Auburndelight review- Southampton, Eastleigh, Hampshire

[AdultWorkFan]

Auburndelight
'Amy delight'
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Hi guys

So last week I had my first punt with Amy. Being absolutely  terrified, I went ahead and met her anyway and came close to doing a runner before texting to say I was there.  It took me half an hour to ejaculate from a handjob! She was very persistent and when explaining that I was nervous, she was reassuring. I had a chat with her for about 15 minutes at the end and she was open and talkative with me and I enjoyed her company.

Just over a week later, I visited her again today. I text her to see if I could arrive a few minutes earlier for a shower and was refused and told I had to do this in the time of the booking. I thought this was a bit unwelcoming and unfriendly, it would only have been a few minutes and I'd have thought looking at her profile that she'd appreciate a clean punter. I arrived and text her to let her know I was there and she sent me the exact same text as the week before letting me know the directions ( I was right outside the block of flats and knew where  she works!)then took about 4 minutes before coming down and letting me in! She opened the door- complete silence. I arrived in the flat and said ' nice to see you again' followed by complete silence. She either didn't recognise me or didn't care.I went and had a shower anyway and shortly after had intercourse with her and lost my virginity. At first I was excited and it felt ok with her being on top, then we changed positions a few times. I gradually started to feel uneasy. She kept her eyes closed the whole time. There was no engaging, talking and gave me the impression that  that she wanted to be anywhere but there with me. After about ten minutes I was starting to lose my errection. I tried CG, missionary and doggy. Despite seeing and feeling a real life butt and vagina for the first time, I just lost most of my  excitement. It just didn't feel as good as I expected Even though she could easily be a low paid model bodywise.  I went back to CG and she had her hand on my semi errectile penis and she said it was to get it in properly but it stated to hurt a bit when she did so and I said no hand please- should have mentioned it was hurting but felt awkward saying it and feared offending her.

I felt like i was having sex with a robot. Without having a feeling of human interaction and connection, but knowing she was another human being, the whole thing felt wrong. I carried on for about 20 minutes in total then just asked to be finished off  with  a handjob. It felt ok but sometimes a bit harsh and painful. She rushed off to the bathroom once I had finished to wash her hands, as if  and was unsure if she heard me or not but whispered quite loudly 'never again!'With ten minutes remaining I asked for a back massage but it got to a point a few minutes later where I just had to go because it was more stressful than relaxing by this point- was just trying to make sure I got the most out of my £130 I guess. I left soon after, said thank you and goodbye and that was all she said after that point.

It could have been nerves or I may genuinely have errectile dysfunction or delayed ejaculation, possibly porn induced or death grip induced. It had been 7 days without masturbating for me and I still had these issues. So perhaps for other guys you'd be ok with her and won't have the same  issue was me. If you're not looking for an interaction I'd recommend her but for me it's just not very enjoyable.Even though I was semi errect most of the time, she still felt quite tight. I'm not that big at all although can't really compare to other punters.

Overall I'd say Amy is a nice sweet woman but she's in the wrong job and I think she feels disgusted with what she does for a living. Amy if you read this and this is the case, please do something else for a living. You're well spoken, intelligent and you have other options if you really do hate this job, or maybe you just hated my company I dont know. 

Not sure this escort stuff is for me but I'll give it time and see. At least I know that sex is not as good as my hormones have led me to believe and at least I know that I shouldn't become addicted to escorts as feared.


Finally, is there a way to remove positive feedback on adultwork?


All the best guys.

EDIT: how do I index this?

[vw]

Sorry to hear about your shit punt

Her cover picture put me off, looks the person that behaves like you described to me.

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[AdultWorkFan]

Sorry to hear about your shit punt

Her cover picture put me off, looks the person that behaves like you described to me.

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There were some good photos of her- smiling, looking pleased and comfortable during sex, but I saw none of that today. Her being shy, seeing her on xhamster speaking about sex toys and knowing she wasn't a fake were a few of the reasons I wanted to see her.i don't want to see her again though, that's for sure and not sure if paying for sex with anyone else is for me really. I'll wait and see but in no rush to go back and search on adultwork.

[vw]

There were some good photos of her- smiling, looking pleased and comfortable during sex, but I saw none of that today. Her being shy, seeing her on xhamster speaking about sex toys and knowing she wasn't a fake were a few of the reasons I wanted to see her.i don't want to see her again though, that's for sure and not sure if paying for sex with anyone else is for me really. I'll wait and see but in no rush to go back and search on adultwork.

Can see how an early disappointment could affect your  willingness to pay another prossie.   Up to you and if you do try again hope it is a good one. 

[AdultWorkFan]

Can see how an early disappointment could affect your  willingness to pay another prossie.   Up to you and if you do try again hope it is a good one. 

Cheers mate! It takes different strokes for different folks and I guess what I want deep down is a girlfriend,or friend with benefits, you know someone who wants to be with me, both enjoying eachothers bodies and company etc. Although it's pretty difficult to get a girlfriend nowadays and  I've recently become MGTOW, terrified of losing my money and being divorced etc. Will have to see what to do in the near future, probably just need to let this all sink in for a few days really.

[sensualencounter]

Whenever I've seen her profile that photo puts me off - she looks like she wants to murder you.

[vw]

Cheers mate! It takes different strokes for different folks and I guess what I want deep down is a girlfriend,or friend with benefits, you know someone who wants to be with me, both enjoying eachothers bodies and company etc. Although it's pretty difficult to get a girlfriend nowadays and  I've recently become MGTOW, terrified of losing my money and being divorced etc. Will have to see what to do in the near future, probably just need to let this all sink in for a few days really.

Sure your foray into punting will make you a better judge of potential girlfriends going forward.  If a GF is what you want you are right maybe punting isn't the place to be.

[purple_t]

Sorry to hear you had a shit time.
There are other reports on here about her being quiet and lacklustre, which would have put me off, especially if I was a virgin as really a more extroverted, confident girl would have been better in that scenario. Also she looks rough in her main pic and moody as fuck, not my type at all.
Then again, maybe punting just isn't for you. You never know until you try and of course the experience varies depending on the girl. I knew after my first punt that I'd be a punter for life but maybe I would have felt differently had my first punt not been so enjoyable.
Good luck on your journey however you proceed.

[AdultWorkFan]

Whenever I've seen her profile that photo puts me off - she looks like she wants to murder you.

She's by no means a nasty person or a murdrrer! And she's a lot more attractive in real life.   On my first punt She was lovely when I  interacted with her about stuff not related to sex and I genuinely mean that. If id met her at school or college, she's the type of girl I'd like to be friends or acquaitences with. But the whole thing today was just too awkward for words!

[sensualencounter]

I don't really mean she's a murderer! But she looks proper moody. I get the feeling you want some intimacy and to feel loved. I'm sure there are some escorts out there that do that but the harsh fact is, it's all an act. They really just want the money. Some of them may be a bit lonely themselves and enjoy the company but it is a business transaction at the end of the day. If you're looking for true love and companionship then adult work is not the place to find it.

[AdultWorkFan]

Sorry to hear you had a shit time.
There are other reports on here about her being quiet and lacklustre, which would have put me off, especially if I was a virgin as really a more extroverted, confident girl would have been better in that scenario. Also she looks rough in her main pic and moody as fuck, not my type at all.
Then again, maybe punting just isn't for you. You never know until you try and of course the experience varies depending on the girl. I knew after my first punt that I'd be a punter for life but maybe I would have felt differently had my first punt not been so enjoyable.
Good luck on your journey however you proceed.

I think you're right. Her obsession with being clean was a tipping point for me. Her being shy was also a positive for me before booking because I am myself and thought Id be more comfortable if I had ED or whatever. However, not feeling like a woman wants to be with you when having sex is off putting for myself, even though most escorts probably feel that way. When it's THAT obvious, it's just  too awkward and unpleasant.
She didn't come across as moody on my first meet. She does smile every now and then and she was smiling and joking with me  about my 30 minute handjob. She also smiled and joked when we talked about non sexual stuff at the end of tmje first session. But closing your eyes for the whole of the sex session today is clearly indicating to me that she was wishing she was  somewhere else.

[Spunky34]

i don't want to see her again though, that's for sure and not sure if paying for sex with anyone else is for me really. I'll wait and see but in no rush to go back and search on adultwork.

Sorry you didn't have a good time today, I hope you can work out what you want and whether punting is the right way to get it.  As others have said, this isn't the right way to find anything particularly deep, but there are plenty of good people out there who will put some effort in and try to make sure you enjoy yourself.  On the basis of one bad experience, please don't think that punting is always like that.

If you do decide you might want to punt again, there isn't a better suggestion I can make than to use the reviews on here to identify a girl with consistently good feedback.  It is so much more reliable than AW feedback or field reports. 

[AdultWorkFan]

Sorry you didn't have a good time today, I hope you can work out what you want and whether punting is the right way to get it.  As others have said, this isn't the right way to find anything particularly deep, but there are plenty of good people out there who will put some effort in and try to make sure you enjoy yourself.  On the basis of one bad experience, please don't think that punting is always like that.

If you do decide you might want to punt again, there isn't a better suggestion I can make than to use the reviews on here to identify a girl with consistently good feedback.  It is so much more reliable than AW feedback or field reports.

You're correct there. I did read the other reviews and foolishly believed that she'd be more comfortable around me after we spoke and had conversation at the end of the first punt. Of corse there's no romance but a  FWB  type of experience is what I'd hoped for. However this was  of course just fantasy after the irritating things t hat happened today and it makes sense- in my mind she'd have remembered me but the truth is she's probably seen over 20 guys since- though I assumed there'd be a bit more interaction . Hormones can deceive you, as I'm sure you're aware!



I suppose without my personal situation I'd have given Amy a neutral rating, so if anyone isn't in the same situation as me, she might be good for you as she is tight and attractive. But just expect a lot of awkwardness, silence and a lack of interaction.

[advent2016]

My experience. All I wanted was BJ/snowball and a bit of dom (strap on/spanking). She did exactly what I wanted to my limits and price.  I agree she is a bit scripted and not really my type, but for this particular fantasy she is one of the few to deliver it 100%.

[AdultWorkFan]

My experience. All I wanted was BJ/snowball and a bit of dom (strap on/spanking). She did exactly what I wanted to my limits and price.  I agree she is a bit scripted and not really my type, but for this particular fantasy she is one of the few to deliver it 100%.

That surprises me because on my first meet I asked for a lap dance and her response was 'I don't do that and that's why I ask people to check I offer a service before an appointment'.

[purple_t]

That surprises me because on my first meet I asked for a lap dance and her response was 'I don't do that and that's why I ask people to check I offer a service before an appointment'.

To be fair, she doesn't have it listed in her likes, and it's always better to check beforehand with a WG that all the services you want are things that she does.

Without trying to sound like a dick, you say that you are MGTOW (aka Men Sent Their Own Way), but that you are also looking for a girlfriend or some kind of intimacy. I thought the point of MGTOW was that you disregard women altogether, save for meaningless sex?

It sounds like maybe you are confused about what you want. By all means punt to fulfill your sexual needs and build up some experience, but don't expect it to be a substitute for a relationship because they are two very different things.

[AdultWorkFan]

To be fair, she doesn't have it listed in her likes, and it's always better to check beforehand with a WG that all the services you want are things that she does.

Without trying to sound like a dick, you say that you are MGTOW (aka Men Sent Their Own Way), but that you are also looking for a girlfriend or some kind of intimacy. I thought the point of MGTOW was that you disregard women altogether, save for meaningless sex?

It sounds like maybe you are confused about what you want. By all means punt to fulfill your sexual needs and build up some experience, but don't expect it to be a substitute for a relationship because they are two very different things.

I completely respect her decision not to give me a lap dance. I'm new to all of this, confused and don't fully understand punting culture. I wrongly assumed she'd be willing to do it as it's a walk in the park compared to sex, but I respect her decision completely.

And yeah your right, I'm completely unsure about what I want. Probably a therapist is what I need, not an escort!

Glad you had a good time with her! 

[vw]

And yeah your right, I'm completely unsure about what I want. Probably a therapist is what I need, not an escort!

Therapists are hit or miss in the sack one good one bad. 

[madmania]

Sorry to hear it wasn't a good one for you pal

Combination of first time having sex never being mind blowing compared to expectations and the girl being disinterested and mechanical seems to be the main cause of your bad experience.

Could be that punting is not for you - certainly isn't for everyone. I would say though that before you give up try one of the great girls who will guaranteed give you a great time!

In Southampton there's Lovely Lorraine and Alycia.

If redheads are you're thing Holly in Bournemouth and Hayley in Portsmouth are both absolutely stella punts and I guarantee you'll have an amazing time

And if after seeing the best girls you still didn't enjoy then at least you know punting isn't for you and you'll save a hell of a lot of cash in the long run!

[AdultWorkFan]

Sorry to hear it wasn't a good one for you pal

Combination of first time having sex never being mind blowing compared to expectations and the girl being disinterested and mechanical seems to be the main cause of your bad experience.

Could be that punting is not for you - certainly isn't for everyone. I would say though that before you give up try one of the great girls who will guaranteed give you a great time!

In Southampton there's Lovely Lorraine and Alycia.

If redheads are you're thing Holly in Bournemouth and Hayley in Portsmouth are both absolutely stella punts and I guarantee you'll have an amazing time

And if after seeing the best girls you still didn't enjoy then at least you know punting isn't for you and you'll save a hell of a lot of cash in the long run!

Cheers for the recommendations! I'll consider you recommendations but only in the next few months. I have no urge to splash the cash anytime soon and already feel daft spending £260 in the past month.

[madmania]

Cheers for the recommendations! I'll consider you recommendations but only in the next few months. I have no urge to splash the cash anytime soon and already feel daft spending £260 in the past month.

Sounds good to me - why not spend this time now going on POF and look for a civvie, have some fun that's real?

[kamu]

You didnt really pick a great pro$$ie to lose your V plates with. This is an example of why its worth reading reviews here before taking the plunge. Especially if time and money are thin on the ground. Anyway if this is your first experience of intercourse dont let it put you off. There is much better out there. As others have mentioned Hayley or Holly are pretty much a sure thing for a good time but they arent the only ones. Now to quote a well known film "stop putting the pussy on a pedestal" and get yourself a better pro$$ie lined up!!

[Cabbie]

I was considering seeing this girl but your review has made me think. Why does she leave you standing at the entrance of the flats for a while before coming down to let you in? Can't she just buzz you in?  If she is worried about discretion you must stand out just hanging around the door on a main road? I like polite conversation which this escort appears not to have. Being shy I one thing but that is no excuse for just downright rudeness. I would like her to come and give us her explanation. Going by the length of her adult work advertisement she isn't shy on a computer. I don't like the fact you can't actually speak to her as she  won't take calls.

[purple_t]

I completely respect her decision not to give me a lap dance. I'm new to all of this, confused and don't fully understand punting culture. I wrongly assumed she'd be willing to do it as it's a walk in the park compared to sex, but I respect her decision completely.

And yeah your right, I'm completely unsure about what I want. Probably a therapist is what I need, not an escort!

Glad you had a good time with her! 

I've never seen her, you couldn't pay me to fuck her tbh

[Cabbie]

Leave her a negative feedback on adult work to warn others

[AdultWorkFan]

Leave her a negative feedback on adult work to warn others

Can I do this if I've already given positive feedback?

[AdultWorkFan]

I was considering seeing this girl but your review has made me think. Why does she leave you standing at the entrance of the flats for a while before coming down to let you in? Can't she just buzz you in?  If she is worried about discretion you must stand out just hanging around the door on a main road? I like polite conversation which this escort appears not to have. Being shy I one thing but that is no excuse for just downright rudeness. I would like her to come and give us her explanation. Going by the length of her adult work advertisement she isn't shy on a computer. I don't like the fact you can't actually speak to her as she  won't take calls.

I must admit I did felt a bit on edge waiting outside. If it had been my first meeting I may have considered leaving for my safety considering I had £130 with me. And sending the exact same text for the directions  considering it was just over a week of the last meeting made me puzzled. I got the feeling this was her trying to wind me up because I requested to arrive early for a shower but I might be wrong.

I'd like for her to explain it as well. Is it rudeness, does she hate the job, was it me? Maybe myself and other punters are misunderstanding her shyness for rudeness and if that's the case then ok. But it's too uncomfortable to want to return. I repeat, there is definitely a good side to Amy when you socialise with her but for a paying punter, avoid.

[bigmanbigman]

Put it behind you and  see a girl like Hailey next time .
All wgs are different and sometimes you dont click
So a shit punt follows.

[vw]

Put it behind you and  see a girl like Hailey next time .
All wgs are different and sometimes you dont click
So a shit punt follows.

Someone into hardsports ?   

[Cabbie]

I thought you left positive feedback for your first meeting. If you left it for your second poor meeting then WHY?

[bigmanbigman]

Someone into hardsports ?   

no but funny ha ha.

[vw]

I thought you left positive feedback for your first meeting. If you left it for your second poor meeting then WHY?

Adultwork feedback is pointless, to much retaliation for the truth by unstable prossies.

Feedbak is very skewed in their favour so people just don't bother, good he did it here though.

[madmania]

Adultwork feedback is pointless, to much retaliation for the truth by unstable prossies.

Feedbak is very skewed in their favour so people just don't bother, good he did it here though.

+1

Respect to OP for feeding back to us from the very beginning of his punting days

[stonebow1]

Reading her past reviews lots of people have said similar things about this WG so perhaps you're taking this more personally than is necessary? I haven't seen her myself, but i gather she's a little socially awkward who can't quite "switch on" all the time. Sorry to hear about the shit punt though. 

Reading between the lines here - are you addicted to wanking/porn by any chance? You also sound like you're quite young. If so would suggest getting out of the porn rut by pumping and dumping a couple of cheap prossies a month as an alternative. For most people here shagging WG's is a bit of fun, but for others it can genuinely be therapeutic for your own self-confidence and improvement.

[purple_t]

I must admit I did felt a bit on edge waiting outside. If it had been my first meeting I may have considered leaving for my safety considering I had £130 with me. And sending the exact same text for the directions  considering it was just over a week of the last meeting made me puzzled. I got the feeling this was her trying to wind me up because I requested to arrive early for a shower but I might be wrong.

I'd like for her to explain it as well. Is it rudeness, does she hate the job, was it me? Maybe myself and other punters are misunderstanding her shyness for rudeness and if that's the case then ok. But it's too uncomfortable to want to return. I repeat, there is definitely a good side to Amy when you socialise with her but for a paying punter, avoid.

Just a couple of pointers since you're new to this.

Many WGs have a 'generic directions text' that they will send regardless of whether you have seen them before or not. You can't expect a WG to keep track of everyone they have seen. Don't be offended by it, she didn't do it to 'wind you up'.

She probably kept you waiting a few minutes because she was finishing getting ready. It's not uncommon to wait outside for a few minutes, especially if you're a bit early, which it sounds like you were. Just keep calm and be discreet. Most people won't bat an eyelid.

Asking to arrive early to shower is not the done thing. If you're booked in for 2pm, that's what time you arrive. Unless stated otherwise, you should expect the shower to come out your time. Not a big deal when a quick shower takes a couple of minutes, and most hour long bookings tend to overun by 5-10 minutes anyway.

[bigmanbigman]

Just text to say your parking up and wait for a reply normally be come in no earlier than 5 too the booking time

[vw]

adultworkfan

Has she been pestering you about this review ?

Admin doesn't delete reviews

is there a problem ?

[madeinwales56]

+1

Respect to OP for feeding back to us from the very beginning of his punting days

Hear hear

[AdultWorkFan]

adultworkfan

Has she been pestering you about this review ?

Admin doesn't delete reviews

is there a problem ?

No she hasn't. After reflection I realised my comments were unfair. The arriving early for a shower thing was cheeky of me and I misunderstood and thought it'd be acceptable for hygiene reasons. Also as another poster said, it must just be standard protocol to send directions for everyone who arrives and she probably forgets who is who- I took it personally.

I also think that I've unfairly misunderstood her shyness for rudeness and I apologise for this if this is correct. I'm also very shy, but more so in groups rather than with individuals. She is polite when she does talk, well mannered etc.


If ukpunting aren't willing to let me delete the review then I'll just make a positive review to neutralise it.

[vw]

If ukpunting aren't willing to let me delete the review then I'll just make a positive review to neutralise it.

Really ?   

[AdultWorkFan]

Really ?   

Yeah, I just feel incredibly guilty for damaging her reputation when I'm just a clueless newbie and on reflection, most probably misunderstood her shyness for rudeness and taken it personally.

[madmania]

Yeah, I just feel incredibly guilty for damaging her reputation when I'm just a clueless newbie and on reflection, most probably misunderstood her shyness for rudeness and taken it personally.

Dude chill out.

Your review reflected how you felt about the punt. Just because you feel her rudeness was now shyness doesn't change how that made you feel does it?

And she was still mechanical wasnt she?

Leave it as negative, don't turn all fluffy on us!!

[AdultWorkFan]

Really ?   

ive just noticed you indexed it. Is there any way to undo this?  I'll post a neutral review to  replace it in the index and if not will post a positive review. I just believe that she's the type of escort that will appeal to many but not some and I feel bad if I'm putting off punters who may have enjoyed the punt.

Cheers mate.

[vw]

ive just noticed you indexed it. Is there any way to undo this?  I'll post a neutral review to  replace it in the index and if not will post a positive review. I just believe that she's the type of escort that will appeal to many but not some and I feel bad if I'm putting off punters who may have enjoyed the punt.

Cheers mate.

only admin has power to change ranking up.

Doubt he will you had these feelings before and that is a reflection of how you felt when writing it.  Would advise strongly against retaliation reviews or ultiumatums

[mh]

ive just noticed you indexed it. Is there any way to undo this?  I'll post a neutral review to  replace it in the index and if not will post a positive review. I just believe that she's the type of escort that will appeal to many but not some and I feel bad if I'm putting off punters who may have enjoyed the punt.

Cheers mate.

Dead man walking. 

[madmania]

Dead man walking. 

And he showed so much promise. Another bites the dust

[Cabbie]

I'm a newbie and only seen one escort a couple of years ago so have not done any reviews yet. I really think you should not do another review. She was not good and you have warned others.  I now know what type of service to expect if I booked her. Sort of thing you get from a wife not an escort your paying a lot for. She is expensive at £90 for 30 mins and £130 for the hour.

[James999]

If ukpunting aren't willing to let me delete the review then I'll just make a positive review to neutralise it.

Oh yeah, that'll work 

[vw]

Oh yeah, that'll work 

Lover the banning reason "Issues"   

[purple_t]

 

Lover the banning reason "Issues"   

Accurate and to the point!
The poor lad clearly has issues deeper than being sexually inexperienced.
Punting is not for the overly emotional!