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Online Birdwatcher61

Over the years I have had regulars for a while then moved on. Is it me that usually sex with a regular is not as good as with a one off?

Offline Longlife

Ihave found the opposite. I have a regular who no longer advertises and the sex with her is much better than the odd one offs I've had

Online Waterhouse

Is sex better with regulars?

For me, yes.  Much.

Why else would they be regulars?

Offline Hobbit

Stop Trolling and go back to school.  :dash: :dash:

It's a ridiculous question and I'm sure it's been discussed many times.
« Last Edit: December 27, 2018, 11:37:15 am by Hobbit »

Offline peter purves

Over the years I have had regulars for a while then moved on. Is it me that usually sex with a regular is not as good as with a one off?

With  conventional thinking, one might think so in the punting and out of the punting world but I am not so sure

I guess I haven't answered the question  :rolleyes:
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Yeah it’s a question that will he different for everyone. The answer I mean.

If you see a girl regularly you must do that cos you like it surely.

I’m not sure I see someone regularly but I do return to her quite often.

For others the mystery of someone new might play a huge part in the punt.
The anticipation thing has been spoken about on here before.

Offline Winker121

I would say that it is for the first ten or fifteen appointments but then the girl starts to think that you will continue to book her anyway so makes progressively less effort to give you a good time. Things just go downhill from there.

Offline Punterperson1971

Yeah it’s a question that will he different for everyone. The answer I mean.

If you see a girl regularly you must do that cos you like it surely.

I’m not sure I see someone regularly but I do return to her quite often.

For others the mystery of someone new might play a huge part in the punt.
The anticipation thing has been spoken about on here before.
I think so as i don’t feel so nervous like when you’re seeing a new wg for first time,also a punt with a regular other week allowed me a quick fuck and off with Jonny and cum in her mouth with no complaints from her,I couldn’t do that with a new wg.
« Last Edit: December 27, 2018, 01:38:29 pm by Punterperson1971 »

Offline dumbo25

Sex with a regular is nice  :yahoo: Its always going to be good otherwise you would not see them again. But punting is about variety and trying different experiences..otherwise u may aswell find a partner or wife!

Offline OakTree

I would say that it is for the first ten or fifteen appointments but then the girl starts to think that you will continue to book her anyway so makes progressively less effort to give you a good time. Things just go downhill from there.

One of the reasons I’ve never entertained the idea of having a regular. Plus the fact I prefer a different woman every time. On the odd occasion I have been back, I’ve found that the first and second time may be outstanding but by the third the foot has come off the gas a bit. To be fair some of that may well be down to me losing interest but none the less the previous enthusiasm does seem to wane.

Offline peter purves

One of the reasons I’ve never entertained the idea of having a regular. Plus the fact I prefer a different woman every time. On the odd occasion I have been back, I’ve found that the first and second time may be outstanding but by the third the foot has come off the gas a bit. To be fair some of that may well be down to me losing interest but none the less the previous enthusiasm does seem to wane.


3 is generally the magic number for me to produce the 'Coolidge Effect'

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Offline Winker121

Sex with a regular is nice  :yahoo: Its always going to be good otherwise you would not see them again. But punting is about variety and trying different experiences..otherwise u may aswell find a partner or wife!
Yes indeed but just because you have a regular (or two) doesn't mean that you can't mix it up by hiring various other girls.

Offline workinallweek


 I prefer the mutual 'trust' with a regular  but what do i know ....
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Offline Trotter671

Sex with a regular is nice  :yahoo: Its always going to be good otherwise you would not see them again. But punting is about variety and trying different experiences..otherwise u may aswell find a partner or wife!

+1 - this is pretty much my take on it :hi: Variety is the spice of life (read that somewhere! :)) but I have had fantastic punts with girls I have seen a number of times.

Offline stewpid

I usually mix things up between regulars and new girls but have found myself turning to regulars more this year particularly as I found a great new one this year where the sex has been amazing on every visit (10 times this year).

However I have had some previous regulars where I have felt the effort has lessened over the course of visits and one reg I used to visit quite a lot I have barely seen this year.

I like the thrill of new girls but most of my experiments this year have not beaten experiences with tried and trusted regs despite the excitement of podging a new body.

Offline Anadin

It's always better with a regular imho. It's comfortable and convenient. They know what I want and like. Don't have to worry about cleanliness, weird restrictions after paying, getting canned at the last minute and if you're lucky you get rates locked in which is awesome given how much rises happened as they get more popular. If I'd had my way I'd have maybe 6 or 7 regulars and wouldn't bother with new WGs.

But punting is about variety and trying different experiences..otherwise u may aswell find a partner or wife!

Nah punting is about paying for exactly what you want, it's not comparable to having a partner.
« Last Edit: December 27, 2018, 07:09:58 pm by Anadin »

Offline Lp1975

A few regulars with the occasional one-offs to keep updated.

In my case (in London), I find the general deterioration of the scene swayed me into having a few regulars.

It’s a bit like the restaurant scene in London really - some times too many new offerings pop up, but it’s very much hit and miss. And there is some level of comfort of going to a tried and tested regular - better the devil you know etc etc


Offline cueball

With regs, the second punt onwards is usually better and it's a lot easier to organise, both know who's at either side of the door and you can relax more.

But, I do like a new face, there is nothing quite like getting inside a lasses knickers that you've known for only a couple of minutes  :D

Online mr.bluesky

I prefer the mutual 'trust' with a regular  but what do i know ....

+1 at least sex with a regular you know what to expect for your bucks and what the service is going to be like. Too many just happy to take your money without putting in the effort. I've seen a regular lady for many years , she knows what turns me on and I know her limits

Offline S.X. MacHine

Yep. Regulars all the way.
I've three who cater to my perversions, being themselves perverts. I know their likes, they know mine and organising meets is easy peasy, so it's win, win, win....

Offline shyboy1

I had a regular girl for a couple of years and the sex just got better and better!
Since she retired a couple of years ago I’ve not managed to find anyone who I’ve fancied as a regular apart from one lady down south but unfortunately distance is against us.
Think that’s why I’ve cut down on amount of punts now, I miss having someone who can read me and know what I’m thinking.
I also found that rather than sex getting stale as time went on we just kept getting filthier.
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Online the_exile

Yes, better sex with a regular. Very exciting meeting & having sex with someone for the first time but the sex is better when you get to know someone a bit

Online Waterhouse

Sex with a regular is nice  :yahoo: Its always going to be good otherwise you would not see them again. But punting is about variety and trying different experiences..otherwise u may aswell find a partner or wife!
Crap. 

I have a wife who I love dearly but no longer has the same priorities or shares the same sexual needs as I do, nor the same sense of sexual adventure or non-vanila kinks I like.  So seeing escorts outside of the matrimonial home is about whatever you need or want it to be.  Some guys will want a regular girl for vanilla or otherwise meets; some will be into the whole varied and variety/spice of life aspect of it. For others it will simply be a variety/different experience/numbers/notches on the headboard game.  We're all different and engaging in this great game for different reasons.

Myself I like the familiarity and reliability of a regular lady who also happens to be able to provide different experiences, variety and some of the spices of life that set my taste-buds alight.

It's all about what you want out of the SS/SP game and it simply cannot be pigeonholed.  Far, far more shades of grey for all participating, both as SPs and SSs.

Offline InMefan

For me personally sex has been better with a regular mainly because I've gotten more comfortable around them and don't feel too nervous etc.

Online WARSZAWA16

For me personally sex has been better with a regular mainly because I've gotten more comfortable around them and don't feel too nervous etc.

That's pretty much it for me too.

Offline The Owl

Over the years I have had regulars for a while then moved on. Is it me that usually sex with a regular is not as good as with a one off?

It depends on the reg. One escort I had multiple times ended up being a case of diminishing returns, another has stayed a lot of fun as she figured out what I liked and seemed more opening about what gets her off too. It all comes down to the escort.

Offline delete

I had a few regular SP over the years and I have always ended up having better sex with them

In the past I have also learned what the SP like which added to the sessions as I like them to have a good time too
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Offline jordan452

Obviously sex is better with regulars as they know what you like and their more comfortable around you. At the same time every SP has their boundaries, it feels great to explore and to be introduced to new things by a new SP. I need a mixture.

Offline threechilliman

With regs, the second punt onwards is usually better and it's a lot easier to organise, both know who's at either side of the door and you can relax more.

But, I do like a new face, there is nothing quite like getting inside a lasses knickers that you've known for only a couple of minutes  :D
Sums my thoughts up perfectly!

Offline Bogof60

+1 on that. :thumbsup:

A mixture is what does it for me.
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Offline poundstock

I’ve never really understood what constitutes a regular. My twice a year might have me thinking I’m a regular but my escort may be thinking “Bloody hell. Thought he was dead” Anyway I can’t generalise. I love returning without exception, but I have enjoyed some superb first time visits this year which should result in returns in 2019.

Offline Josler

In my early years of punting the lure of someone new was the driving factor.
As I have got older I now limit mysel to a couple of regular ladies and have built up a good rapport over a couple of years.

I (and they) now what to expect and it is now my preference, entirely anxiety free

Offline ShadowProclamation

Yes and no. I have one regular I feel very comfortable with, but the excitement of the first visit can never be matched. The solution to this is to also visit other SPs, not seen before. That way you get the best of both worlds.

Online Steely Dan

As others have said, the question is the wrong way round.  Do you have as regulars the ones who always give better sex?  Yes.

I had one regular where the sex was not so good one day.  Didn't go back for eight months.  But went back 2 months ago - was awesome.  Been back twice more.  BTW, there was no awkwardness with the gap - like a restaurant, always happy to have my money.

Offline User176

Yes.

It's less awkward, they seem less nervous because they know who you are, you know how to get to the location (for an incall), and comms are smoother. And most importantly, they know what you like.

And if they were bad, well...they wouldn't be a regular in the first place. The same logic applies to eating out. I wouldn't return to a restaurant that gave me food poisoning; why would anyone return to a bad WG?

Online Waterhouse

Yes.

It's less awkward, they seem less nervous because they know who you are, you know how to get to the location (for an incall), and comms are smoother. And most importantly, they know what you like.

And if they were bad, well...they wouldn't be a regular in the first place. The same logic applies to eating out. I wouldn't return to a restaurant that gave me food poisoning; why would anyone return to a bad WG?
Bingo!
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Offline Bond

The best sex I've ever had was with regulars.

Offline thefoxman

Depends how regular, if my visits are under a month apart,
then 2nd/3rd gets better but after that they get too comfortable, and a little "lazy".

If I leave it a few months, this doesn't tend to happen at all, probably enough time for it to be fresh for both of us.

Works well for me ....!


Offline Beamer

The best sex I've ever had was with regulars.

Absolutely agree.
I have three regulars and they all get better over time.

Offline Donnie69

I find sex with regulars is definitely better. I have one main regular who doesn't advertise anymore.

Sometimes her sexy friends come along, organised by my regular. I have no contact details for the other two.

I'm trying to shag some of her other female friends in 2019.
My regular has a habit of trying to recruit her friends as WGs.

I've struggled to meet my regular over the festive period, so I'll try to get another WG.

Offline JonasG

Sex with a regular is nice  :yahoo: Its always going to be good otherwise you would not see them again. But punting is about variety and trying different experiences..otherwise u may aswell find a partner or wife!

Exactly.

Spot on.

Offline davidgood

These days I want to be sure of getting all the things I like and therefore I am less inclined to try new girls unless they have had very good reports.

I have built up a circle of about a dozen SPs who I know I can rely upon and tend to see one of them when I want a 1 to 1. Although I call them regulars, sometimes there might be more than a year between meetings. Which I think is good as it adds a bit of spice to the meeting.

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I used to prefer meeting a regular girl. All for the same reasons as already mentioned. Sex was good, not nervous and a real relaxed GF experience.
The only danger here is that you can build a close bond between each other. A relationship, other than professional, could easily develop.

That happened to me and caused me a lot of anxiety and her a lot of complications. I had to walk away.

A long time ago and I stopped punting for a few years. However I now I see three regulars on no more than several occasions each a year.

Offline datwabbit

Over the years I have had regulars for a while then moved on. Is it me that usually sex with a regular is not as good as with a one off?

Care to name them? Not hassling you about reviews but why not name them and see what others think of them. Might be the sp's are complacent.

Offline Home Alone

Sex with a Regular is certainly more comfortable for this old punter.

The problem for the Regular - or so I was told by one of my now-retired Regulars  - was for the girl trying to come up with something a bit different in the Service once a month, or however frequently the appointment is. We might enjoy the routine of the visit; she might prefer, perhaps, spicing things up once in a while!

Offline TTGR

Excellent question actually.

Yes, I would say it is better because they know what you like and are quite relaxed in providing it to you.
AND....Booking is also easier.  :music:

None of the shite that goes with trying to see a new girl.
I’ve not even been punting that long but beginning to find the frustration of punt fails due to poor SP comms or an over busy schedule causes me great :angry:
« Last Edit: January 02, 2019, 11:42:30 pm by TTGR »

Offline OakTree

It’s horses for courses. Me personally I prefer the unknown and the variety. Some of the best sex I’ve had is with women I’ve met just that minute and barely said a word to. I like the total anonymity of it all. Walking back to the car knowing I’ll never see her again is a nice feeling. If I was seeing a regular not only would I get to know her, she’d get to know me and I’d rather that wasn’t the case. There’s a fair chance she may actually loathe me and dread my regular text or call for our next meet but it’s business for her and she puts up with it. That would be ever present in my mind.

Offline Home Alone

I should have probably added to my previous post that I recently saw a lass - younger than many of the Milfs I've seen for much of my career - and we seemed to hit it off together more or less from the start. I can see her becoming my new Regular.

Her service is a bit raunchier - less GFE - than I've had from many of the Milfs I've seen over the years. All being well, I'll post a Review on here over the weekend & I've found that my punting mojo, which I thought I'd lost last year, seems to be returning. :dance:

Offline JackJones

My punting diet is composed mainly of TOFTTs - for the variety and new girl element - and regulars. The TOFTTs are risky. More often than not they leave me wanting. Not so with my regulars. Without a shadow of a doubt I have the best sex with them. It's the perfect mix between GFE and PSE. They come to mine, usually on a Friday or Saturday night. No cleanliness issues. They spend the night. We get food and drinks and chat - about our personal lives without being revelatory about specifics - and then move on to some raunchy sex. There are no extras at that point. It's all thrown in the standard one hour rate. One of them likes to stay the morning after and might leave in the afternoon. I get the female company I desire, the great sex, and then I'm good for the week. It all depends on the girl though. I had one regular whose service got lazy after the 2nd or 3rd punt. All take and no giving back. Haven't been back since!