Have you ever booked a WG and wished you had met her outside of punting?

[SlamBoy]

I'm not talking about EAS here, which is the gradual falling for a WG who is going to rinse the guy afflicted by it. I'll explain:

The unwritten rule seems to be: if you punt a girl, your relationship is always going to be business. There are (very few) exceptions, of course. However, it seems to be the case that once a WG/punter, almost always a WG/punter and that's the way it stays.

I raise this because I met a WG recently, who didn't really do it for me sexually, but I really liked her on a personal level. She was bright, funny, interesting, clued-up and a good conversationalist, very good company - someone who I am not interested in for sex, but somebody I would definitely be friends with, had we met under different circumstances. She, I think, sticks to the unwritten rule I mentioned above.

Has anyone else experienced/gone through this? How did it play-out?

[Woodcutter]

If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it probably is a duck
This is EAS, pull yourself together.
You've met a pleasant person in a professional setting, my dentist & doctor are pleasant (Dr is actually quite the milf)
I don't & shouldn't go home thinking how it'd great if I'd met them in a social setting & we could hold dinner parties at each other's houses.

This can only play out one way, & it doesn't end well.

Take a timeout

If you wanted a gf & started to show a romantic interest in an escort the advice would be 'go find a gf outside of punting' so if you want to make friends then make them outside of punting.
A good escort will pick up on her clients needs & fulfill them, be this a DT BJ, a dinner date or a GFE, it sounds like you were sending out signals you wanted a good chinwag, that's what you got & it seems you were happy with services provided, leave it in that little box & rejoin normal life.

[SlamBoy]

If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it probably is a duck
This is EAS, pull yourself together.
You've met a pleasant person in a professional setting, my dentist & doctor are pleasant (Dr is actually quite the milf)
I don't & shouldn't go home thinking how it'd great if I'd met them in a social setting & we could hold dinner parties at each other's houses.

This can only play out one way, & it doesn't end well.

Take a timeout

If you wanted a gf & started to show a romantic interest in an escort the advice would be 'go find a gf outside of punting' so if you want to make friends then make them outside of punting.
A good escort will pick up on her clients needs & fulfill them, be this a DT BJ, a dinner date or a GFE, it sounds like you were sending out signals you wanted a good chinwag, that's what you got & it seems you were happy with services provided, leave it in that little box & rejoin normal life.

I didn't think of it like that. You could be right. 

Though, I'm not interested in her sexually, don't want a GF relationship with her, so can it really be classed as potential EAS?

[GorillaWarfare]

A good WG will be personable with punters. I've met a few girls who seemed like really nice lasses, but at least some of that will be an attempt to butter me up so I come back to pay for more.

A lot of WGs probably are pleasant outside of their work life, but this sort of talk is early onset EAS - get out of this mindset whilst you still can. My advice for you is if you find yourself wishing you had met a woman outside of punting, try meeting women outside of punting.

[RedKettle]

Some years ago I had a couple of meets with a lovely WG and yea I thought what a shame this has not happened in a different way. Although given I am married and will not have an affair ( I know warped moral code as I shag WGs) it would have required several changes in circumstances to get anywhere.

She then stopped working, no surprise given her plans, and after some regret I was actually pleased. I did not know the term EAS then but I think it would have happened.

Glad she moved on an hope she did well for herself.

[peter purves]

I can see why the suggestion of EAS came in.

My own thoughts are that only after becoming a 'regular' with a WG you might begin to see her 'human' side.

On the first visit it is highly likely the WG will be guarded to some degree or another, unless say, she has been drinking etc which would lower her defences down.

 

[Colston36]

I don't know about the wished bit but strange things happen.

Two years ago I went to see a girl in Bradford twice. The second time she asked me if I'd like a drink afterwards.

I then stayed overnight, no charge. Later I stayed for a weekend, again as a guest. I actually met her husband that time. Soon after that she gave up her career having made enough to retire to the Lake District.

We exchange messages most days, rarely about sex, though she asks me what I'm up to and there's some talk on her side about me going to stay up there. I probably exchange more messages with her than anyone I know.

I have one other lady whom I see regularly usually with at least one other girl. Again most of our exchanges are not about sex as I am actually involved in her other career and like her more as a friend than an escort.

Life is odd. One's motivations are sometimes hard to rationalise even to oneself.

[purama333]

I am fairly new to this site and got to say I do have trouble with some of the abbreviations so what does EAS even mean lol

[The Lone Wolf]

I had no idea that EAS could be such a bitch.. It has been the topic of soooo many threads its no joke.

It is such a punting hazard and effects more punters who have the stones to admit it. An easy hole to fall into, and  a bitch to get out of...especially with long term regs

Punting should come with health & wealth warning...

[Pete556]

I'm not talking about EAS here, which is the gradual falling for a WG who is going to rinse the guy afflicted by it. I'll explain:

The unwritten rule seems to be: if you punt a girl, your relationship is always going to be business. There are (very few) exceptions, of course. However, it seems to be the case that once a WG/punter, almost always a WG/punter and that's the way it stays.

I raise this because I met a WG recently, who didn't really do it for me sexually, but I really liked her on a personal level. She was bright, funny, interesting, clued-up and a good conversationalist, very good company - someone who I am not interested in for sex, but somebody I would definitely be friends with, had we met under different circumstances. She, I think, sticks to the unwritten rule I mentioned above.

Has anyone else experienced/gone through this? How did it play-out?

Just don't go there. EAS is lurking for us all. And is painfully difficult to get out of it.

[Pete556]

I am fairly new to this site and got to say I do have trouble with some of the abbreviations so what does EAS even mean lol

Emotional Attachment Syndrome.

It will screw you completely.

[daviemac]

I am fairly new to this site and got to say I do have trouble with some of the abbreviations so what does EAS even mean lol

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[GreyDave]

  There`s an old acting line which is very well suited  for some of the WG`s...

"Tisa pitty she`s a whore"   meaning she is a Truly great actress as she makes you belive in her ..but she is just after you cash ..Historic examples are..

Nell Gwin, Lady Hamilton ( of Nelson Fame) and a few actress that married up      Proffesional agreements should be kept as those.

[Doc Holliday]

Though, I'm not interested in her sexually, don't want a GF relationship with her, so can it really be classed as potential EAS?

Yes. In many cases of EAS the sex becomes less and less important as the emotions take hold, to the point where some guys will spend most of their allotted time in conversation only.

[Colston36]

There`s an old acting line which is very well suited  for some of the WG`s...

"Tisa pitty she`s a whore"   meaning she is a Truly great actress as she makes you belive in her ..but she is just after you cash ..Historic examples are..

Nell Gwin, Lady Hamilton ( of Nelson Fame) and a few actress that married up      Proffesional agreements should be kept as those.

If anyone is interested in the facts, "'Tis pity she's a whore" is the title of a play by John Ford, Shakespeare's contemporary, about incest between brother and sister. Nell Gwynn, far from being a grasping bitch only after Charles 11's cash founded the Chelsea Pensioners' Hospital, still there today. Lady Hamilton was never a whore, but became Nelson's mistress with her husband's approval in a menage a trois, and died in extreme poverty.

[Daiawn]

I have met WGs and thought I wish I could have met them in real life.  However, it needs to be remembered that you have only met an idealised version geared toward giving you a great experience. 

I still think it would be nice to meet someone like that in real life even if I understand it isn't going to be the WG in question.

[niftyfiftydave]

If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it probably is a duck
This is EAS, pull yourself together.
You've met a pleasant person in a professional setting, my dentist & doctor are pleasant (Dr is actually quite the milf)
I don't & shouldn't go home thinking how it'd great if I'd met them in a social setting & we could hold dinner parties at each other's houses.

This can only play out one way, & it doesn't end well.

Take a timeout

If you wanted a gf & started to show a romantic interest in an escort the advice would be 'go find a gf outside of punting' so if you want to make friends then make them outside of punting.
A good escort will pick up on her clients needs & fulfill them, be this a DT BJ, a dinner date or a GFE, it sounds like you were sending out signals you wanted a good chinwag, that's what you got & it seems you were happy with services provided, leave it in that little box & rejoin normal life.

You just reminded me of a dentist visit years ago, when i was a young tall handsome chap lol,
The Dentist was quite young and very good looking, the nurse a younger super busty slim girl bursting out of her white uniform, laid back helpless in that chair the pair of them were teasing mercifully. Making sure i could see more than i should, taking longer than needed to do anything and making excuses to get very close.
No way i could hide the obvious bulge, They had obviously had done this before lol,the giggles gave the game away, If it were not for wanting to get out with my bright red face quickly might have asked the nurse for a date. Often wondered and did at the time [ wanking] a lot if they had a thing going on together.

[hawkzville]

I think I'd add "be careful what you wish for" in brackets after the title of this thread!

I could quote a number of examples where I have thought this; some where I have been wallowing in EAS without realising it, but one in particular springs to mind where coincidence/bad luck came into being...

To expand on that one then.

A few years back, before discovering this site, I did go through a time where I had a bit of an obsession with cheap Romainians for a P&D. One time in particular then I visited a flat in Earls Court there were 3 or 4 girls and the scam was basically B&S and you get whoever is free when you arrive. Well, perhaps business was slack because at my allotted time there were three of them free and somehow I was persuaded into paying the three of them to spend an hour with me.... what followed was a lesbian show, with blow jobs from each, a few minutes shagging of each before they switched to the next and so on, once I shot my load after about 50 minutes the fun stopped and I was ushered out..... for the days afterwards my head was full of "boy oh boy I wish that had happened to me outside of punting".

Then about 2 weeks later i was on a business lunch with two (much younger than me) clients by the river in Hammersmith, I went up to the bar only for (surprise surprise) one of the three to siddle up next to me "you buy us drink?", well you could have knocked me down with a feather as I realised that the three of them - plus 2 further WG's - were sat at a table now waving enthusiastically at me.

It got worse. "your friends join us, we go party?" was her next comment.

By this time I was really panicking and I wanted the earth to open up and swallow me.

Long story short, I ended up putting a large bar tab facility in place for the 5 WG's pleading that they didn't say how they knew me, instead that I'd given them some private lecturing, then fielding some extremely difficult questions from my obviously very curious clients (who I'm convinced put 2+2 together very quickly) whilst I back peddled and hurried the business lunch along...... perhaps unsurprisingly the business relationship fizzled out from that point and i was left cursing the fact that I'd got what I'd wished for in the real world.

[earlgreyman]

I didn't think of it like that. You could be right. 

Though, I'm not interested in her sexually, don't want a GF relationship with her, so can it really be classed as potential EAS?

Yep, emotional attachment can still be platonic. Friendships are emotional attachments just the same. Strange situation you have there. Hey, you're an adult, you don't fancy her but like her as a friend - what's to say it can't work.

However, you know yourself more than anyone else. Simply by proposing the question here, you already know where it might lead. Worst case scenario: she may grow attached to you instead, then if unrequited, she turns out to be some kind of bunny boiler and ruins your life. 

[CheeseBoard]

I didn't think of it like that. You could be right. 

Though, I'm not interested in her sexually, don't want a GF relationship with her, so can it really be classed as potential EAS?

EAS - emotional attachment being the main point can take many forms. It doesnt have to be sexual or otherwise. It normally happens when one of the parties feel the connection is mutual (or if one way, it's just lust I think).  Do you think it's a mutual feeling? Or her being good at her job.

This sounds like EAS to me.

[Ali Katt]

I'm not talking about EAS here, which is the gradual falling for a WG who is going to rinse the guy afflicted by it. I'll explain:

The unwritten rule seems to be: if you punt a girl, your relationship is always going to be business. There are (very few) exceptions, of course. However, it seems to be the case that once a WG/punter, almost always a WG/punter and that's the way it stays.

I raise this because I met a WG recently, who didn't really do it for me sexually, but I really liked her on a personal level. She was bright, funny, interesting, clued-up and a good conversationalist, very good company - someone who I am not interested in for sex, but somebody I would definitely be friends with, had we met under different circumstances. She, I think, sticks to the unwritten rule I mentioned above.

Has anyone else experienced/gone through this? How did it play-out?

Fuck other women. Break the cycle.

[Hed Master]

Fuck other women. Break the cycle.

For the real deal EAS, that wouldn't work.....no matter who or how many you fuck..

Sounds like he's slipping down that slippery muddy embankment inch by slippery inch.... Good luck.

But it's not all doom and gloom....... Some punter/prossie relationships, (a small proportion) do work...

[winkywanky]

Long story short, I ended up putting a large bar tab facility in place for the 5 WG's pleading that they didn't say how they knew me, instead that I'd given them some private lecturing, then fielding some extremely difficult questions from my obviously very curious clients (who I'm convinced put 2+2 together very quickly) whilst I back pedalled and hurried the business lunch along...... perhaps unsurprisingly the business relationship fizzled out from that point and i was left cursing the fact that I'd got what I'd wished for in the real world.

Perhaps you have that wrong, perhaps the two clients were miffed that you didn't organise a gangbang to clinch the deal? 

[willie loman]

You just reminded me of a dentist visit years ago, when i was a young tall handsome chap lol,
The Dentist was quite young and very good looking, the nurse a younger super busty slim girl bursting out of her white uniform, laid back helpless in that chair the pair of them were teasing mercifully. Making sure i could see more than i should, taking longer than needed to do anything and making excuses to get very close.
No way i could hide the obvious bulge, They had obviously had done this before lol,the giggles gave the game away, If it were not for wanting to get out with my bright red face quickly might have asked the nurse for a date. Often wondered and did at the time [ wanking] a lot if they had a thing going on together.

Common practice by female dentists and hygienists, love getting their breasts pressed against my face, not all of them do it, so I suspect those that do, know what they are doing.

[winkywanky]

Certainly takes your mind off the pain, waaay better than Novocaine 

[signy]

Yes, two or three, but never did repeat visits. My question is always "would I have been happy sitting next to this women for an evening at a  dinner party?". Nothing to do with EAS or even sex, just the feeling that I could have had a couple of hours of pleasant conversation.

[niftyfiftydave]

Common practice by female dentists and hygienists, love getting their breasts pressed against my face, not all of them do it, so I suspect those that do, know what they are doing.

Not my normal dentist, had pain at work and went for emergency treatment, often thought of going back but never did, faf the pair of them lol, if it happened now i would unzip and relieve the pressure lol.

[niftyfiftydave]

Certainly takes your mind off the pain, waaay better than Novocaine 

The pain was in my bulging jeans lol