Ultimately, what is it you like? If you enjoy it soft, then do it and if you enjoy porn style sex then make sure you find an SP that can take it.
Some do take the piss and fake sensitivity and pain so watch out for those too.
Obviously.
And i am not concerned about the faking.
I have for the nost part always been a slow and steady with the odd deap thrust thrown in however it was whilst i was fucking this girl she almost had this look of i cant take it and want it harder, i asked and she said yes. I always assumed because of her slight frame and being a busy wg she would want the opposite but said she does quite often like it a little harder.
That got me thinking that all this time i been taking care or not going at it to fast or hard, the wg’s might have wanted it. Yes they could say, but language barrier is often the case with the girls i see.
Good to hear opinions and experiences, i guess it is all about good communication/chemistry.
Regarding wanting the wg to cum, i always want the girl to cum, although i am under no illusions that this happens all the time or with every girl. Feeling and fucking a naturally wet pussy feels sooooo much better then lube! Knowing that the lady is getting off/wet because of what she is seeing or feeling is also a big turn on.