What's everyone's strategy? I've been on there for a few years on and off in various parts of the UK. I'm currently in Gloucestershire.
My latest strategy is to say hello and say a bit about me - hobbies, types of nghts out etc (mention something off their profile). Probably about 1 in 5 bother to reply. Begs the question why the others are even on there?
Do others have more luck in the initial hook message than me? I appreciate if might come down to age and looks. I'm in the 35-45 bracket, reasonable looking (but no Brad Pitt).
Then I try to get to WhatsApp as soon as possible. When there, I mention £0 for a coffee meet and greet, £50 for susequent dates, or £100 for subsequent dates if we decide we want a sexual arrangement. I also throw in £150 if they can host.
Deliberate sliding scale to increase the chances of sex. Or at least that's my thoughts.
Looking at other threads on here, £100 to £300 seems to be a reasonable amount for an overnight, so my amounts don't seem miles off.
I *could* go in with a higher amount, say, £250. But for me that would be unsustainable. So I couldn't meet for £250+meals+hotel once a week - that would just be a huge monthly sum.
So I tend to go in with lower amounts so it's sustainable in the longer term.
What's everyone else's tactics?
Do other guys just go in and say £250 for sex off the bat for example? With no promises that's going to be a regular thing? I get the feeling that girls are looking for "arrangements", i.e. something that becomes regular. But maybe I'm wrong - maybe some girls would be into one-offs?
And if doing a one-off, do people try and book a hotel on-the-fly whilst sipping coffee with the girl?
Been back on SA for a few weeks and haven't managed to seal the deal yet.
Cheers