Seeking near Swindon or Cheltenham

[Scank]

Hi, is anyone using seeking or has done recently in the area?  Any luck with it?

[EM69]

I signed up last week and am looking in both these areas.  I was on there about a year ago and had some success. Going on the responses so far there would appear to be a few genuine so far and of course the usual deluded and scammers.

[Scank]

I signed up last week and am looking in both these areas.  I was on there about a year ago and had some success. Going on the responses so far there would appear to be a few genuine so far and of course the usual deluded and scammers.

Had someone attempt to blackmail me yesterday threatening to send everything to my family and friends so be careful

[Ding123]

Active around there for some time and so know quite a few.. pm me the scammer details pls ?     

[EM69]

I would be interested to hear your experiences Ding

[Ding123]

 I’m juggling two regular freebies and one taking a small allowance at the moment with 3 others I don’t have time to see who I’m trying to keep sweet until I do .        There’s a lot of classless morons on SA - just needs some patience and effort to have success.

[EM69]

Nice one. What age range do you get most success with?  Ive found the 30+ to be quite productive.  I agree about having patience.

[Ding123]

It varies to be honest I’ve dipped in and out over the past few years a few times .  At the moment I’m seeing early 30s who just said fk SA lets pertend we met on tinder .... I’m mid 40s

In the past if had long term free 19 yo and 24 yo ... tbh it’s harder work finding the free ones but I kinda like the chase and it’s serious fun when u do.    If ur just looking for a cometo myHotel room type there’s plenty of options as well

[buzzfresh]

I've just started a few days ago, got scammed out of a small amount of cash by a user called sultrysasha from swindon. Just a warning guys

[Ding123]

Yeah she’s obv trying it on .... basic rule never ever ever give cash up front for any reason.    I point blank refused with her but she was still keen to meet - not been there yet though

[buzzfresh]

Yeah as soon as I sent the cash she disappeared from whatsapp, lesson learnt, found her on facebook too and not as fit or kinda innocent as the pic suggests unless your into a kind of raver chav girl

[Ding123]

Oh and report her !

[buzzfresh]

I did with a screen shot of the Whatsapp messages. Is she still there??

[Scank]

Yeah as soon as I sent the cash she disappeared from whatsapp, lesson learnt, found her on facebook too and not as fit or kinda innocent as the pic suggests unless your into a kind of raver chav girl

Shes still active on there, you need to get her reported.

[buzzfresh]

Shes still active on there, you need to get her reported.

See the last message I wrote, if I were you guys I would report her for soliciting or whatever and that might expedite the process of admin dropping the ban hammer on her

[buzzfresh]

Got a meet lined up tonight in Cheltenham, just drinks first maybe more. I’ll let you know how I get on

[buzzfresh]

I've just started a few days ago, got scammed out of a small amount of cash by a user called sultrysasha from swindon. Just a warning guys

Her friend Chloebbyxox is also on there

[Ding123]

Good luck ... blonde or brunette ?

[Ding123]

Out with my regular in chelt tomorrow - at this rate it’s only matter of time before I spot a couple in a corner and give a knowing wink

[buzzfresh]

Aubern brunette

[Ding123]

Aubern brunette

Ahh I know a couple who fit that description ... all the best let us know how it goes

[buzzfresh]

Ahh I know a couple who fit that description ... all the best let us know how it goes

Is it ok to PM you the user name?

[Ding123]

If u want- although u may not be able to pm with limited posts

[buzzfresh]

If u want- although u may not be able to pm with limited posts

Ahh yeah, you have to message me then I can reply

[Ding123]

Can’t as u need to have posted some reviews to DM 

[EM69]

Ive been chatting to sultrysasha as well. I have her flagged as probable scammer but was playing along for a bit. Asked about meeting and wants to bring a friend. Asked for a pic of both and and the one she sent of herslelf is differnet to the one on her profile.  She is still live on SA as I type.  She hasnt mentioned money up front yet but im waiting on it and will report as soon as.

I report any that try it on and block them.  For reference here are some that have tried it on
spicy gal from Exeter
kirstieann96 from Glocester
adventure queen1 from Swindon

Have only managed to verify one genuine in Cheltenham this time round. Met her for a drink but was way to expensive for my liking.  I have a couple of others Im talking to and hoping to meet over the next week or two.  If you can PM me I will share some more on those that are genuine.

[Scank]

Ive been chatting to sultrysasha as well. I have her flagged as probable scammer but was playing along for a bit. Asked about meeting and wants to bring a friend. Asked for a pic of both and and the one she sent of herslelf is differnet to the one on her profile.  She is still live on SA as I type.  She hasnt mentioned money up front yet but im waiting on it and will report as soon as.

I report any that try it on and block them.  For reference here are some that have tried it on
spicy gal from Exeter
kirstieann96 from Glocester
adventure queen1 from Swindon

Have only managed to verify one genuine in Cheltenham this time round. Met her for a drink but was way to expensive for my liking.  I have a couple of others Im talking to and hoping to meet over the next week or two.  If you can PM me I will share some more on those that are genuine.

Kirstieann96 tried with me too, started calling me a sicko and pervert and timewaster because of wouldn't send her a 20% deposit.

[Ding123]

Ive been chatting to sultrysasha as well. I have her flagged as probable scammer but was playing along for a bit. Asked about meeting and wants to bring a friend. Asked for a pic of both and and the one she sent of herslelf is differnet to the one on her profile.  She is still live on SA as I type.  She hasnt mentioned money up front yet but im waiting on it and will report as soon as.

I report any that try it on and block them.  For reference here are some that have tried it on
spicy gal from Exeter
kirstieann96 from Glocester
adventure queen1 from Swindon

Have only managed to verify one genuine in Cheltenham this time round. Met her for a drink but was way to expensive for my liking.  I have a couple of others Im talking to and hoping to meet over the next week or two.  If you can PM me I will share some more on those that are genuine.

What’s way too expensive ?   Usually best to ensure u are at least in the same ball park before meeting from my exp.   otherwise just ends up wasting both people’s time ... although I had one who said 300 ... I said no and she said let’s meet for a beer anyway and we sealed the deal at a bottle of prosecco and lunch

[buzzfresh]

Cleo008 wanted a gucci bag 

[Ding123]

Cleo008 wanted a gucci bag 

Think she’d spot a knock off    ?

How did Monday go? 

[buzzfresh]

Think she’d spot a knock off    ?

How did Monday go?

yeah it was decent, not gonna divulge too much I'm afraid

[Ding123]

yeah it was decent, not gonna divulge too much I'm afraid

Yeah fair enough .... if her real name begins with ‘I’ we should talk 

[Malky526]

Hey

New to this forum and SA in this area, but i travel around UK a bit so hoping to make use.

Out of interest, in terms of going out for a drink/meal and maybe spending some quality time together with a girl from SA, does it work out better value than positively reviewed escorts?
Essentially trying to understand if SA is worth the £70 per month on top of "expenses"

Without being to nosey, do you guys find it good value? Are you "saving money" or achieved better value?

[Ding123]

Hey

New to this forum and SA in this area, but i travel around UK a bit so hoping to make use.

Out of interest, in terms of going out for a drink/meal and maybe spending some quality time together with a girl from SA, does it work out better value than positively reviewed escorts?
Essentially trying to understand if SA is worth the £70 per month on top of "expenses"

Without being to nosey, do you guys find it good value? Are you "saving money" or achieved better value?

Totally different experience ... takes serious time , effort and leg work but can be rewarding

[EM69]

I agree with Ding. It is usually not a quick process and can take a lot of organising. There are loads of time wasters and scammers on there so you need to keep your wits about you. Never ever ever pay money up front of meeting for any plausable reason.

[blubandy]

Does it have an app? Quick search on Apple app store brought up nothing....

I have good success on tinder so might give it a go

[Ding123]

Does it have an app? Quick search on Apple app store brought up nothing....

I have good success on tinder so might give it a go

Think apple banned it - u can get app on Android or just go in via the web page - it’s about £70 per
Month to subscribe

[h34]

The website is seeking.com and it does indeed cost around £70 per month.  I used a pre-paid gift card the last time I did it.

Agree with advice given thus far.  It can be rewarding, but it's VERY time consuming just to set up an original meeting, and you have to bank on about 2/3 of the people backing out at the last minute for the original meeting.

If anyone has names to share in Gloucestershire that are worth pursuing, I'd be interested.

[blubandy]

If I put the effort into Tinder I can usually sleep with 2-3 women per month, sounds like I should stick with that?

What are the women like lookswise?

[EM69]

Go sign up for free and judge for yourself. Unless you pay you cant send and receive messages.

[qu3rky1]

Bumping this thread up so we have a chance to discuss prospects in the area.
I've stopped using AW and focus mainly on Seeking now due to the quality of the ladies

I've a few years worth of experience on there and specific to this area so I'll let you know which
are the local scams and any likely good fun girls

[houseboot]

Some information here:-

www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=235085.msg2399402#msg2399402

www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=259806.msg2650831#msg2650831

[qu3rky1]

Here's a few updates, warnings and info for a few I've met or at least spoken with...

External Link/Members Only - Scammer
External Link/Members Only - difficult to pin down, but OK in the sack, wouldn't return
External Link/Members Only - Single MILF, will accommodate - tats and good in bed
External Link/Members Only - VERY Sub if you can get her - takes a good pounding
External Link/Members Only - Deluded timewaster
External Link/Members Only - Also on AW -https://www.adultwork.com/ViewProfile.asp?UserID=3740734
External Link/Members Only - MILF, quite vanilla
External Link/Members Only - Also on AW - External Link/Members Only - BAREBACK WARNING
External Link/Members Only - SERIOUS Mental health issues - Baware

PM me for more details

[qu3rky1]

Warning, Scammer alert

Cheltenham: Ferby413
External Link/Members Only

Can't meet due to an ongoing medical condition, also affects her eating etc.
"Can I have some money for food?" thought you couldn't eat love

Also need money for house, bills, travel etc etc etc

I promise I'll meet in a few months

Binned and Blocked
Number ends 6856

Social media shows a healthy woman living in Yate and posting regularly

[Danj89]

Swindon used to be OK back end of last year but seems a bit dead now.
Not currently subbed but when I was on there for swindon the best option for me was Bristol students as the ppms worth more to them and they were happy to train it down and stay over.
The milfs always had childcare issues and the normal girls with full time jobs could never really stay late.

[qu3rky1]

Swindon used to be OK back end of last year but seems a bit dead now.
Not currently subbed but when I was on there for swindon the best option for me was Bristol students as the ppms worth more to them and they were happy to train it down and stay over.
The milfs always had childcare issues and the normal girls with full time jobs could never really stay late.

Any young'uns you'd care to share Danj…?

Of course I'll return the favour. PM if you prefer bud

[Danj89]

In Swindon not much, there was a blonde girl called jess who I think still might have a profile who was OK.

There was also a girl from bristol whose username was lady luck. Again not sure if she still active.

I just meant as a general strategy to go for Bristol uni girls rather than try and stick to locals.

I'm a bit younger than the general seeking population of guys so I think the younger ones find it easier to connect which is why I've done ok from it.

[qu3rky1]

In Swindon not much, there was a blonde girl called jess who I think still might have a profile who was OK.

There was also a girl from bristol whose username was lady luck. Again not sure if she still active.

I just meant as a general strategy to go for Bristol uni girls rather than try and stick to locals.

I'm a bit younger than the general seeking population of guys so I think the younger ones find it easier to connect which is why I've done ok from it.

haha, cheeky bugger - I'm not 'that' old... 

I'm looking forward to the new Uni intake as Chelt/Glos is full of single mums and quite a lot are bigger than average, NOT my type.
There's a few dayuse hotels down Bristol so may use them and entice the new Uni students into some debauchery...

I've sort of re-opened this thread to get some intel going amongst guys in the area, so feel free to ask and input - I can help with Intel and advice (costs and strategies etc) so come on guys get invloved

[h34]

What's everyone's strategy?  I've been on there for a few years on and off in various parts of the UK.  I'm currently in Gloucestershire. 

My latest strategy is to say hello and say a bit about me - hobbies, types of nghts out etc (mention something off their profile).  Probably about 1 in 5 bother to reply.  Begs the question why the others are even on there?

Do others have more luck in the initial hook message than me?  I appreciate if might come down to age and looks.  I'm in the 35-45 bracket, reasonable looking (but no Brad Pitt).

Then I try to get to WhatsApp as soon as possible.  When there, I mention £0 for a coffee meet and greet, £50 for susequent dates, or £100 for subsequent dates if we decide we want a sexual arrangement.  I also throw in £150 if they can host.

Deliberate sliding scale to increase the chances of sex.  Or at least that's my thoughts.

Looking at other threads on here, £100 to £300 seems to be a reasonable amount for an overnight, so my amounts don't seem miles off.

I *could* go in with a higher amount, say, £250.  But for me that would be unsustainable.  So I couldn't meet for £250+meals+hotel once a week - that would just be a huge monthly sum.

So I tend to go in with lower amounts so it's sustainable in the longer term.

What's everyone else's tactics?

Do other guys just go in and say £250 for sex off the bat for example?   With no promises that's going to be a regular thing?  I get the feeling that girls are looking for "arrangements", i.e. something that becomes regular.  But maybe I'm wrong - maybe some girls would be into one-offs?

And if doing a one-off, do people try and book a hotel on-the-fly whilst sipping coffee with the girl?

Been back on SA for a few weeks and haven't managed to seal the deal yet.

Cheers

[qu3rky1]

What's everyone's strategy?  I've been on there for a few years on and off in various parts of the UK.  I'm currently in Gloucestershire. 

My latest strategy is to say hello and say a bit about me - hobbies, types of nghts out etc (mention something off their profile).  Probably about 1 in 5 bother to reply.  Begs the question why the others are even on there?

Do others have more luck in the initial hook message than me?  I appreciate if might come down to age and looks.  I'm in the 35-45 bracket, reasonable looking (but no Brad Pitt).

Then I try to get to WhatsApp as soon as possible.  When there, I mention £0 for a coffee meet and greet, £50 for susequent dates, or £100 for subsequent dates if we decide we want a sexual arrangement.  I also throw in £150 if they can host.

Deliberate sliding scale to increase the chances of sex.  Or at least that's my thoughts.

Looking at other threads on here, £100 to £300 seems to be a reasonable amount for an overnight, so my amounts don't seem miles off.

I *could* go in with a higher amount, say, £250.  But for me that would be unsustainable.  So I couldn't meet for £250+meals+hotel once a week - that would just be a huge monthly sum.

So I tend to go in with lower amounts so it's sustainable in the longer term.

What's everyone else's tactics?

Do other guys just go in and say £250 for sex off the bat for example?   With no promises that's going to be a regular thing?  I get the feeling that girls are looking for "arrangements", i.e. something that becomes regular.  But maybe I'm wrong - maybe some girls would be into one-offs?

And if doing a one-off, do people try and book a hotel on-the-fly whilst sipping coffee with the girl?

Been back on SA for a few weeks and haven't managed to seal the deal yet.

Cheers

Similar to me, although I don't use the sliding scale, more just go in with the meet and greet type thing for a coffee or drink in quiet country pub. Always 'infer' I'm looking for longterm and the amounts I offer will be every time we meet. I also ensure they are aware that intimacy is expected.

I book hotels using dayuse - there's a few in the area that crop up. One by GCHQ and one other side of Cheltenham.
I NEVER check in unless the girl is with me, unless I've met her before. Dayuse rooms can be cancelled with no cost if she doesn't turn up.

If she can host then she gets the extra 50 notes as no hotel required.

One thing to note. ALL of these girls do NOT think and act like escorts, if you treat them like an escort you'll get knocked back. Charm and seduce a little and you'll get plenty