Hi Kentishman
I'm a bit like yourself, that is to say I'm a bit phone shy. There is nothing wrong with it and you certainly don't need to 'man up' for it either.
If women insist on you calling them rather than emailing them, they can fuck right off; Most of the time they say this so they don't have to deal with your demands and get away with the least amount of work they can for your money.
I find emailing far more appropriate, especially when I'm meeting a lady for the first time. I also like to describe to the lady what I want and how I want it. This way, I generally tend to have far better experiences with them. Once again, if they don't read your emails, or can't offer what you want, they can fuck off too; It's their loss and its all part of the filtering process. There is nothing wrong with it. There are plenty more women out there who will understand and meet your desires.
The only thing you can do on your part is to try and keep your emails / text messages short, relevant, concise, and to the point. If your messages are too long / waffling, it is likely to be ignored (especially if you are sending it to a foreigner where English is their second language). Even if they chose to ignore it, again it's their loss, move on.
"The more popular the woman and the more experienced the more stuck up or clearly impatient they seem to be when trying to communicate in a comfortable way."Yes, I have found this too in some cases. Example, I just commented on this thread today (
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=154532.0 in relation to this lady:
External Link/Members Only) where I outlined and specified to her what I enjoyed and was looking for during my time with her; Nothing out of the ordinary than what she already claimed to offer on her AW profile. She responded back negatively, stating that she "does not do lists". Just by chance today, I found a new statement on her 'Booking Info' tab of her AW profile which was not present at the time I emailed her, and is rather contradictory to the response she fed me several weeks earlier. I suspect (and speculate) that the reasons for her refusal to see me are something more sinister than my initial email reading like a 'list' of demands (speculation which I really don't care to worry about. Her loss anyway - she can fuck right off).