Dating a prossie. Is it as bad an idea as it sounds?

[tynetunnel]

All the prossies care about is money. No money no honey!!!

A few years back I fancied a girl called Nadia(Romanian) from Elite escorts Birmingham.

I think I ordered her for outcall like 15 times, it cost me £170 each time. Then she got boob job and returned back to Romania, I was devastated, but it showed me that all these girls care about is money. They do not care about you at all, it’s all a front, a joke, since then I never looked at a prossie the same way!!

You think she should have been committed to you, a punter, to the extent that she should not return to her homeland when she decided it was time, but rather stay here to provide you with ongoing services as and when you required them? You’ve really thought she cared about you, and it wasn’t about the money? Then you realised it was all a sham, she’s fucked off to Romania and you’ve been abandoned. After all the money you spent? That Nadia’s a cheeky fucker and it’s no wonder you were devastated and rightly so….

Oh wait… let me rephrase my answer… seriously? I can’t believe you posted such crap. And what’s with “I ordered her”? She’s a person not a pizza! Self entitled bell springs to my mind 

[king tarzan]

Never heard of pussy flavour pizza??
Would be really fishy wouldn't it🤣🤣🤣🤣

[The0neAnd0nly]

You think she should have been committed to you, a punter, to the extent that she should not return to her homeland when she decided it was time, but rather stay here to provide you with ongoing services as and when you required them? You’ve really thought she cared about you, and it wasn’t about the money? Then you realised it was all a sham, she’s fucked off to Romania and you’ve been abandoned. After all the money you spent? That Nadia’s a cheeky fucker and it’s no wonder you were devastated and rightly so….

Oh wait… let me rephrase my answer… seriously? I can’t believe you posted such crap. And what’s with “I ordered her”? She’s a person not a pizza! Self entitled bell springs to my mind 

I think he was being sarcastic... sorry I mean I HOPE he was being sarcastic 

[daviemac]

I think he was being sarcastic... sorry I mean I HOPE he was being sarcastic 

Didn't look like he was being sarcastic to me, looks more like he had a touch of EAS and was pissed off when she went back home.

[clivethomas]

All the prossies care about is money. No money no honey!!!

A few years back I fancied a girl called Nadia(Romanian) from Elite escorts Birmingham.

I think I ordered her for outcall like 15 times, it cost me £170 each time. Then she got boob job and returned back to Romania, I was devastated, but it showed me that all these girls care about is money. They do not care about you at all, it’s all a front, a joke, since then I never looked at a prossie the same way!!

If you were paying £170 a time then there was never any relationship to be devastated about.  Not to sound harsh but at least she never truly led you on the merry dance there, it was always business.

Where guys fall foul, especially with foreign birds looking for a leg up, is it costs the girl nothing to come to your house and fuck you and yet she stands to gain a lot potentially if the relationship blossoms.  Asian girls are especially good at GFE, they can take you to another planet.  The fantasy can become something of a reality, yet in truth it is still a fantasy.  These girls have sex like you eat dinner, so it means nothing to them.  Then eventually the guy tries to save her/ help her / falls in love etc and the classic car crash starts to become reality.

Having lived half of my adult life in Thailand, I have seen it all.  Young guys, old guys vs stunners, old birds 20 years past their sell by.  You get it all, there are no rules and you have to leave your ego at the door once you entertain girls in the trade regardless of nationality.  Odds are it will be a car crash and you will foot the bill.

Of course, there is the odd success story but far dwarfed by the numbers that crash and burn

[versace]

Oh wait… let me rephrase my answer… seriously? I can’t believe you posted such crap. And what’s with “I ordered her”? She’s a person not a pizza! Self entitled bell springs to my mind 

Poor choice of words, booked I mean.

looks more like he had a touch of EAS and was pissed off when she went back home.

Probably true. It’s only because you get to know the girl on a more personal level etc.

[Bigowl]

I dated one once.
Was strange but enjoyable, was well reviewed and I thought what the hell
First meet was a nice meeting, we spoke before and after first shag.
I booked a hour I think, and I was there for around 4 hours
Had bareback sex .. which I was surprised at but I went ahead with it (don't worry I've been std tested and this was a few years ago)

She text me when I left saying she doesn't usually do that , I genuinely believed her, spoke a little message wise

I booked her again, I liked her I admit....paid usual rate , was there way way way longer than I paid for, all unprotected sex, yes I know

Kept in touch over WhatsApp, spoke over Christmas, got invited around on a freebie, enjoyed it
A few days later spent the night....

Was dating for a few months, entirely free complete with nights away , meeting friends and family... Was more love making than my usual escort sex

This went on for six months, then she removed herself from my life.
I know she didn't return to escorting, she couldn't due to how we met

I must admit I was gutted, think of her occasionally, but it wouldn't have worked out...so Its for the best

Would I tell anyone else to do it..
If your quite mentally prepared, not jealous and in good mental health, go for it

How did we start, I genuinely believe it was a connection upon meeting.
I also do believe she was telling me the truth about unprotected sex with no other clients, as we discussed it a few months later

[king tarzan]

I dated one once.
Was strange but enjoyable, was well reviewed and I thought what the hell
First meet was a nice meeting, we spoke before and after first shag.
I booked a hour I think, and I was there for around 4 hours
Had bareback sex .. which I was surprised at but I went ahead with it (don't worry I've been std tested and this was a few years ago)

She text me when I left saying she doesn't usually do that , I genuinely believed her, spoke a little message wise

I booked her again, I liked her I admit....paid usual rate , was there way way way longer than I paid for, all unprotected sex, yes I know

Kept in touch over WhatsApp, spoke over Christmas, got invited around on a freebie, enjoyed it
A few days later spent the night....

Was dating for a few months, entirely free complete with nights away , meeting friends and family... Was more love making than my usual escort sex

This went on for six months, then she removed herself from my life.
I know she didn't return to escorting, she couldn't due to how we met

I must admit I was gutted, think of her occasionally, but it wouldn't have worked out...so Its for the best

Would I tell anyone else to do it..
If your quite mentally prepared, not jealous and in good mental health, go for it

How did we start, I genuinely believe it was a connection upon meeting.
I also do believe she was telling me the truth about unprotected sex with no other clients, as we discussed it a few months later

Went through a box of chocolates and 2 tissues as I read this

[alabama1]

That story would've been a cracker on Simon Bates Radio 1 'Our Tune' slot, back in the day. 

[finn5555]

I dated one once.
Was strange but enjoyable, was well reviewed and I thought what the hell
First meet was a nice meeting, we spoke before and after first shag.
I booked a hour I think, and I was there for around 4 hours
Had bareback sex .. which I was surprised at but I went ahead with it (don't worry I've been std tested and this was a few years ago)

She text me when I left saying she doesn't usually do that , I genuinely believed her, spoke a little message wise

I booked her again, I liked her I admit....paid usual rate , was there way way way longer than I paid for, all unprotected sex, yes I know

Kept in touch over WhatsApp, spoke over Christmas, got invited around on a freebie, enjoyed it
A few days later spent the night....

Was dating for a few months, entirely free complete with nights away , meeting friends and family... Was more love making than my usual escort sex

This went on for six months, then she removed herself from my life.
I know she didn't return to escorting, she couldn't due to how we met

I must admit I was gutted, think of her occasionally, but it wouldn't have worked out...so Its for the best

Would I tell anyone else to do it..
If your quite mentally prepared, not jealous and in good mental health, go for it

How did we start, I genuinely believe it was a connection upon meeting.
I also do believe she was telling me the truth about unprotected sex with no other clients, as we discussed it a few months later

Love a good romantic story

[berksboy]

That story would've been a cracker on Simon Bates Radio 1 'Our Tune' slot, back in the day. 

Had forgot that show , was good .

[PaulRuff]

Doesn't BB any other clients... she'll tell all her 'special' clients that...

[versace]

I dated one once.
Was strange but enjoyable, was well reviewed and I thought what the hell
First meet was a nice meeting, we spoke before and after first shag.
I booked a hour I think, and I was there for around 4 hours
Had bareback sex .. which I was surprised at but I went ahead with it (don't worry I've been std tested and this was a few years ago)

She text me when I left saying she doesn't usually do that , I genuinely believed her, spoke a little message wise

I booked her again, I liked her I admit....paid usual rate , was there way way way longer than I paid for, all unprotected sex, yes I know

Kept in touch over WhatsApp, spoke over Christmas, got invited around on a freebie, enjoyed it
A few days later spent the night....

Was dating for a few months, entirely free complete with nights away , meeting friends and family... Was more love making than my usual escort sex

This went on for six months, then she removed herself from my life.
I know she didn't return to escorting, she couldn't due to how we met

I must admit I was gutted, think of her occasionally, but it wouldn't have worked out...so Its for the best

Would I tell anyone else to do it..
If your quite mentally prepared, not jealous and in good mental health, go for it

How did we start, I genuinely believe it was a connection upon meeting.
I also do believe she was telling me the truth about unprotected sex with no other clients, as we discussed it a few months later

 

[Home Alone]

Would I tell anyone else to do it..
If your quite mentally prepared, not jealous and in good mental health, go for it

Over the years I've punted, I've become friends with three of my Regulars. Nothing more; nothing less - they were all between 15 & 25 years younger than me; and, in my 60s and 70s, I certainly wasn't looking for stepchildren.

One of them retired from "the industry" due to family circumstances and subsequently died of cancer.

The second married one of her Regulars and, afaik, is still with him in the villa they moved to in warmer climes than they were used to in the North of England.

The third is sort-of semi-retired and has had relationships with various blokes; all of whom, afaik, she's met in Civvy Street.

In recent years, the one of whom she had the greatest hopes of a relationship; and with whom even I thought it might work (and my knowledge of relationships was limited to the one I guess I found myself in with the late Mrs. Home-Alone).

However, the main reason it didn't - as far as I can judge from what she told me - was that he couldn't get his head round the fact that other blokes were paying her for sex.

So, from my position as a kind-of observer, I think Bigowl's right when he says the green-eyed monster is one of the greatest obstacles to successfully dating an Escort.