewing, but it would seem the chat about how poor Birmingham is for escorts might be misplaced if this thread is anything to go by

+1

[Spurt]

The Landlord in my local gives me a pint on the house every so often. I do not publicise this, but still advise others that it is a decent Pub.