Seeking.com regional open thread - West Midlands

[Pablo02]

Yeah, I spoke to her as well... She was like 'I'd feel a lot better if I had the money up front'  Yeah, I bet you would. When I (politely) said no she tried to negotiate it down to half, and I just stopped replying.

Another is Nikki074, who wanted me to give her part of the money before actually arriving at 'her place' in Willenhall, I said no, she blocked on both SA and WhatsApp.

I'm finding not much luck with the actual 'intimacy' aspect (although I've got a couple of potentials) but I've connected pretty well with a couple of girls who I've been talking to for about a month and haven't actually even mentioned money - one I've even had a bit on online gaming time with in Oculus. I've no doubt if/when we meet I'll pick up the tab for dinner or drinks, but that's just how things usually work in the real world anyway, plus I get to go on a night out with a cute redhead.  (I know, romantic old bastard, me!)

I wouldn’t even entertain if I knew I was getting sex at the end of the night.

[HoldMichaels]

I wouldn’t even entertain if I knew I was getting sex at the end of the night.

I suspect there's a typo there, or I really don't understand what you're trying to say... If you're saying you wouldn't even buy dinner/drinks unless you're guaranteed sex, then fair enough, that's your thing. I tend to pick profiles that suggest 'no strings' and 'friends with benefits', and figure if they're on sa, willing to meet up, and haven't been asking for an allowance in the time we've been talking, that's a step in the right direction - kind of a 'will she won't she' that some of the massage guys talk about, but in the meantime I meet cute girls with similar interests. Each to their own, I suppose.

[Brumish]

I suspect there's a typo there, or I really don't understand what you're trying to say... If you're saying you wouldn't even buy dinner/drinks unless you're guaranteed sex, then fair enough, that's your thing. I tend to pick profiles that suggest 'no strings' and 'friends with benefits', and figure if they're on sa, willing to meet up, and haven't been asking for an allowance in the time we've been talking, that's a step in the right direction - kind of a 'will she won't she' that some of the massage guys talk about, but in the meantime I meet cute girls with similar interests. Each to their own, I suppose.

Try asking them what their definition of no strings attached means   

[HoldMichaels]

Try asking them what their definition of no strings attached means   

I certainly will when the subject of money arises. 

[Pablo02]

I suspect there's a typo there, or I really don't understand what you're trying to say... If you're saying you wouldn't even buy dinner/drinks unless you're guaranteed sex, then fair enough, that's your thing. I tend to pick profiles that suggest 'no strings' and 'friends with benefits', and figure if they're on sa, willing to meet up, and haven't been asking for an allowance in the time we've been talking, that's a step in the right direction - kind of a 'will she won't she' that some of the massage guys talk about, but in the meantime I meet cute girls with similar interests. Each to their own, I suppose.

It’s a typo 
I should proof read next time 

[Rockhead]

Worth noting that when girls state NSA it often means No Sex Allowed (not No Strings Attached). I think that’s what Brum-ish was hinting at, but it’s worth spelling out - an easy mistake or trap to fall into with some of these profiles.

[HoldMichaels]

Worth noting that when girls state NSA it often means No Sex Allowed (not No Strings Attached). I think that’s what Brum-ish was hinting at, but it’s worth spelling out - an easy mistake or trap to fall into with some of these profiles.

I appreciate that - I do tend to look more for the ones with 'friends with benefits' and try and feel out the 'nsa' ones in the initial messages...

[Brumish]

Worth noting that when girls state NSA it often means No Sex Allowed (not No Strings Attached). I think that’s what Brum-ish was hinting at, but it’s worth spelling out - an easy mistake or trap to fall into with some of these profiles.

And those SBs that have heard the phrase 'no strings attached' tend to think that is what the SDs will be signing up for. So allowance without any strings attached....a bit like this one time when one started explaining how much effort she had gone through creating her profile, listing all of her needs, rent, make up, certain clothings, etc, etc...I did say that I wasn't the one responsible for her existence. 'But I heard that is the way it works, you put up your wants and needs and someone will match'.
 

[Rockhead]

And those SBs that have heard the phrase 'no strings attached' tend to think that is what the SDs will be signing up for. So allowance without any strings attached....

Good point - I hadn’t even thought of that!

There’s such a range of women on SA (when I last used it). They range from those with totally unrealistic expectations like the above to those looking for much more realistic combinations of fun with some financial gain thrown in. Been sharing some good memories of a tall (6ft!), slim and pretty hot woman from Loughborough / Notts that a few of us on the East Midlands forum shagged a few years back. A real handful in bed as you can imagine but very wet and horny.

[JontyR]

Never considered an arrangment like ths, but the conversation here has made me possibly consider it. So sorry if this is a really noob question but has there ever been an incident with a SB's OH / family?

If you are shag a professional sex worker you assume that they'd take all suitable precautions or their domestic conversations have been had and so the likelihood of them getting jealous and coming after you is none existent.

If you are having an affair with someone else's wife you factor it in, but you know what you are signing up for.

Here has there ever been an "amateur" in this grey area that hasn't taken total care to ensure that you don't become the target of a jealous partner or angry Dad?

[KidCandyShop]

I personally take precautions in that I never use my normal phone only punting phone, never discuss company I work for, never take them to your home address. Never pay by bank transfer.

[DAlpine1980]

I personally take precautions in that I never use my normal phone only punting phone, never discuss company I work for, never take them to your home address. Never pay by bank transfer.

Good tips. Worth stating that paying into someone's account over the counter is often not possible these days with more banks stopping you unless you are paying into your own account.

[Samjos]

What about sugar daddy sites?

[Carl Adams]

Going to be working near the M6 by Walsall regularly for a few months so hoping to be getting an airbnb and find a decent black or mixed race lass for some fun.

Anyone got any good recommendations (or ones to avoid!!)

Cheers if you can help out

[Pablo02]

Going to be working near the M6 by Walsall regularly for a few months so hoping to be getting an airbnb and find a decent black or mixed race lass for some fun.

Anyone got any good recommendations (or ones to avoid!!)

Cheers if you can help out

Why have you posted that in this thread!!
Your not a newbie
Hit the search button!!! 

[Carl Adams]

Because its my first time in the West Midlands and it would be good to know if anyone can recommend a lass - I get that guys can get possessive over their SBs but with almost 6,000 profiles within 10 miles of Walsall, I thought I'd ask those who have been down here for a while.

Is that OK with you? 

[Pablo02]

Because its my first time in the West Midlands and it would be good to know if anyone can recommend a lass - I get that guys can get possessive over their SBs but with almost 6,000 profiles within 10 miles of Walsall, I thought I'd ask those who have been down here for a while.

Is that OK with you? 

So your after a SB rather than a escort?
Or are you undecided 

[vindici]

Because its my first time in the West Midlands and it would be good to know if anyone can recommend a lass - I get that guys can get possessive over their SBs but with almost 6,000 profiles within 10 miles of Walsall, I thought I'd ask those who have been down here for a while.

Is that OK with you? 

Given the time, effort and expense it takes to secure a SB, why on earth would someone jeopardise that investment by passing on the details to a random 🤦‍♂️

If you have any SB experience, use it and start to establish your own relationships on SA etc.. well in advance.

If you want an escort recommendation, use the search facility or start your own thread.

[Pablo02]

Given the time, effort and expense it takes to secure a SB, why on earth would someone jeopardise that investment by passing on the details to a random 🤦‍♂️

If you have any SB experience, use it and start to establish your own relationships on SA etc.. well in advance.

If you want an escort recommendation, use the search facility or start your own thread.

My point exactly 

[Carl Adams]

No worries chaps

Should have known better than to expect anything else from you Brummies 

[Pablo02]

No worries chaps

Should have known better than to expect anything else from you Brummies 

You are deluded!
I still don’t think you have understood what vindici has said
Read again!

[vindici]

You are deluded!
I still don’t think you have understood what vindici has said
Read again!

He's a complete idiot, can you imagine what would happen to your personal reputation if you had vouched for him with a SB? I shudder to think.

Great self-selection in action, and documented on the board for his future requests.

[WarrenS]

Well I just had my first punt with someone from SA, it wasn't great, I actually think she was a WG, but hey it is what it is, and I wasn't originally going to meet anyone until lockdown had eased further, but little head got its way, but not quite in the way it wanted.

[KidCandyShop]

No worries chaps

Should have known better than to expect anything else from you Brummies 

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There’s one for you. Your welcome 

[Carl Adams]

You are deluded!
I still don’t think you have understood what vindici has said
Read again!

Nope - I understand what he meant.  I was not looking for or expecting someones all time favourite - but never mind, I will let it drop before you bust a blood vessel with having to think up some more insults.

[Carl Adams]

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Mate - no disrespect but if you are going to pimp out your missus, I would not do it on here - have you not read some of the scathing comments guys make?

But thanks for your good intent.

[Pablo02]

By the way if any of these SB are asking for petrol money I would deffo not do a bank transfer
More than likely they are scamming many on there

[shrewsmale]

By the way if any of these SB are asking for petrol money I would deffo not do a bank transfer
More than likely they are scamming many on there

absolutely

[vindici]

By the way if any of these SB are asking for petrol money I would deffo not do a bank transfer
More than likely they are scamming many on there

Petrol money? What an absolute joke. Given the potential pay off they will get when they enter into an agreement, nickel and diming the SD before the first meet is a huge red flag.

[KidCandyShop]

I’ve arranged a meet and than been asked to pay for babysitter upfront. Another scam, never send money beforehand.
I always have a m&g in public venue with no money for this meeting now after booking hotel only to be catfished. Still have nightmares over that one

[Pablo02]

Petrol money? What an absolute joke. Given the potential pay off they will get when they enter into an agreement, nickel and diming the SD before the first meet is a huge red flag.

Yeah we arranged a ppm
Decent looking girl
Night before she was asking me for petrol money

[WarrenS]

Has anyone gone back to an average or rubbish punt from SA because you hope it might be better next time?

[Steve2]

Has anyone gone back to an average or rubbish punt from SA because you hope it might be better next time?

Not me 

[WarrenS]

Not me 

 

[Pablo02]

No
Onwards and upwards 

[KidCandyShop]

Has any got any info on this one.

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Been messaging her for a while.

[Pablo02]

Has any got any info on this one.

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Been messaging her for a while.

Had her on watsapp was messaging her and spoke to her on phone but I didn’t wish to take it any further looked a bit rough in pics she sent me.

[KidCandyShop]

Had her on watsapp was messaging her and spoke to her on phone but I didn’t wish to take it any further looked a bit rough in pics she sent me.

Were they the ones of her masturbating? 

[Pablo02]

Were they the ones of her masturbating? 

No, facially she wasn’t doing it for me.
Lovely milf personality wise though.

I need to find a SP or SB somewhat attractive

[Discord]

Here's one to avoid guys.  A complete time waster.  External Link/Members Only

She messed me around on two consecutive weekends.  Weekend before last we arranged to meet in the city centre but then about 15 minutes before the meet time she cancelled with an excuse that her car was in the garage and taking longer than expected. I let it slide as I was in the city anyway to pick up something I'd ordered on click and collect so it wasn't a wasted trip.  We re-arranged for Sunday just gone and a similar thing happened.  Just as I arrive in Birmingham I get a message that she's running 30 minutes late.  No problem I say as I'm flexible to push it back if it's just half an hour.
 In the end however she doesn't turn up at all and ignores my polite enquiry as to what's going on.         

[Pablo02]

What was the arrangement?

[Discord]

What was the arrangement?

It was supposed to be date style meets mainly with the odd intimacy session thrown in once a month or so.  PPM initially though she was ideally looking for an allowance eventually. 

[InMefan]

Anyone got any details on this girl at all, seems a bit slow with responses but looks FAF.
Location just shows West Midlands

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[Rockhead]

Bit of a long shot, but has anyone here had any dealings with this one? She wanted to take things to WhatsApp immediately which kinda made me suspicious. Been a member since last June though.

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[updownandaround]

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Leamington Spa/Northampton, Charlotte, went round to her place for 150. She's a bit on the chunkier side of things, nice tits and face, no anal, no issues with CIM but no swallow, can host. A couple of fun hours and I would return if back in the area.

[Discord]

Bit of a long shot, but has anyone here had any dealings with this one? She wanted to take things to WhatsApp immediately which kinda made me suspicious. Been a member since last June though.

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I've spoken to her a bit but didn't take it anywhere as like you I was a bit suspicious as to how she seems to want to move over to Whatsapp straight away and then immediately meet for intimacy without any of the usual chit chat.  The lack of any face pictures adds to the risk as well that she's maybe not genuine. 

[Rockhead]

I've spoken to her a bit but didn't take it anywhere as like you I was a bit suspicious as to how she seems to want to move over to Whatsapp straight away and then immediately meet for intimacy without any of the usual chit chat.  The lack of any face pictures adds to the risk as well that she's maybe not genuine.

Thanks Discord - I will PM you.

[Ding123]

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Leamington Spa/Northampton, Charlotte, went round to her place for 150. She's a bit on the chunkier side of things, nice tits and face, no anal, no issues with CIM but no swallow, can host. A couple of fun hours and I would return if back in the area.

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[Bikerboy]

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So many pros/semi pros on seeking last 12 months- and so few students and genuine civvies. Waste of time seeing a pro from seeking most of the time, just use awank.

[Rockhead]

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Thank you - this is exactly the sort of gen we should be sharing on threads like this.

At least Updownandaround didn't pay any more than he would have if using AW, and sounds like he had a good time.

I had to laugh at one bit of this girl's Seeking profile though. She demands a video call up front and also says: "Please do not offend me with one off meets". She's a WG FFS