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Offline Kentishman

Does anyone else feel they miss out on a decent punt because they don't like phoning out of the blue?

Maybe it is just me, but I really can't bring myself to just call a number and speak brashly and openly about what I want.  My approach is always an intro on AW email, and my hit rate is shockingly poor.  I do understand that WG, particularly those whom have been around for a period of time, have their own frustrations with time wasters and alike, but I just don't feel that many of them account for the fact that some of us guys may get nervous too, we aren't all billy big bollox prepared to ring and state in detail what we are in to. 

I know, I know... man the fuck up right... but look... I learnt to drive after being taught, I learnt to fuck through trial and error... my point is Most stills we have are learnt skills we develop through life... no one is teaching me how to punt... no one is helping me and advising me... I'm feeling my way around in the dark somewhat, so give a guy a break.  The whole, "if you are real you will just ring me and arrange a booking" statement on profiles is bullshit... I'm real...  I want to experience as much as I can and new and exciting things, I'm just not confident in asking a perfect stranger over the phone aloud. 

The more popular the woman and the more experienced the more stuck up or clearly impatient they seem to be when trying to communicate in a comfortable way.  I understand that they haven't got time for email tennis, of course, but ffs give a guy a chance some times.

I just text someone... can we meet this afternoon, I'm here... outcall, this price, will make a booking on site if you wish etc... get a reply... yes of course what time for... so I reply... asap... tell me when you can get here.  Radio silence!  I suspect she's reached her 1 reply via text limit now and she's there thinking if he's real he will ring... well then tell me that... tell me you want me to ring and I will... but I'm not a mind reader.  Now I'm too pissed off with her to bother!

 So here I am ranting as opposed to fucking... my life rocks!!




Offline mrfishyfoo

Text message...."Hello blah I'd like to come visit you, when's a good time to ring you ??"

If they reply I then ring them and have a conversation on the phone.

Game on !!!

If they don't have a number displayed on AWank I email them and ask for their number.


« Last Edit: August 02, 2017, 05:30:25 pm by mrfishyfoo »

mrhappypants

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OP thank you for raising this very valuable topic.  If it makes you feel any better I have absolutely no compunction about asking a  complete stranger if she is willing to swallow my spunk or stick her fingers/tongue up my arse and Istill find arranging punts a fucking ordeal.  I was challenged by Steeley Dan recently about my current approach; I turn it into a numbers game, contacting six or seven potential punts for some hope of securing a booking at a convenient time.  I have a punt organised tomorrow but this arrangement is the only one to come through having contacted 8 different girls by text, email or phone since Monday including a number of those I have posted on the London So... whose going to TOFTT thread.   

Today's scheduled booking did not show for work today...

Can I add to this the challenges of TOFTT?  Fuck me you take your life in your hands trying to arrange a punt and not get ripped off with an unreviewed girl most times.  All hail information sharing  :thumbsup:.  Punting is a skill and valuable part of this forum is learning the craft from others.






Offline Kentishman

Well I feel a whole lot better already.  I'm thinking I'm doing something wrong but maybe not.  I'm being greedy, I had a booking Monday with someone and definitely on for tonight as well, but I thought I'd squeeze an extra one in before then and try someone new this afternoon after great reviews from people it seems you can really trust on here.  Unfortunately where I am currently there aren't 8 WG to message.

The TOFTT thing I haven't done yet...  but I actually have a plan to on Friday as she's  been messaging a lot and sending photos and videos and skying after I declined a reverse booking from her a few weeks back because I could find no feedback on her anywhere but AW.  Some girls are gems as far as attitude goes. How refreshing it will be that I will meet someone I know exactly what she looks like and she's not going to turn up 40 years older and 5 stone heavier then her AW photos.

I'm spending money like it's going out of fashion at the moment as I'm still like a kid in a sweet shop after recently dipping toe, but thinking about it last night, it's losing its shine slightly.  With my meets  now I'm not sat nervously awaiting a knock at the door or buying cheap bottles of wine to ensure I arrive at an incall with something to defend myself with should it be a trap.. lol... n o, already now I'm sat there nervously thinking I just hope she resembles her photo at least a little...!  We shouldn't need a TOFTT thread, they should just be open.  For every guy they lose for the extra pounds they've gained there's another guy the gain who prefers that surely...?

Online The_Don

Perhaps have a read of the punting-WIKI. IMO, its useful for both new and seasoned punters  :hi:


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How do YOU arrange a punt?

I arrange most of my punts no more than a few hours in advance.

I prefer to speak to some one, on the phone. Even if its not the W/G but the maid or pimp. So I will call and text to confirm some details. As I don't like my time being wasted.


My approach is always an intro on AW email, and my .hit rate is shockingly poor

A/W, emails is not my thing

I've only used the A/W email system a few times, due to R/B or flirts. IMO, its a waste of time and it only resulted in negative experiences.

If a W/G isn't displaying a number or willing to provide one, I just move on.

Its up W/G how they wish to conduct bookings and who they wish to see.

But don't care for or have very little use, for some part of the AW systems (emails, RB, bookings, feedback, etc). Its to open to abuse and misuse, IMO.

Currently, I won't change the way I book (and pay for) a W/G, regardless of her feedback or reviews, on A/W or UKP and UKE.

Its just the way I punt. No phone number = no booking from me. Feedback on A/W required = No booking from me.

My A/W account is 6 + years old and it has no feedback on it and its going to stay that way for some time.

I don't need some 2 liners on A/W, just to please or state I'm a punter, to a W/G


I use a phone, good manners and cash. The rest is in her hands after that point (service, attitude and VFM)




So here I am ranting as opposed to fucking... my life rocks!!

Take it you didn't have a plan B, C or D in place  :unknown:

Once your looking plan at E, its best calling time, on that day search for punt, IMO. As jumping in desperation can, in some cases lead to a poor punt (experience can be, a harsh teacher).

 
That Punting:
 

is wondrous, with treasures to satiate desires both subtle and gross. But it's not for the timid  ;)
« Last Edit: August 02, 2017, 07:25:59 pm by The_Don »

Offline hw189

Hi Kentishman

I'm a bit like yourself, that is to say I'm a bit phone shy. There is nothing wrong with it and you certainly don't need to 'man up' for it either.

If women insist on you calling them rather than emailing them, they can fuck right off; Most of the time they say this so they don't have to deal with your demands and get away with the least amount of work they can for your money.

I find emailing far more appropriate, especially when I'm meeting a lady for the first time. I also like to describe to the lady what I want and how I want it. This way, I generally tend to have far better experiences with them. Once again, if they don't read your emails, or can't offer what you want, they can fuck off too; It's their loss and its all part of the filtering process. There is nothing wrong with it. There are plenty more women out there who will understand and meet your desires.

The only thing you can do on your part is to try and keep your emails / text messages short, relevant, concise, and to the point. If your messages are too long / waffling, it is likely to be ignored (especially if you are sending it to a foreigner where English is their second language). Even if they chose to ignore it, again it's their loss, move on.

"The more popular the woman and the more experienced the more stuck up or clearly impatient they seem to be when trying to communicate in a comfortable way."

Yes, I have found this too in some cases. Example, I just commented on this thread today (https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=154532.0 in relation to this lady: External Link/Members Only) where I outlined and specified to her what I enjoyed and was looking for during my time with her; Nothing out of the ordinary than what she already claimed to offer on her AW profile. She responded back negatively, stating that she "does not do lists". Just by chance today, I found a new statement on her 'Booking Info' tab of her AW profile which was not present at the time I emailed her, and is rather contradictory to the response she fed me several weeks earlier. I suspect (and speculate) that the reasons for her refusal to see me are something more sinister than my initial email reading like a 'list' of demands (speculation which I really don't care to worry about. Her loss anyway - she can fuck right off).

Offline Kentishman

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Quote from: The_Don on January 07, 2017, 02:45:13 PM
I've only used the A/W email system a few times, due to R/B or flirts. IMO, its a waste of time and it only resulted in negative experiences.

If a W/G isn't displaying a number or willing to provide one, I just move on.

Its up W/G how they wish to conduct bookings and who they wish to see.

But don't care for or have very little use, for some part of the AW systems (emails, RB, bookings, feedback, etc). Its to open to abuse and misuse, IMO.

Currently, I won't change the way I book (and pay for) a W/G, regardless of her feedback or reviews, on A/W or UKP and UKE.

Its just the way I punt. No phone number = no booking from me. Feedback on A/W required = No booking from me.

My A/W account is 6 + years old and it has no feedback on it and its going to stay that way for some time.

I don't need some 2 liners on A/W, just to please or state I'm a punter, to a W/G


I use a phone, good manners and cash. The rest is in her hands after that point (service, attitude and VFM)

Thanks The_Don.  I understand completely now that people displaying their number generally means they are much more genuine.  Some WG don't even read their mails it seems.  I just freeze when they ask things like... so what would you like... "i don't mind" is a common response of mine. Yes I have paid for nothing on One occasion as a result... but generally it just leads to a very vanilla experience like any standard girl you might meet in a club.. I want a bit of something else where the girl grabs my head and makes me eat her ass or tells me to fuck her or slaps herself in face with cock hahaha you know what I mean, rather than the old ok what next... how would you like me bs.


The problem is, having only experienced "relationship" sex in my past you soon learn then that it's not ok to ask for that behaviour, so it's kind of a mental block around females I now have.  I could end up meeting the filthiest porn star in the world and I'd end up in mish and then a spoon afterwards!  I need YOU to speak to them for me lol

Offline Kentishman

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the only thing you can do on your part is to try and keep your emails / text messages short, relevant, concise, and to the point

I've never met anyone who hasn't turned up and then said ok so remind me... what did you want... whenever I've tried this.

Also the reverse booking is bs... they bid, but you can't reply to their bid, you have to send them an email... so if they reply with yes I'm up for what you are asking for please check my profile and if you like me contact me, so you do that, and they've bid on 50 RB's and don't know which one you are... then you explain and agree and accept, and they turn up and say... ok remind me.... I'm going to write it down on a napkin next time and hand it to them ffs!  Lol

Also... has anyone ever had a WG turn up on time?  We get slaughtered if we aren't there on the dot... yet hang on, I've never had an outcall arrive less than half hour later than agreed...  it's just take take take

Offline hw189

I've never met anyone who hasn't turned up and then said ok so remind me... what did you want... whenever I've tried this.

Also the reverse booking is bs... they bid, but you can't reply to their bid, you have to send them an email... so if they reply with yes I'm up for what you are asking for please check my profile and if you like me contact me, so you do that, and they've bid on 50 RB's and don't know which one you are... then you explain and agree and accept, and they turn up and say... ok remind me.... I'm going to write it down on a napkin next time and hand it to them ffs!  Lol

Also... has anyone ever had a WG turn up on time?  We get slaughtered if we aren't there on the dot... yet hang on, I've never had an outcall arrive less than half hour later than agreed...  it's just take take take

Yes, I've hardly ever had anyone turn up and ask me to remind them what I wanted. They have just got on with what I requested from my email, often quite well during my meet. Those are the ones that generally receive positive reviews from myself and return visits from me. It is SO MUCH BETTER than trying to direct, or instruct, a lady on what to do during the meet.

I can't answer your other two points on reverse bids or outcalls - hardly ever do them.

Offline Malvolio

Phone up, be polite, ask if she's free at x o'clock for however long it is you want.  If yes, clarify the price and make sure that the services you want from her profile will be available.  If no, try and arrange an alternative meeting time, or move on to someone else.

Offline l4at

Just treat it as a normal phone call, 'are you available at this time etc.' Unless you are asking for specific details/services, it's a pretty much standard phone call.

It's not something i've had an issue with (except my first ever phone call booking) so maybe I just won't understand your dilemma  :unknown:

Offline ruffler

great post OP - im a little seasoned and dont review massively as i am discreet and try to stay low ow - PM me if necessary - I suggest you treat a lot on face value - some may have bad experiences - i prefer text approach but always offer a call to discuss - most remain cool at that and a short game on call or text is sufficient - each to their own - most of mu punts have been successful with the odd - ok but not my finest (thats usual) - maybe you hit on something or someone who clicks and it works for a while  - but dude its uually a PLAN A that your confident on - plan B thats close and c and D are fall back
 - and of course its for the ladies to also do likewise












Online The_Don

im a little seasoned and dont review massively

Your UKP profile External Link/Members Only has 0 reviews. Care to enlighten us, as to what your definition of  External Link/Members Only  means   :unknown:

Offline Kentishman

How do you do a Quote From on here...?

Offline socks

Good question op. I much prefer to write what I want in an aw email probably for two reasons. One is that I can be absolutely clear about what I want and whilst in reality it's absolutely meaningless, it puts it on record as to what she's agreed to. Sex contracts aren't enforceable but it makes reviewing girls willingness to do what they say they'll do much more umm.... robust. The second is I usually fuck up if I try to explain what I want over the phone, I forget key things, get sidetracked if she says anything other than an enthusiastic 'yes', or just can't bring myself to tell her that I want to stick my tongue up her arsehole, while she pisses on my face, before fucking all 3 holes and giving her cof, cim and maybe a drop in her ear. All to camera of course. It's easier to write and probably down to the gentleman romantic in me  :lol:


Offline PleadInsanity

How do you do a Quote From on here...?

Top right hand corner of each post is the 'Quote' button.

bigmanbigman

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Horses for courses some wgs
Will accept text
Some phone only
And if no phone number up has to be aw
Your choice or find a wg that matches your contact preferences

Offline mrdiamond77

Either by text, via AW email, phone or send a message on UKE.  It does depend on if the WG has a specific way on which to be contacted, but I do tend to prefer to text and wait for a reply.  Usually can't get hold of a lot of them if you phone them.

Offline cueball

If there's a number displayed, I'll ring it. If there's no number displayed, I'll email and ask for a number and then I'll ring it.

If she isn't prepared to swap phone numbers then off the list she goes.

The phone call is the most important part of my initial comms.

The above is for new faces,, returns are much more simple. A text enquiry is all that is needed if I've been before.

Offline Shearer1955

If there's a number displayed, I'll ring it. If there's no number displayed, I'll email and ask for a number and then I'll ring it.

If she isn't prepared to swap phone numbers then off the list she goes.

The phone call is the most important part of my initial comms.

The above is for new faces,, returns are much more simple. A text enquiry is all that is needed if I've been before.

I usually send off an email using A/w messaging and indeed arrange any meeting by that method

That said I'm happy to speak on the phone if the escort prefers to do so; lets face it you are intending to meet her for a fuck so it doesn't do any harm to have some real contact before as it can help to ensure compatibility

If its an agency then I'll call them to arrange & organise something & after speaking on the phone I'll get a text with address etc

I prefer to book a few days forward because I use public transport so need to organise

I've never had any problems to date

Offline ruffler

How do you do a Quote From on here...?
Whilst i Havent reviewed per se - I have added my reviews to otter posts big lad

Offline Marmalade

You're responding to an ad, so anything other than the preferred method of contacting stated in the ad is potentially an extra hurdle: but prossie comms vary so much it's not worth worrying about too much (following their preferred method they can still be too lazy to reply).

If the OP has a problem speaking on the phone he just needs to get over it. If his head is full of GFE and wanting to talk in that manner, remember the phone call is not part of the punt. Say you like a bit of GFE, end of. Very few prossies like to 'chat' on the phone: if she does, she'll make that clear straight away. If it's still a problem, practice what you're going to say before phoning.
 :hi:

Many are happier with words like 'sex' rather than 'a fuck'. Prossiespeak.  :rolleyes:   :lol:

Offline PeachyAssFan

Kentishman. I am exactly like you and have had the same results, especially when trying to arrange something the same day or evening. We need to take heed from what's been said :-)

Offline Gordon Bennett

My preference is to phone. They hardly ever answer, just get voicemail. I leave a message saying I want to see them later that day at 3pm for an hour. Usually get a text back within minutes saying yay or nay. Waiting hours/days for an email response is shit so that's my last resort in terms of contact. With regs, i just text or whatsapp them.
I have no idea how a guy can even visit a stranger, undress and then fuck her if he's reluctant to even phone them.... it doesn't make sense?.

Offline BogBog1

I'm phone shy too, plus I tend to arrange punts within earshot of others, so my approach is always to do everything via text. Occasionally I'll get a "please call me" reply (in which case I tend to not bother taking it any further). It's always worked pretty well for me...

It does raise an interesting question though. How the hell can I prefer the relative anonymity of a text message rather than a phone call, but have no problem with sticking my tongue up a stranger's ass within 5 minutes of walking through her door? The human brain is a weird and wonderful thing.

Offline stampjones

You dont have to discuss detail on the phone. Problem is if you choose not to phone then you are limiting the number of potential punts to only those who will answer email. I hate phones too but what I do is treat it like an official call like to your bank. Just come across all business like and confirm the details you want to know. If you csn handle those types of call IRL, you can do it with prossies.

If you dont like talking during the meet - write out what you want on your phone or whatever and when you get there say can you do this and hand it to her.

Final idea - have you tried agencies? More expensive but I'd imagine they all answer their online enquires as they all have an online contact form.

Good luck

Offline Kentishman

I hate phones too but what I do is treat it like an official call like to your bank. Just come across all business like and confirm the details you want to know. If you csn handle those types of call IRL, you can do it with prossies.

Hahahaha I approached it in this exact way stampjones... you know what happened...?  As soon as she answered I said "ahh hi, it's ..". and then announced my full name automatically!  Lol. Ffs  :dash: :dash: :dash:

I have rung a couple recently and it's not so daunting but if I'm asked what I like I do just say GFE when really I mean PSE..
I'll get there eventually... I'm learning fast and actually, please don't take this the wrong way, but I'm so impressed with this forum and how friendly and helpful the responses are.   :hi:

Offline stampjones

Hahahaha I approached it in this exact way stampjones... you know what happened...?  As soon as she answered I said "ahh hi, it's ..". and then announced my full name automatically!  Lol. Ffs  :dash: :dash: :dash:

Haha - not good! I had kind of the opposite happen to me in a way. Ive never used my own name punting and early on I started using another name for punts. It got to the stage a few years ago where I was punting so much that people IRL would adk my name and I'd give my punting name. Scary shit really and a sign I should calm down a bit.

Offline socks

but have no problem with sticking my tongue up a stranger's ass within 5 minutes of walking through her door?
I think that's probably illegal but certainly way beyond what I'm into. I've given a friendly pat on the head to a wg's pet dog once or twice but that's as far as it goes when it comes to animals thank you very much. :D

Offline oinki

I dont like phoning but then again I seldom do a spontaneous booking on the day, and when i have it has usually ended up crap.

As im booking in advance: aw email, sms text, whatsapp, phone - in that order.

If im not booking in advance: sms text / whatsapp, phone, aw email - assuming phone is displayed.

More often the not contacting is also to suss out if there are extras not stated, that way im really confirming services and the added cost (which tend to be a dealbreaker for me)
« Last Edit: August 05, 2017, 09:51:42 am by oinki »

Offline puntingpumping1920

Its simply a business transaction, so I have no qualms speaking to a prostitute on the phone about a service she provides.
 
I prefer speaking on the phone, so I can get a quicker response to my questions.

I usually just ask for a appointment time and guarantee specific service I'm looking for.
Banned reason: Mr £500k go and buy some fucking manners
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YorkshireGuy

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In the beginning it was very difficult to muster up the courage to phone and make a booking, most insist on it so the choices were pretty limited, ended up making my first booking by text with a lass I didn't even fancy :crazy:
 
Eventually I started phoning a few and grew in confidence after a half dozen times, now I don't even think about it!

What I've found is most don't even answer the phone anyway and are happy to take text bookings so if I phone and get no answer I'll usually text after that.

I always make it simple and to the point when I send a text, e.g. "Hi, are you available at 7pm today for 1 hour". Some don't reply but mostly it's been a success doing it this way, no messing about and I never would text or phone asking for specific services I know they already do except if I have a specific requirement for an outfit.


Offline shagmore

I will send email if I want to know some facts first that are not mentioned in the profile, (typically are tits real or enhanced) this breaks ice, they can see your feedback etc. But usually its a spur of the moment thing, and the thrill of phoning some dirty pro up for a shag is a real turn on. The build up is in my opinion more fun. I like seeing the same girls as build up a repore (not EA) they also know what you like, and you can take liberties. Had had some who say no A levels, but have visited many times and have given in the Arse - but I digress.
Quick look in the HL to see who is free, or a search around the region in case any new faces.
Phone them up, make the appt, and hopefully within the hour its shag time
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