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Offline Knny

Wife knows I punt on occasion.  Also almost had a threesome with a maid in Barcelona many years back - but that was when we were both younger.  Anyways, got me thinking of possible fantasies after covid.  Where would you go for a 2 month break where you can get girl to your room maybe 2-3 times a week without breaking the bank.   Not interested in hot 8-9's which might get the wife defensive.

Was thinking Thailand, Malaysia, Indonesia.  Phuket seems good, but looks more expensive than mainland.  Has to be easy getting the girls (can't be doing tinder etc.).  Seems like you can get accomodation for around £600/month, so another punting budget of around 150 per week hopefully.

Is this doable?


Offline Stickitin

Yes, deffo Thailand though. Pattaya is your hotspot, Bangkok also but 2 months too long there, Phuket probably doable as well but there won’t be as much choice as the first two. Bkk and Phuket will also more expensive than Pattaya.

Offline Tyne-bridge

Agreed, Thailand would be a good option. Phuket would probably be the best option as it offers everything for a long stay, choices of accommodation types from rooms and guest houses, apartments to 5* resort hotels, great beaches, bars, restaurants and a variety of day and evening activities. The main choices on Phuket would be Patong, Kata, Karon, Kamala and Surin. Patong being by far the busiest but not my favourite place. All places have strong nightlife areas and meeting people is very easy, you just need to take time to engage with the freelance girls who visit the bars and discuss your wants and their flexibility!
IMO Bangkok and Pattaya would be unbearable for 2 of 3 months but each to their own.....
Thailand has been largely closed to tourism since March last year and whilst it is now possible to visit, it is difficult. The other point to be aware of is that the nightlife and bar scene has been hugely affected and many of the bar girls and staff have returned to their homes in the north. Nightlife and the choices that came with it have temporarily disappeared.
Best of luck with you planning and final choices

Offline Stickitin

Agreed, Thailand would be a good option. Phuket would probably be the best option as it offers everything for a long stay, choices of accommodation types from rooms and guest houses, apartments to 5* resort hotels, great beaches, bars, restaurants and a variety of day and evening activities. The main choices on Phuket would be Patong, Kata, Karon, Kamala and Surin. Patong being by far the busiest but not my favourite place. All places have strong nightlife areas and meeting people is very easy, you just need to take time to engage with the freelance girls who visit the bars and discuss your wants and their flexibility!
IMO Bangkok and Pattaya would be unbearable for 2 of 3 months but each to their own.....
Thailand has been largely closed to tourism since March last year and whilst it is now possible to visit, it is difficult. The other point to be aware of is that the nightlife and bar scene has been hugely affected and many of the bar girls and staff have returned to their homes in the north. Nightlife and the choices that came with it have temporarily disappeared.
Best of luck with you planning and final choices

Not sure I agree with ‘strong nightlife’ away from Patong. IMO the bar areas are smallish in the other places which may make it harder finding a girl for a threesome. He needs to stick to Patong if he’s going to Phuket IMO.

Offline Diamond Dave 2

Not sure I agree with ‘strong nightlife’ away from Patong. IMO the bar areas are smallish in the other places which may make it harder finding a girl for a threesome. He needs to stick to Patong if he’s going to Phuket IMO.
Hi it was 2013 when I was there but I found Kata Beach to have enough entertainment so to speak.
A great happy ending massage place on Kade Kwan Road just after Sawasdee Village Hotel.
Numerous bars and friendly massage places on Taina Road
Just before there on Kata Beach Road there were a load of bars popped up after dark where the daytime market was.
All a bit away from the centre but you wouldn't be disappointed...

Offline Diamond Dave 2

I don't think you would struggle to find a very attractive candidate for a threesome.
If I had such an obliging wife I would find attractive woman for one encounter and maybe mix it up with a ladyboy on the next encounter. The place really is your playground

Offline RogerBoner

I wouldn't last two months on holiday with the wife.  :wacko:
Pattaya is the best place for sex, it's too hot in Phuket. Also Pattaya is close to Bangkok for culture once you're fulfilled your sexual fantasies in Pattaya. My wife allows me to visit solo because I'm impotent and don't fancy Thais.

Offline Stickitin

I don't think you would struggle to find a very attractive candidate for a threesome.
If I had such an obliging wife I would find attractive woman for one encounter and maybe mix it up with a ladyboy on the next encounter. The place really is your playground

It’s a numbers game mate. Remember most girls probably won’t do a threesome, so in the smaller areas you listed away from Patong there may only be a hundred or so available girls so you are restricting your chances of finding someone who will oblige. There are way more girls in Patong so your chances go up, the chances go up again in Bangkok and Pattaya.

I last stayed in Kata 2 years ago and there wasn’t a wide range of pickings to be had.
« Last Edit: February 08, 2021, 02:01:06 pm by Stickitin »

Offline Stickitin

I wouldn't last two months on holiday with the wife.  :wacko:
Pattaya is the best place for sex, it's too hot in Phuket. Also Pattaya is close to Bangkok for culture once you're fulfilled your sexual fantasies in Pattaya. My wife allows me to visit solo because I'm impotent and don't fancy Thais.

Viagra and beer goggles when you do visit then?  :lol:

Offline Knny

Thank you all.  I will look up Pattaya videos on youtube and try to solidify my dreams at some point.   I only thought of Malaysia and Indonesia as they have also been discussed before here, and KL does look like a nice and relatively cheap place with solid amenities and infrastructure (medical also).  I think Bangkok would be a bit too obvious with friends/family and it would confirm my pussy intentions. 

Offline neilukuk

Thailand not cheap compared to what it used to be years ago, I remember the good old days of 80 baht to the £.

Get yourself to Vietnam or Cambodia, much cheaper to live, great food, nightlife, etc

Offline wtfb

Thank you all.  I will look up Pattaya videos on youtube and try to solidify my dreams at some point.   I only thought of Malaysia and Indonesia as they have also been discussed before here, and KL does look like a nice and relatively cheap place with solid amenities and infrastructure (medical also).  I think Bangkok would be a bit too obvious with friends/family and it would confirm my pussy intentions.

I don't theink you need to worry about what people think of you for visitng Bangkok. It is the most visited city in the world (22.7million in 2019) I'm sure that most weren't there to enjoy the sorts of tourist attraction we enjoy!

My personal favourite would be the Philippines but there isn't anywhere I have been where you would want to stay for a month, let alone two! However if your were prepared to travel in the Philippines (Fly/hire car/ferry/coach) then I think you could have a great time doing a mix of Islands and cities. I am hoping to spend a couple of months there when this bloody pandemic is over! I like the variety of faces/shapes of Filipina women more than the Thais. I find them more attractive, more GFE, cheaper and most of them speak English. That said, I wouldn't miss Thailand either and flights between Bangkok and Manila are cheap so maybe you could have a "two centre" holiday and sample the delights of both.

Offline Knny

....

My personal favourite would be the Philippines ...

I would have put Philipines on the list, but I read many reports of girls in Angeles being more expensive with not too good service (generally).  I'll read more.

Offline Knny

Thailand not cheap compared to what it used to be years ago, I remember the good old days of 80 baht to the £.

Get yourself to Vietnam or Cambodia, much cheaper to live, great food, nightlife, etc

Thanks.

I don't know much about these places, but I would have to go for freelancers without going into bars/nightclubs.  Wife does not like clubbing/drinking - always goes for restaurants.  Do you know if it's just as easy to score like Thailand?


Offline billybob69

I would have put Philipines on the list, but I read many reports of girls in Angeles being more expensive with not too good service (generally).  I'll read more.
Where have you read that? Angeles girls tend to be cheaper than Manila. The Philippines is broadly similar price to Thailand. The GFE / good service is the reason why many guys favour PI over Thailand.

Offline RogerBoner

Viagra and beer goggles when you do visit then?  :lol:
Only impotent with the wife  :lol:
And she believes that I'm against prostitution because I was years ago  :P

Offline Stickitin

I would have put Philipines on the list, but I read many reports of girls in Angeles being more expensive with not too good service (generally).  I'll read more.

Philippines is a bit of a dump tbh, it’s ok for a pure shagging holiday but if you want to enjoy a bit of normal holiday stuff as well you’re better off in Thailand.

Offline Stickitin

Thailand not cheap compared to what it used to be years ago, I remember the good old days of 80 baht to the £.

Get yourself to Vietnam or Cambodia, much cheaper to live, great food, nightlife, etc

In the whole scheme of things it’s still relatively cheap though......

Offline petethompson

I'm sorry but I'm going to have to disagree with your comment "Philippines is a bit of a dump tbh" it has several world class diving locations, some fabulous islands and numerous top class tourist locations. maybe you should look a bit harder before making such a sweeping comment?

Offline Stickitin

I'm sorry but I'm going to have to disagree with your comment "Philippines is a bit of a dump tbh" it has several world class diving locations, some fabulous islands and numerous top class tourist locations. maybe you should look a bit harder before making such a sweeping comment?

No I’m perfectly happy with my statement. Sure there are nice places but on balance it’s a lot more shit holey than Thailand for example. Also struggling to think of a country that has worse food?

Online Colston36

I promise you'll get an infinitely better deal in Vietnam. No comparison.

I spent a couple of weeks there with a girl who cost me about the same as you'd pay for a 60 minute threesome with two porn princesses here.

She took me everywhere - on trips, to restaurants - the lot. And it was unforgettable. Imagine, if you will, this 81 year old, as I was then, on the back of a motor scooter driven by a 22-year old.

Unforgettable.

Online Colston36

No I’m perfectly happy with my statement. Sure there are nice places but on balance it’s a lot more shit holey than Thailand for example. Also struggling to think of a country that has worse food?

I've only been there three times, but last time I had a fantastic time on an island, the name of which I can't recall, to be honest.

The food at the hotel we stayed in was phenomenal. I also had a pretty good time in Indonesia, though Jakarta IS a ghastly place - even worse than Manila.

Offline petethompson

So where did you meet this young lady? As I'm off to Vietnam as soon as the boarders are open?

Online Colston36

So where did you meet this young lady? As I'm off to Vietnam as soon as the boarders are open?

This came about because a pal and two of his friends were out there and said I would love it, so I hopped on the plane.

I am still in contact with one lady who is how shall i say, well-connected. I'll make some enquiries.

She was amazing - not a whore, very rich, took me out all night. At midnight she said let's go to dinner in this amazing hotel on the beach.

The restaurant was closed. "They'll open it for me". And they did.

Offline Knny

I promise you'll get an infinitely better deal in Vietnam. No comparison.

I spent a couple of weeks there with a girl who cost me about the same as you'd pay for a 60 minute threesome with two porn princesses here.

She took me everywhere - on trips, to restaurants - the lot. And it was unforgettable. Imagine, if you will, this 81 year old, as I was then, on the back of a motor scooter driven by a 22-year old.

Unforgettable.

That sounds perfect :) I would love that sort of arrangement to take the stress away.  I will definitely look into Vietnam also.

Offline wtfb

Philippines is a bit of a dump tbh, it’s ok for a pure shagging holiday but if you want to enjoy a bit of normal holiday stuff as well you’re better off in Thailand.

I completely disagree. That sounds like a fair description of Angeles but not a fair decription of the Philippines at all.

Offline petethompson

Please do make the enquiry and let me know as i would certainly be up for a bit of company and a guided tour  :D

Online Colston36

Please do make the enquiry and let me know as i would certainly be up for a bit of company and a guided tour  :D

If you drop me a line, I will see what I can do. I shall write to someone tonight,

Offline wtfb

I promise you'll get an infinitely better deal in Vietnam. No comparison.

I spent a couple of weeks there with a girl who cost me about the same as you'd pay for a 60 minute threesome with two porn princesses here.

She took me everywhere - on trips, to restaurants - the lot. And it was unforgettable. Imagine, if you will, this 81 year old, as I was then, on the back of a motor scooter driven by a 22-year old.

Unforgettable.

Sounds brilliant and I'm very pleased you had a great time. I was wondering how you found  your "guide" in the first place? Was it a dating app or ??

Thanks

Online Colston36

Sounds brilliant and I'm very pleased you had a great time. I was wondering how you found  your "guide" in the first place? Was it a dating app or ??

Thanks

No. A pal and two of his friends - all from Liverpool - were going there. His father had lived there and knew people. I joined them after they'd been there a week.

He has actually married a Vietnamese girl since then- but not one he met on that trip. He and I do business; I've asked him for any suggestions. We did not stay in the capital but on the coast. There are some beautiful beaches.

Offline wtfb


Many thanks for the information Colston36! I haven't been to Vietnam yet but hope to go soon (virus permitting). I've seen various travel programs and videos and it looks great. The idea of a willing guide sounds brilliant.

Online Colston36

Many thanks for the information Colston36! I haven't been to Vietnam yet but hope to go soon (virus permitting). I've seen various travel programs and videos and it looks great. The idea of a willing guide sounds brilliant.

I am very busy with work, but have enquired and will get back to you. If I wasn't so old and busy I'd become a tour guide:-)
« Last Edit: February 11, 2021, 08:51:14 am by Colston36 »

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Offline timnicebutdim

I haven't seen it mentioned here, so I'll raise it - Taiwan is an option.

Very Westernized and modern, nice place, the people are extremely friendly. There's a good range of options for finding girls, I found the beauty standards very high, and the it's cheaper than in the West. Thailand is, and Vietnam probably is, cheaper, but Taiwan is a good option.

Offline heisenberg.

If you want straight to the point go to Pattaya.

In your shoes, I'd do Pattaya and Bangkok in one go. Although for general tourism Pattaya is boring and the sex-life will get stale quickly. Bangkok is much better overall especially with the wife on your shoulder.

Alternatives include Philippines and Cambodia. 

Other Asian countries to avoid:

Avoid Malaysia. Spent 1 month in KL there wasn't much going although the city is nice and clean.
Avoid Phuket and other areas of Thailand. Stick to Pattaya and Bangkok.
Taiwan/China is better if you were going alone and appeared to be single - heck you wouldn't even have to pay a dime and you'll get a true girl friend experience. With the wife I wouldn't list it as a viable option.
Also avoid Korea/Japan.

Offline wtfb

I haven't seen it mentioned here, so I'll raise it - Taiwan is an option.

Very Westernized and modern, nice place, the people are extremely friendly. There's a good range of options for finding girls, I found the beauty standards very high, and the it's cheaper than in the West. Thailand is, and Vietnam probably is, cheaper, but Taiwan is a good option.

I was interested in your comments. I have never been to Taiwan and there is really nothing on the forum about Taiwan so any info you can provide would be really welcome.

Offline timnicebutdim

I was interested in your comments. I have never been to Taiwan and there is really nothing on the forum about Taiwan so any info you can provide would be really welcome.

Sure. I've wondered about doing a thread in the Punting Abroad section, so I could do that. Or just some comments here.

As Heisenberg said, if you're single you can get sex without paying. Being white helps but isn't needed, and you need to be not totally socially awkward and not hideously ugly, but it's doable. I disagree that it's not viable if you're with the wife - it's harder, but I think it's still doable.

But yeah. If you/anyone would be interested in some info about it, maybe I should make a thread?

Offline wtfb


I would definitely create a new topic in this Asia forum for Taiwan.  :thumbsup: This current thread is too general I think. 

Offline billybob69

Sure. I've wondered about doing a thread in the Punting Abroad section, so I could do that. Or just some comments here.

As Heisenberg said, if you're single you can get sex without paying. Being white helps but isn't needed, and you need to be not totally socially awkward and not hideously ugly, but it's doable. I disagree that it's not viable if you're with the wife - it's harder, but I think it's still doable.

But yeah. If you/anyone would be interested in some info about it, maybe I should make a thread?
New thread! New thread! New thread!
I'd be interested to read more. Although I've spent a bit of time in mainland China and the one thing that was noticeable to me (in comparison to other SE Asian countries, most notably Thailand and Philippines) is that they weren't particularly fussed about Westerners.

Offline winkywanky

Pattaya is close to Bangkok for culture once you're fulfilled your sexual fantasies in Pattaya. My wife allows me to visit solo because I'm impotent and don't fancy Thais.


 :lol:  :lol: [actually spat my coffee out]

Offline winkywanky

I spent a couple of weeks there with a girl who cost me about the same as you'd pay for a 60 minute threesome with two porn princesses here.

She took me everywhere - on trips, to restaurants - the lot. And it was unforgettable. Imagine, if you will, this 81 year old, as I was then, on the back of a motor scooter driven by a 22-year old.

Unforgettable.



Sometimes I think my next 20yrs will be a steady and hellish decline which I won't really want to endure.

And then I read this :hi:

Online Colston36


Sometimes I think my next 20yrs will be a steady and hellish decline which I won't really want to endure.

And then I read this :hi:

Yes; there is hope. Unfortunately I lost the laptop with pictures (drunk in Spoons).

The climax of that trip in some ways was that scooter ride. It was the monsoon season. The approach to traffic lights, keeping on the right side of the road and so on is extremely casual in Vietnam. Absolutely terrifying.

I stayed in Vung Tau, by the sea.

If you want to meet a girl, you just go into one of the snooker parlours. They seem to love it. Snooker, I mean. You will be approached by girls who want to capture and stay with you throughout your stay. Spoilt for choice.

It is rather bizarre but I have done more outrageous things after 80 than before. I wish this bloody lockdown would end: time's a-wasting.

I am intrigued by Taiwan. I was there briefly, and was told a visit to the hairdressers is - or was - always rewarding. None of this something for the weekend. It's immediate.

Unfortunately my last, most expensive and final wife was with me, and I was working.

Offline billybob69

Yes; there is hope. Unfortunately I lost the laptop with pictures (drunk in Spoons).

The climax of that trip in some ways was that scooter ride. It was the monsoon season. The approach to traffic lights, keeping on the right side of the road and so on is extremely casual in Vietnam. Absolutely terrifying.

I stayed in Vung Tau, by the sea.

If you want to meet a girl, you just go into one of the snooker parlours. They seem to love it. Snooker, I mean. You will be approached by girls who want to capture and stay with you throughout your stay. Spoilt for choice.

Vung Tau was also the home of Gary Glitter :-(
I spent a few days there. Didn't get any leg over whilst there, but definitely got the impression it was the place where those that live in Saigon go to break loose for the weekend.

Offline winkywanky

I promise you'll get an infinitely better deal in Vietnam. No comparison.

I spent a couple of weeks there with a girl who cost me about the same as you'd pay for a 60 minute threesome with two porn princesses here.

She took me everywhere - on trips, to restaurants - the lot. And it was unforgettable. Imagine, if you will, this 81 year old, as I was then, on the back of a motor scooter driven by a 22-year old.

Unforgettable.


How recently was this Colston? (PS glad you've dried out now and back on your pedestal).

Online Colston36


How recently was this Colston? (PS glad you've dried out now and back on your pedestal).

Do you mean Vung Tau?

Just under 4 years ago.

I don't know about you but I am fascinated by people. So I have kept in touch with one lady I met.
 
This one started out penniless and made her start as a wine maker when 16. 

She now has a technical training business. Western men, mostly U.S. or Aussie go there to teach courses. She makes sure they have "a good time".

She seems to know all the local talent.

There were a lot of old geezers - mostly Aussie - living with local girls there.

One fascinating trip was going into the tunnels where the Viet Cong hid during the Vietnam war.

I still keep in touch with the blokes I met. One I already did business with and still do. Another has a rock band: brings a new meaning to the word noisy.

« Last Edit: February 13, 2021, 03:57:08 pm by Colston36 »

Offline winkywanky

Do you mean Vung Tau?

Just under 4 years ago.

I don't know about you but I am fascinated by people. So I have kept in touch with one lady I met.
 
This one started out penniless and made her start as a wine maker when 16. 

She now has a technical training business. Western men, mostly U.S. or Aussie go there to teach courses. She makes sure they have "a good time".

She seems to know all the local talent.

There were a lot of old geezers - mostly Aussie - living with local girls there.

One fascinating trip was going into the tunnels where the Viet Cong hid during the Vietnam war.

I still keep in touch with the blokes I met. One I already did business with and still do. Another has a rock band: brings a new meaning to the word noisy.


The one with the scooter who showed you a good time for two weeks. Sounds like heaven. Although a solo scooter is dangerous enough, riding shotgun with a young girl driving is just asking for it!  :scare:

Still, I guess she knows the road culture there so maybe safer than driving yourself!

Offline timnicebutdim

I would definitely create a new topic in this Asia forum for Taiwan.  :thumbsup: This current thread is too general I think.


New thread! New thread! New thread!
I'd be interested to read more. Although I've spent a bit of time in mainland China and the one thing that was noticeable to me (in comparison to other SE Asian countries, most notably Thailand and Philippines) is that they weren't particularly fussed about Westerners.

Okay!

I'm happy to do a new thread about it. I've been busy today, but I'll get writing tomorrow. And it'll probably end up way overboard. I know myself, I write too much.


I am intrigued by Taiwan. I was there briefly, and was told a visit to the hairdressers is - or was - always rewarding. None of this something for the weekend. It's immediate.

It's not exactly a hairdressers. The brothels often do have barber's poles outside, but they usually are masquerading as either spas or KTVs (karaoke places).

I'll start writing up a post tomorrow though, so watch this space.

Offline exhippy

If you are really over 80 (and why should I doubt you) you give me hope and I share your worries. I turned 70 in December and ten days later got covid (which caused complete erectile dysfunction for 3 weeks). My wife died 5 years ago and I have been having a great deal of erotic fun internationally since. But now I am just desperate to get out of this freezing cold and get back to South East Asia, Latin America and Nairobi again, and everyday I am older....
« Last Edit: February 14, 2021, 06:49:20 pm by Head1 »

Offline Knny

If you are really over 80 (and why should I doubt you) you give me hope and I share your worries. I turned 70 in December and ten days later got covid (which caused complete erectile dysfunction for 3 weeks). My wife died 5 years ago and I have been having a great deal of erotic fun internationally since. But now I am just desperate to get out of this freezing cold and get back to South East Asia, Latin America and Nairobi again, and everyday I am older....

Never thought of Nairobi. It has a reputation of being ridden with crime. What are the pussy/cost/aquiring benefits?

Offline exhippy

It is just that I was in Africa for a holiday in 2019 and I changed international flights both ways in Nairobi. I stayed   in the city centre on the way and wandered the streets in the evening. It wasn't any different to any other global south city I have been to. On the way back I stayed in 'upmarket' parklands. In both I stayed in 3stars. On my first visit I visited massage parlours and had one good one and one bad. But on the way back I found a likeable brothel fairly near me which I visited twice. On both occasions I   had two girls for an hour for about £60. I saw one girl both times in the pairs and she was slim and utterly lovely (about 22). We clicked sexually too. But I just loved the time I spent with the girls. I was offered all night for £100. But I had a flight. I think about the lovely girl a lot. She is probably not there still.
There was an edge in Nairobi, and it is best visited en route somewhere else but I enjoyed   it  though but I like edgy cities. There are lots of sex workers in the city and a lot of part time ones too.