I totally hear you, Rick!
Around 5 years ago or so, I also saw what seemed to be her profile in a dating site. There were civvy photos of her I had never seen before anywhere else and a different name -but of course you can never be sure.
I did the same -I sent her a message, she checked my profile... but never answered... Although for one second I imagined myself banging Rebecca More for (sort of) free.