Philosophical one: why you punt?

[Rusty7]

To be honest, I am doing it since my last short relation, 2 years ago.
I know maybe some of you do it for hobby, recreation and simply pleasure, explore things... but for me is a little bit sad.
This is the only way, for me, to have sex with a girl, i'm not able to attract nor talk long enough with a real one, so when I feel the pressure, I just pay.
I've become, in the years and after so many wrong bitches relation, unable to socialise with girls, a 'social  disable'.

That's sad guys, I wish I could punt just for fun

What about you, anyone in the same situation?

[scutty brown]

this a punting forum, not a venue for trolls and amateur psychologists.
Nor is it a forum for journalists.
Besides which all this philosophical crap has been mulled over numerous times before.

[Rusty7]

Ok then just close it, and have a nice day.

[kuck]

Futuere, ergo sum.

[puntingking]

To be honest, I am doing it since my last short relation, 2 years ago.
I know maybe some of you do it for hobby, recreation and simply pleasure, explore things... but for me is a little bit sad.
This is the only way, for me, to have sex with a girl, i'm not able to attract nor talk long enough with a real one, so when I feel the pressure, I just pay.
I've become, in the years and after so many wrong bitches relation, unable to socialise with girls, a 'social  disable'.

That's sad guys, I wish I could punt just for fun

What about you, anyone in the same situation?

to your question. When i pay for sex, i know why i am there and the working girl knows why i am there. She wants my money and i want the sex. It is simple. I have never been interested in dating or having a serous relationship with a girl because I travel a lot and i am selfish when it comes to my time. Well that is why i do this. Beside it is a great and fun hobby to partake in.

[ulstersubbie]

this a punting forum, not a venue for trolls and amateur psychologists.
Nor is it a forum for journalists.
Besides which all this philosophical crap has been mulled over numerous times before.

What scutty said. I punt because I enjoy it, end of.

[Jeremy]

This is the only way, for me, to have sex with a girl, i'm not able to attract nor talk long enough with a real one, so when I feel the pressure, I just pay.

This is largely true for me. Then again, maybe I'm just too lazy to try and pull a civvie when I know I can pick and choose a girl to perform the services I want at a time of my choosing.

Doesn't mean you aren't punting for fun though. I mean if you're single and want to 'relieve pressure' you just have a wank. But punting is more fun

[daviemac]

What about you, anyone in the same situation?

Have a look here. -

It's poor form that you'll tell your mates about this (despite it being of no benefit to you and likely only detriment, as you've experienced) but you won't bother to tell us about any of your punts, particularly in the form of reviews. It's even worse that you won't even share your bad or disappointing punts (negative or neutral reviews).

Anyway, you should've used the search box as that would've shown that this topic has been done to death on here. Here's a pretty recent 5 page thread:

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=219320.0

There are many others as well:

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=12352

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=18556

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=147020

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=41631

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=65042.0

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=21175.0

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=9025

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=123414

There are also many threads about why/how people got started punting. You can search for those yourself if you're interested. Here's just one of them (a combination of why you punt and what got you started):

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=45191

[unclepokey]

Because I feckin can. Simples.
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[puntingking]

Because I feckin can. Simples.
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[Ali Katt]

To be honest, I am doing it since my last short relation, 2 years ago.
I know maybe some of you do it for hobby, recreation and simply pleasure, explore things... but for me is a little bit sad.
This is the only way, for me, to have sex with a girl, i'm not able to attract nor talk long enough with a real one, so when I feel the pressure, I just pay.
I've become, in the years and after so many wrong bitches relation, unable to socialise with girls, a 'social  disable'.

That's sad guys, I wish I could punt just for fun

What about you, anyone in the same situation?

One person pity parade. You get what you put in.

[atego]

Nothing Philosophical.

It’s the excitement , I punt infrequently but it’s purely for fun , stale relationship at home despite making the effort . It’s the enjoyment of an unadulterated strings free fuck with somebody of a like mind albeit it’s for money .

[Bonker]

Futuere, ergo sum.

Piss off back to ancient Rome you cunt.
Coming over here shagging our girls, building roads and sewers and baths...

[Cuntminion]

Got nothing better to do

[Daffodil]

Easiest way to have no-strings, hassle free sex with many women. Much less time consuming than dating and often less expensive initially. Much less chance of being caught by your significant other, if you have one.

Not sure if that’s philosophical! I like sex with lots of women and punting is the easiest, safest, and often cheapest way of achieving that.

[Fuzzyduck]

Piss off back to ancient Rome you cunt.
Coming over here shagging our girls, building roads and sewers and baths...

 

Few blokes are going to die wishing that they'd fucked fewer women.

[LLPunting]

Few blokes are going to die wishing that they'd fucked fewer women.

When I look back at all the unknown SPs I tried and think of the properties I could've bought instead I think I'll be one of the few.   
Erasing a few hundred notches for now forgotten fucks would leave me better off to have better, more expensive punts and a mortgage free roof over my head 

[Fuzzyduck]

When I look back at all the unknown SPs I tried and think of the properties I could've bought instead I think I'll be one of the few.   
Erasing a few hundred notches for now forgotten fucks would leave me better off to have better, more expensive punts and a mortgage free roof over my head 

That's true enough, but you likely wouldn't have such wisdom without chasing all that tail. Just make sure you post when you're on your deathbed to confirm that you're lamenting about lost real estate opportunities and poor financial choices. I like to think I'd be wondering what the nurse will do if I throw her £50.

[yobbra]

I have done a couple of houses punting over the years but i also know friends who have done similar amounts drinking/holidays/cars/smoking/eating out in expensive restaurants/coke/gambling/home and away-european football supporting etc etc.  Most hobbies /vices of any reasonable level during the peak years of your adult life are going to add up to a house or two over 20-30 years if you do them properly.  I would never ever look back over the past 25 years and think fuck me i wish i had fucked less women.   I actually wish i had paid to fuck even more than i already have.   If you can afford it and you are single it is one of the best hobbies in the world.

I would have done much more in one divorce than i have ever spent punting though.   I feel for guys who have had 1+ divorces and done fortunes punting and being caught out.   That must sting financially a lot more than what i have ever spent will sting.

[Bogof60]

Few blokes are going to die wishing that they'd fucked fewer women.

+1

If you can afford it punt.
If you are going to regret the money spent then don't.

[LLPunting]

That's true enough, but you likely wouldn't have such wisdom without chasing all that tail. Just make sure you post when you're on your deathbed to confirm that you're lamenting about lost real estate opportunities and poor financial choices. I like to think I'd be wondering what the nurse will do if I throw her £50.

Not wisdom I can use in the day job to up my pay to up my punting 

I would hope I could charm a warm sponge bath and a saucy smile for some Quality St.  Way things are going I'll be lucky elderly care is affordable when I need it.  Hate to think the "nurse" will turn out to be a fox in a grubby alley as I lie in a puddle wheezing out.

[Fuzzyduck]

Hate to think the "nurse" will turn out to be a fox in a grubby alley as I lie in a puddle wheezing out.

A sandpapery tongue on your wrinkled old balls isn't the most gracious way to seek judgement, I'll grant you.

[myothernameis]

To be honest, I am doing it since my last short relation, 2 years ago.
I know maybe some of you do it for hobby, recreation and simply pleasure, explore things... but for me is a little bit sad.
This is the only way, for me, to have sex with a girl, i'm not able to attract nor talk long enough with a real one, so when I feel the pressure, I just pay.
I've become, in the years and after so many wrong bitches relation, unable to socialise with girls, a 'social  disable'.

That's sad guys, I wish I could punt just for fun

What about you, anyone in the same situation?

Curiosity, at first and didn't have a girlfriend, and wasn't that clued up about sex, apart from masterbation 

In my youth, I was shy, so sex with escorts became a escape for me, as I had a high sex drive

And story in the sunday mail, got my attention, that a massage parlour in Glasgow, was giving customers extras, and from there discovered the red light areas, and the massage parlours

[OakTree]

That's sad guys, I wish I could punt just for fun

Boo Hoo what a shame. I bet your'e a right bundle of laughs once you hand the cash over.

You have to realise most people punt out of some sort of necessity. No one would pay for it if they could get the same satisfaction for free but that doesn't mean it can't be fun.

I'm fully aware that when I'm sucked off by a fit twenty something bombshell she'd rather be getting her armpits waxed or something just as unpleasant but I think no more of it and enjoy it for what it is... Paid sex.

[Colston36]

Well, sorry about your situation, but to dignify this as philosophy seems a bit excessive.

I punt because my partner wanted a baby and I was too old to give her one, so she found someone else and is happy - as am I for her.

It turned out to be a blessing. I have now managed to indulge in almost every wild fantasy I ever had. Almost.

Absolutely glorious, surprisingly few disappointments and unlike many on here I find most escorts interesting company, not just sperm receptacles.

[Horizontal pleasures]

Philosopher at the bedside, that must be Sapiosexual.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=258367.msg2635839#msg2635839

[Rusty7]

I must admit that after the first reply, I wasn't expecting all these answers.
Precious and various thoughts, so for this I want to thank you all guys.

I punt, not often, I end up seeing fews that I like and make some fake 'confidence', just because the way I am.
After every punt tough, I know another will follow, and I feel not so good.. thinking about that perfect girl that I would have only paying tons of money. Fuck!!

Thanks for you answers guys, really appreciated.

[Home Alone]

Because I feckin can. Simples.
UP

This.

Although increasingly, in my mid-70s and without a Regular since the last one retired a couple of years ago, I'm finding other uses for my money.

[Ali Katt]

I must admit that after the first reply, I wasn't expecting all these answers.
Precious and various thoughts, so for this I want to thank you all guys.

I punt, not often, I end up seeing fews that I like and make some fake 'confidence', just because the way I am.
After every punt tough, I know another will follow, and I feel not so good.. thinking about that perfect girl that I would have only paying tons of money. Fuck!!

Thanks for you answers guys, really appreciated.

With escorting you take a lot of the preliminaries and "getting to know you" part. With escorts I often talk about BDSM and things I never would with someone I had just met.

What it will do is make you easier in the presence of women and less concerned about sex. I haven't had sex with a civvy since the start of the year. I actually find civvies to be more flakey than escorts and I have different needs.

[freeze44]

Absolutely glorious, surprisingly few disappointments and unlike many on here I find most escorts interesting company, not just sperm receptacles.

Here you go again slagging of those on this site and punters 

Your posts are often bitter and try to make you look better than others. You make silly sweeping statements that have no evidence to back them up. Think you are better of eating shit than talking it. 

[flouch]

I started because I wanted to have sex with hotter women than I was able to otherwise fuck. And it was much much easier than chatting someone up on a night out. I liked the deviancy of it and that I could just focus on my own enjoyment. Then I got married, had kids and settled down. I have sex on tap with my beautiful wife, but I like fucking different women each of whom have different styles and looks. Plus I still love being a deviant!

[JonasG]

It really is best not to overthink this. I mean it's mostly a fun activity.

Simple as that.

A LTR ended for me, and my mate used to talked about AW a lot and I got into it.

It's been great by and large.

[king tarzan]

Super honey... Simpletto...

[Naughtyboyuk]

I just love fucking younger hot girls....and it’s addictive !!!

[Charliehutton]

I just love fucking younger hot girls....and it’s addictive !!!

Naughty, I can think of no finer analysis than that. You have distilled the whole philosophical debate down to ten perfectly chosen words. 

[Jonestown]

I just love fucking younger hot girls....and it’s addictive !!!

Yes and Yes.

At my age each punt is a celebration, chose your partners with care and there is always something to raise the spirits, even if its just a whiff of pussy juice left on your chin.

[Happiness]

I don't know.

If I find the answer at some stage it will probably be an interesting one. We are all different. Up to a certain point. I believe that is the key to it all.

Good luck friends.

[Ali Katt]

Any idea how difficult it is to find someone who is kinky and then how slow you have to take it in a relationship?

[The Owl]

Punting fulfills my sexual needs and has also fulfilled some of my social needs too whilst I'm in between relationships. It's also stopped me diving in to bad relationships to avoid the issues of being single. No real emotional fulfillment but 2 out of 3 isn't bad.

[ulstersubbie]

I am realistic, I will never meet a woman who shares my kinky needs, life isn't like that. For most of us the real world is a mundane place at best, you get paid at the end of the month, when you go home Debbie Harry (for those of a certain age) won't be there to suck your cock and bake you cookies. Philosophy is best left to the wankers at university, when I visit a Domme Plato isn't my on my wishlist, debauchery certainly is.