Being Let Down on The Day

[Pie Eater]

When it comes to this hobby, is there anything more deflating than being let down on the morning of the booking. All the anticipation and excitement and then nothing.

I booked a week ago only to receive a text this morning. The SP in question has asked about rearranging so now I have the dilemma of do I try and arrange something for tonight or hang on until next week?

Anyone else feel totally deflated when things fall through at the last minute?

[Cum_again]

Parked up at the location and then let down, that’s the worst...

[Ghost89]

When it comes to this hobby, is there anything more deflating than being let down on the morning of the booking. All the anticipation and excitement and then nothing.

I booked a week ago only to receive a text this morning. The SP in question has asked about rearranging so now I have the dilemma of do I try and arrange something for tonight or hang on until next week?

Anyone else feel totally deflated when things fall through at the last minute?

It’s fucking annoying. Especially if you’ve saved all your jam up for the week. It’s still early in the day so I’d try and book an alternative. If nothing else then just save your money and treat yourself to an extra hour next time.

[Pie Eater]

Parked up at the location and then let down, that’s the worst...

Fair point. At least I haven't wasted time or money.

[bristolian31]

It's even worst when you are let down 10 minutes before the meet, and you know the girl is legit good, because you seen her before, but don't want to be rude so you have a chance to reschedule. I had that happen to me before

[Pie Eater]

It’s fucking annoying. Especially if you’ve saved all your jam up for the week. It’s still early in the day so I’d try and book an alternative. If nothing else then just save your money and treat yourself to an extra hour next time.

Yep I've been saving for a few days.

Think I'll see when she can rearrange and if it's more than three days I'll book someone else.

[StingRay]

I've had it a few times over the years.

Once, long ago, in Soho when the girl told me she was going to be working on the day in question but, when I got there, she wasn't and later explained that she forgot to tell me of the change. No real harm done though as plan B-Z nearby.

Another, much more annoying time was when I went to visit a popular lady down on the south coast - quite a trek from London. Radio silence when I got off the train. I hung around for a while, had a nice lunch on "the front" then, after failing to make contact for a final time, I jumped on the train and came home. She contacted me the next day and explained that she had to take her son to hospital - not for me to comment on that. She did make it up to me by offering a freeby at a party she was attending in London the following week - she tried to reneg on the offer when I got to the party but I persisted and got a "free" pass. Ever since then I've always been extremely cautious about travelling long distances for a punt.

Lastly, I went to my "go to" parlour for a confirmed booking and was actually sitting in the room waiting for the girl but she didn't turn up and the maid could not contact her. I was offered a stand-in but declined and went home £130 better off than I would have been. In fairness, this was the only time that I had a problem at said parlour, and it was completely beyond their control and they did, as I mentioned, offer a replacement.

We live and learn!

[Stevelondon]

I think it’s happened to most of us over the years. The longer you punt, the more chance of radio silences, cancellations etc.

Like the above. I travelled from London to Brighton and heard nothing from the SP on my arrival. Message in the evening saying mum taken ill or something similar.

A regular I saw a dozen times or so, cancelled me as I was on my way to Kingston. Fair play she offered later in the evening but it cocked up my whole day. It was a bugger not drinking too much until the punt. 

[StingRay]

I think it’s happened to most of us over the years. The longer you punt, the more chance of radio silences, cancellations etc.

Like the above. I travelled from London to Brighton and heard nothing from the SP on my arrival. Message in the evening saying mum taken ill or something similar.

A regular I saw a dozen times or so, cancelled me as I was on my way to Kingston. Fair play she offered later in the evening but it cocked up my whole day. It was a bugger not drinking too much until the punt. 

My practice as well, punt and a pint is OK provided that you do them in the right order!!

[DeeptoSleep]

Similar experience here, parked up and was just texting to get the room number and got a text she had to cancel due to an emergency at home. I'd planned time off work specifically and travelled some way so not ideal. She is someone I've seen regularly so gave the benefit of the doubt, luckily managed to get a short notice booking with another girl, but no where near as good.

[Belgarion]

When it comes to this hobby, is there anything more deflating than being let down on the morning of the booking. All the anticipation and excitement and then nothing.

I booked a week ago only to receive a text this morning. The SP in question has asked about rearranging so now I have the dilemma of do I try and arrange something for tonight or hang on until next week?

Anyone else feel totally deflated when things fall through at the last minute?

Had an incident years ago involving a 2 hour drive. She had my number, chose not to call me but sent a message via AW, knowing full well I had to drive to see her.

Arrived and parked up, waited till 5 mins before time. Sent her a message saying I was outside, no response. Booking time passed and I called, no response. Decided to check AW to make sure I hadn't got something wrong and saw the message.

To say I was livid was an understatement. Replied to her message and said, why didn't you call or text me? She came up with some BS story.

Left disappointed and upset. KFC helped me cheer up.

[Thephoenix]

Very frustrating if it's near the time booked.

Frantic search for alternatives before viagra wears off.

[threechilliman]

Parked up at the location and then let down, that’s the worst...

I've had that. Fucking annoying to say the least.

[smiths]

When it comes to this hobby, is there anything more deflating than being let down on the morning of the booking. All the anticipation and excitement and then nothing.

I booked a week ago only to receive a text this morning. The SP in question has asked about rearranging so now I have the dilemma of do I try and arrange something for tonight or hang on until next week?

Anyone else feel totally deflated when things fall through at the last minute?

Its happened countless times over the years to me which is why I always have a plan B option usually a regular I ring and book if plan A goes tits up. And I don't double book, I just phone the reg looking for a booking. I would never wait at a WGs convenience on the day just because she says she cant make it till another day. For me its that day that matters. I may though still try the WG again in the future if I fancied her enough, but be ready for her fucking me about again.

The main thing for me is to punt on the day I fancy a punt, ideally with plan A but plan B is fine if plan A fucks me over.

[smiths]

It's even worst when you are let down 10 minutes before the meet, and you know the girl is legit good, because you seen her before, but don't want to be rude so you have a chance to reschedule. I had that happen to me before

Indeed, this has happened recently to me with a WG whose comms can be really shit, but in the room she has been great and she is a stunner in my book. And happened loads of times before some other WGs.

I gave the recent WG another go but only when I was in her area anyway on other business and her comms were fine this time and since. But I wouldn't travel specifically just to see her anymore.

[Jimmyredcab]

Parked up at the location and then let down, that’s the worst...

I can beat that. 

I once drove to Hemel Hempstead for a booking made 24 hours earlier, actually got to the door and no answer, ring her number and she tells me she is not well and staying at her Mum’s.     

[hullad]

Had that just yesterday  13:00 stood like  lemon on her doorstep ringing her bell .....

The lady slept in at home as I was at her working flat door again 2nd time this year and only once has she actually been on time in around seven years of seeing her. I did not seek any other as in the past it has always ended badly. This was my one and only opportunity for at least three weeks, so not pleased.

[george r]

I had it a few times over the yrs, i remember had booked and confirmed with Sandy of Prestwich once and on arriving at her place was greeted by Howard her partner/pimp who waited in the next room while you fucked her !! i said i had a booking with Sandy . and could her her say to Howard from inside the flat "i told you im not fucking working today "
so went to nearby SS and saw Sophie who was fantastic so not all bad..

[Jimmyredcab]

Had that just yesterday  13:00 stood like  lemon on her doorstep ringing her bell .....

The lady slept in at home as I was at her working flat door again 2nd time this year and only once has she actually been on time in around seven years of seeing her. I did not seek any other as in the past it has always ended badly.

I was never a fan of having a Plan B after suffering a few disasters, better just to write it off and put it down to experience.

[threechilliman]

I can beat that. 

I once drove to Hemel Hempstead for a booking made 24 hours earlier, actually got to the door and no answer, ring her number and she tells me she is not well and staying at her Mum’s.     

I would have asked if her mum fancied the booking instead....

[smiths]

I was never a fan of having a Plan B after suffering a few disasters, better just to write it off and put it down to experience.

So I reduce the risk of a disaster with a plan B greatly by ringing a regular, what i don't do is a lastminute.com scramble to locate a plan B. It also makes it easier for me to walk from plan A if I am not happy in anyway with the WG I meet.

[8-VUU]

I must be having back luck. Several times the monthly visitor arrived while we were in the middle of things. Some ladies are more horny during that time. Other times it just makes a mess. At least honest SP will tell you the truth ahead of time.

[unclepokey]

I've had this problem with a woman in St Albans who I really rather fancied.
First time her son had an asthma attack and was blue lighted to hospital and his mum forgot to take her mobile so as to warn me.
Next time she said her dad had died and she again didn't tell me. Left me on the doorstep unanswered.
Third time she confirmed the appointment despite being in pain in her spine and took heavy pain killers and overslept - again left me on the fucking doorstep.
That was it. Termination of contract/relationship due to unprofessional behavior.

She's no longer on AW so I'm glad no other punters will suffer.

[lewisjones23]

brasses must be the most unlucky portion of society on the planet

the amount of last minute distasters or emergencies that they suffer is off the scale

[Neverthere]

Parked up at the location and then let down, that’s the worst...

Couldn't agree more, on top of that travelling for over an hour to get there, no plan B as area was poor too

[Pie Eater]

People with far worse experiences than me then. I've taken the afternoon off work but that's by the by.

What's winding me up that little bit more is that I've told her when I want to rebook for and no reply whatsoever. You'd think/hope in the situation she would make a little bit of effort.

Time for a beer......

[davidgood]

Because of WFH I can't get out and about like I used to so need to take opportunities when they arise.

A few weeks ago I had to go my office so decided to fit in a punt on the way home. I had a dilema of whether to book a regular who I had not seen for nearly a year and who had let me down the post Lockdown period last year or see an EE girl I had not seen for several years but was back in London and not too far from the office. I knew it was a bit risky as I was aware she was telling people she was going home and everyday was her last day.

I decided to take a chance with the slimmer better looking EE and an appointment was arranged a few days in advance. On the morning I got a garbled text about how she had to do an on line course at the time  we had arranged and later she was hoping to catch a flight home.

I was obviously disapointed. I could have tried an old regular who is on the way home but decided to abstain and save my money for another day.

This week I had another office visit to do so started planning a punt. Started with the long standing regular but got no replies to e mail, phone or text so decided to look for an alternative and contacted the EE. Yes she is still in town and a convenient time was arranged.

The longstanding reg did reply yesterday to say she could not make the suggested time and by the way she had moved to a new flat. I believe she has not been working during lockdowns so I will see her again sometime, all being well.

This morning when I confirmed the booking with the  EE girl, I am pleased to say it was all systems go. I got the location details and got there on time and had an enjoyable hour of fun. Although she does not tick all my boxes, she is good looking IMO and being in a convenient location she will become part of my regulars stable I think.

While it is disapointing to be let down, sometimes it is worth giving them a second chance.

Regards,

davidgood

[dkn]

While a letdown in the morning is bad, nothing beats the frustration of radio silence on arrival.

I can still remember the feeling of a 30-45 min drive to the location, anticipating what was to come.  The call, no answer - OK, wait a few mins.  Repeat this until the sinking pit sensation of a let-down arrives.  And then the drive home of despair - lightened only by the money remaining in my pocket.

How I hate those days...

[Springoid]

One of mine was honest as she had overslept by 6 hours, re-booked and I had to cancel with 2 hours notice due to a genuine issue, and she went apeshit at me and called me a cunt.  How rude.

The worst one was getting there, to receive a text asking me to come back in a couple of hours as she had the trots.....

[sparkus]

I once rocked up as agreed in the booking, 10 mins before sat at a nearby bench and texted I was next to the address.

No reply, so another text at time agreed, nothing.  Another text then decided to call, no answer.  Dammit I want those huge chebs!

30 mins later decided to cut my losses and left, texting her from the bus stop but nothing (bus took forever to arrive).

Next day she texts, "Where were you?"

[tynetunnel]

A regular I saw a dozen times or so, cancelled me as I was on my way to Kingston.

Still, on the plus side you’ll still have got your air miles... 

[B4bcock]

brasses must be the most unlucky portion of society on the planet

the amount of last minute distasters or emergencies that they suffer is off the scale

Some have family members who die regularly, often two or three times each year.

[smiths]

brasses must be the most unlucky portion of society on the planet

the amount of last minute distasters or emergencies that they suffer is off the scale

Indeed, if a fraction were really true WGs would be the unluckiest people around, funny that other women I do business with outside punting very rarely let me down or fuck me over.

[Trex]

While a letdown in the morning is bad, nothing beats the frustration of radio silence on arrival.

I think we all went though that stage, arrived Location on time and hear nothing. It’s rare for me, last time that happened to me was around 4 years ago and it won’t be the last.

[Uncle Bob]

You ask a regular about 3pm for availability for a 2hr booking a few days in advance.
Get quick reply that anytime between 10-3pm on that day is fine.
Request 11am-1pm (as that is the perfect window of opportunity for the punt.)
5mins later receive txt confirming time is ok & they looking forward to seeing you then etc.
8 hrs later at 11-30pm receive txt from SP saying they are 'really' sorry as made a mistake as that time not available, but....they can do 1pm-3pm.
🤔  😉

[oddson1970]

l had this today.Arranged a time and day at the beginning of the week and asked to confirm on thursday, the day before the meet.Messaged to confirm but the SP got back to me some time later to say that the accommodation she had booked was no longer available....gutted as l don't punt very often and l was really looking forward to it.

[Crackpot11]

If you are intent on punting on a particular day, always have a plan b and maybe a plan c. Escorts are notoriously unreliable, scatty, chaotic, otherwise they would have a 9-5 job. I have no qualms about booking two and letting one down just in case. It’s happened many times that one of them cant make it. Excuses such as relative in hospital, oversleeping, time of month, decorator turned up, childcare issues, ex-husband is here etc etc. I once was waiting outside a regulars house in car for 10 mins, no answer, all prebooked. Decided to go to house and heard an alarm clock going off. Door was unlocked, went inside and said tart was asleep in bed. Had no problem waking her up and waiting in next room for her services. She didn’t mind. Had a bit of a hangover.

[Edwin D]

Certainly frustrating. I had a punt arranged this week for 11am to match up with travel plans and just as I'm on the way off the motorway ten minutes prior to the arranged time I get the message saying she'd need to rearrange. Best laid plans and all that.

[standardpostage]

Happened to me once. Said landlady was coming to inspect house 

She texed me in morning before I set off, so not too bad.

[pythondan]

If you are intent on punting on a particular day, always have a plan b and maybe a plan c. Escorts are notoriously unreliable, scatty, chaotic, otherwise they would have a 9-5 job. I have no qualms about booking two and letting one down just in case. It’s happened many times that one of them cant make it. Excuses such as relative in hospital, oversleeping, time of month, decorator turned up, childcare issues, ex-husband is here etc etc. I once was waiting outside a regulars house in car for 10 mins, no answer, all prebooked. Decided to go to house and heard an alarm clock going off. Door was unlocked, went inside and said tart was asleep in bed. Had no problem waking her up and waiting in next room for her services. She didn’t mind. Had a bit of a hangover.

Booking two girls with the intention of letting one down is pretty poor imo. You must get blacklisted by quite a few girls.

If seeing someone new I sometimes check whether other girls in the same vicinity are working at that time and make a note of their numbers but do not make a booking.

[sparkus]

Happened to me once. Said landlady was coming to inspect house 

She texed me in morning before I set off, so not too bad.

I'm amazed how often landlords actually do inspect them though, had punts delayed by half an hour and one turned up while I was stood being fellated in her bedroom, she only gave me half the money back as well as he was so insistent to come in (he also demanded to know who I was so I just quipped "Just here to read the meter")

[victor989]

It's one of the hazards of this hobby. I've gotten used to it.

[Mr Sinister]

I've never booked a wg more than an a couple of hours in advance as I prefer to be flexible with my time. I had 1 reg pre-pandemic who I could message in the middle of the day and get booked later that day and she would keep the slot open for me, which is a rarity.

Could not imagine doing it days or a week in advance. I message, get the go ahead and see the wg, nothing more disappointed than travelling half of the city to a wg then getting no response at all.

[badboyjim67]

Had a few like this.....

Twice with the same girl, both times it been to try and change the times when I was already on my way, probably thought she could fit another punter in before I got there, problem being that I have to operate to a bit of a schedule so not always possible to delay. Ended up never seeing her again.

En-route with about 90 minutes drive, all confirmed before I left home. First time, a call to say sorry now I can't make it - so stop at next service station to organise a plan B-Z etc (this was early into my punting days). Second time, was perfectly fine when I chatted before leaving, then once en-route a call to say not feeling well, can I make next day? Sorry love, no can do, thanks and goodbye.

Another time, got to the hotel, text to say I was there - nothing. Called - nothing. Turns out the hotel had twigged to what she was doing and chucked her out! However, her phone was still in the room. Eventually she got another hotel and we rearranged - with a discount and more time for the inconvenience.

Now, always have a plan B-Z.

[Crackpot11]

Booking two girls with the intention of letting one down is pretty poor imo. You must get blacklisted by quite a few girls.

If seeing someone new I sometimes check whether other girls in the same vicinity are working at that time and make a note of their numbers but do not make a booking.

I think it’s quite legitimate to book and cancel if you give a few hours notice, it’s more than you would get from most escorts. Usually I say I will confirm on the morning, which gives you enough leeway to cancel legitimately. Only once had a complaint. I have been let down on too many occasions to not have a plan b. Plan C is usually trying a regular with a couple of hours notice which usually is ok too.

[SALIBA]

I was let down quite recently, but I was quite happy because I was in 2 minds about going anywhere since the price was boarderline too much for what they offered. I just wanted to kind of experience one time. But no skin off my nose really.

[WASA38]

Especially aggravating if cancellation comes after ingestion of  blue pill. Happened to me a couple of times when I'd barely swallowed the thing. It's not the cost so much as the unnecessary unpleasant after effect.

[davidgood]

 Annoyingly I got let down yesterday on the day, but I can live with it.

It was an older lady I used to see regularly but had not seen for several years. I decided to give her another try when I had the opportunity to be nearish  to her location.

She is a true part timer who has a full time civvie job and unfortunately she could not make the agreed time due to having to do extra time at work. I asked if we could put the meeting back an hour but she was too slow in responding and I had make the decision to head for home.

If I get another  oppo to see her I might make an appointment but I will make it much later in the afternoon to be sure of sucess.

Regards,

davidgood

[Fuzzyduck]

Let down in the morning? Meh. It's not like you've just got out of the tube or are in a cab when on there way. Just execute your plan B if you still have the urge. If you don't have a plan B, then maybe there's a lesson there to be learnt.

[AgedCases]

I don't own a car and I live in a punting desert so it's often an 80-minute bus trip each way. The anxiety of making it there without a letdown text often kills my mojo!