It is a unique request but everything is in the eye of the beholder, but agree that every meet is a negotiation of some sort
The scarcity of the people willing to do this is almost certainly, for the most part, a reflection of the unpleasantness experienced carrying it out. Receiving hard-sports seems to be the only thing less popular. Christ, even taking a serious risk with one's life, and barebacking punters is exponentially better catered for.