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[M4DH4773R]

Hello all,

I have been teasing with the idea of attempting my first punt for quite some time now and I've decided to give it a go. My reasons for punting are mainly to do with my issues of anxiety and insecurity. I'm hoping that the interaction will give me more confidence in every day dealings with women. I'm 24 and single so I don't have to worry about keeping this a secret from a partner.

I've been reading through some topics and I have a few questions if any of you could help out. I apologise in advance for repeating any previously asked questions but the forum is too vast to find answers to everything.

Adultwork
- Any thing to be weary of or look out for when searching for escorts?
- Are verified members 100% genuine?
- From your own personal experience, do the models usually look like their pictures?

Dealings with escorts
- How does payment work? Is it rude not to pay on arrival or is it down to my personal preference?
- What if the punt doesn't go exactly as planned? Is the best option to bite the bullet and get out of there?
- Are most escorts discrete?
- Should I agree the price and actions on arrival or would that be rude?

General advice
- Is there anything you would advise to anyone trying out their first punt?


I'm sure I have other questions but this is all that comes to mind at the moment.

Thanks in advance.

[LL]

I have been teasing with the idea of attempting my first punt for quite some time now and I've decided to give it a go. My reasons for punting are mainly to do with my issues of anxiety and insecurity.

Punting won't help you.  You might get a confidence boost after a really good experience but sooner or later you're gonna have a shit punt where you feel like you've been ripped off.  If you're feeling down or have anxiety and/or insecurities then that shitty experience could shatter what's left of your confidence.

I have personally tried to use punting as a way to battle anxiety and confidence problems in the past but it does not work.  Find something else.  Take a risk / get a new job / start a new hobby, interest / find a way to meet people (without having to pay them money!)

[Urban_G]

I agree with LL that punting is not the answer to your concerns. Punting should not be used as an alternative to normal relationships with females.

I'm hoping that the interaction will give me more confidence in every day dealings with women.

I suspect that this will not materialise as you expect. Punting takes away the necessary normal interaction with females and is more likely to have a negative effect on your confidence. It may also provide you with a false sense of security or fill you with greater expectations when meeting civvies.

[Ali Katt]

Adultwork
- Any thing to be weary of or look out for when searching for escorts?
- Are verified members 100% genuine?
- From your own personal experience, do the models usually look like their pictures?

Read this excellent guide: https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=10.0
No, I have seen verified profiles use fake pictures.

Dealings with escorts
- How does payment work? Is it rude not to pay on arrival or is it down to my personal preference?
It's down to the girl really, most are pay upfront
- What if the punt doesn't go exactly as planned? Is the best option to bite the bullet and get out of there?
question is too vague, the main thing is to stay safe
- Are most escorts discrete?
yes, but don't give out personal details and that includes in conversation as well as email
- Should I agree the price and actions on arrival or would that be rude?
It's down to you, some check if services are offered, the price will be what the escort list for the amount of time

General advice
- Is there anything you would advise to anyone trying out their first punt?

Other advice: don't overthink it.

[James999]

I'm sure I have other questions

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[SirFrank]

It's ironic Obama dishing out such forthright comments. Even if true the man is a gutless, spineless cunt who would probably be more likely to impose sanctions on the OPs friends than call him out in such a way. Just saying...

[M4DH4773R]

Thanks to those with useful comments. I think I'll rethink it for a bit and then decide whether to give it a go or not.