What to say in text?

[oioi]

New to punting and was wondering how you all start your first text to someone?

Not sure if it's best to ask if they're available on a certain day or to include what I want and how long etc.

[Fac51]

 Are u back at school tmoro ??!!?? 

[scutty brown]

"Hi, is BB OK?"
is always a good start

[Ramon1234]

😂😂

[teddyking]

New to punting and was wondering how you all start your first text to someone?

Not sure if it's best to ask if they're available on a certain day or to include what I want and how long etc.

I wouldn’t plan on losing your virginity on an escort mate 😶😶😶

[scutty brown]

I wouldn’t plan on losing your virginity on an escort mate 😶😶😶

Stick to the school dinnerlady

[SamOmar]

New to punting and was wondering how you all start your first text to someone?

Not sure if it's best to ask if they're available on a certain day or to include what I want and how long etc.

I think the OP is not very serious but to those who might be genuine;

Only text an escort with a proposed appointment when you are sure of yourself and that you will be attending.
Hi my name is ..... I would like to book you at (time) for (duration and state incall or outcall). May I have your postcode so I can plan my journey and then include any reasonable requests that are within her profile / advertisement boundaries. Confirm the fee rather than asking a price as you should have read her advertisement.

If booking ahead confirm in the morning of your appointment, if asked to confirm closer to the appointment as you are a new punter do so. Be straight and forthcoming with your communication otherwise you come across as a creep / inexperienced punter. Be confident do not let the escort know its your first time as some will give you 50% of their normal service.

Turn up on time and get the paperwork out of the way. I personally would use a reputable / friendly agency and did so during my early punts.

[chocolategiver]

LOL, some of you are so childish, infantile and puerile but also very funny! 

[mr.bluesky]

"Hi, is BB OK?"
is always a good start

Probably thinks thats bed & breakfast 

[Tender.french.kiss]

Probably thinks thats bed & breakfast 

Isn't it? 

[Lou2019]

you lot are meanies lol

OP (assuming you are genuine) this should tell you all you need to know External Link/Members Only

Happy fucking!

[Thephoenix]

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What's a text?

[Little Joe]

you lot are meanies lol

OP (assuming you are genuine) this should tell you all you need to know External Link/Members Only

Happy fucking!

I think, as a service to the wider community and extension of the social services, service providers such as your good self Lou ought to take virgin punters like the OP in hand and teach him the ropes. You could give him like a ‘5 for the price of 6 introductory offer’ 🤪🤪

How would you fancy that Oioi ?

[Little Joe]

On a more serious level, my first text to get a booking is very short, polite and to the point. I will always text with the intention of having the punt, I do not seek out a number of options before booking a particular girl. If no answer within a reasonable timescale then I’ll move on.
I will never ask what is available as I generally only use well regarded girls who make pretty clear what is on the menu so I know what to expect. Maybe the odd flirty text once in a while but only if I sense there is encouragement.

[willie loman]

i am kind of baffled as to  why you are all mocking him, and frankly all these references to "is it the school holidays" are getting a bit boring,from all you sophisticates, must have read that about 200 hundred times, the fact is , anyone who has had access to a wgs phone or lapt top would be in for a surprise, at what customers text. i write, are you working today? if a follow up is on, say that i am local guy, mature looking for 30 mins incall.  A lot of girls cant be arsed with some obsessive who wants her to dress up as an opera singer etc,and delete immediately, though some no doubt will embrace the challenge.

[centry]

It is frankly shocking as to why these 'keyboard warriors' are quick to mock someone who's new to the bizarre world of paid-sex.
As if this it's common sense and kids learn how to do it in secondary-school.

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To the OP, here's a somewhat 'normal' text to a WG:

Hello,
I saw your profile on -insert platform here- and I was wondering if you were available at 6pm Tuesday

Incall/Outcall - 1 hour
Services: -insert desired services-

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Also it's best to use a completely different phone when texting WG's.
Here's some more tips: External Link/Members Only

[Little Joe]

i am kind of baffled as to  why you are all mocking him, and frankly all these references to "is it the school holidays" are getting a bit boring,from all you sophisticates, must have read that about 200 hundred times, the fact is , anyone who has had access to a wgs phone or lapt top would be in for a surprise, at what customers text. i write, are you working today? if a follow up is on, say that i am local guy, mature looking for 30 mins incall.  A lot of girls cant be arsed with some obsessive who wants her to dress up as an opera singer etc,and delete immediately, though some no doubt will embrace the challenge.

Spot on.....I was thinking just the same thing. Ought to be a yellow card for anyone who mentions school holidays again, it’s so yawn, yawn 🥱 . I thought, assuming the OP is a genuine new guy to punting and there is nothing to suggest he isn’t, then the least he deserves is a civil answer rather than a troll type response which I thought was a dismissible offence. There is witty repartee and there is immature childish attempts at humour.

[Hotpocket]

i am kind of baffled as to  why you are all mocking him, and frankly all these references to "is it the school holidays" are getting a bit boring,from all you sophisticates, must have read that about 200 hundred times, the fact is , anyone who has had access to a wgs phone or lapt top would be in for a surprise, at what customers text. i write, are you working today? if a follow up is on, say that i am local guy, mature looking for 30 mins incall.  A lot of girls cant be arsed with some obsessive who wants her to dress up as an opera singer etc,and delete immediately, though some no doubt will embrace the challenge.

100% right, knew a wg really well few years back, within just 30 minutes of turning on her phone in the morning she would have north of 50 texts, some were just plain creepy, alot just asking for her postcode. In my texts im straight to point as in "hi i would like to book a 30 minute appointment please", although i do try ringing first always.

[scutty brown]

Spot on.....I was thinking just the same thing. Ought to be a yellow card for anyone who mentions school holidays again, it’s so yawn, yawn 🥱 . I thought, assuming the OP is a genuine new guy to punting and there is nothing to suggest he isn’t, then the least he deserves is a civil answer rather than a troll type response which I thought was a dismissible offence. There is witty repartee and there is immature childish attempts at humour.

100% right, knew a wg really well few years back, within just 30 minutes of turning on her phone in the morning she would have north of 50 texts, some were just plain creepy, alot just asking for her postcode. In my texts im straight to point as in "hi i would like to book a 30 minute appointment please", although i do try ringing first always.

You two haven't been here very long.
Some of us have, and we've seen these troll threads numerous times before,
Under Oldadmin, the OP would probably have been banned after the first post

[SamOmar]

You two haven't been here very long.
Some of us have, and we've seen these troll threads numerous times before,
Under Oldadmin, the OP would probably have been banned after the first post

I'm not being funny but there is a guy that stuck up for him that has been around longer than yourself, even if the OP is a troll advice give can help welcome newbies to the hobby. Your assuming he is a troll and as quite under siege 2 "assumptions are the mother of all fuck ups" 

[scutty brown]

I'm not being funny but there is a guy that stuck up for him that has been around longer than yourself, even if the OP is a troll advice give can help welcome newbies to the hobby. Your assuming he is a troll and as quite under siege 2 "assumptions are the mother of all fuck ups" 

Some of us view the "guy that stuck up for him" as being one of the biggest trolls on the site,
Whenever Willie posts, an argument ensues

[Little Joe]

You two haven't been here very long.
Some of us have, and we've seen these troll threads numerous times before,
Under Oldadmin, the OP would probably have been banned after the first post

You get trolls on all manner of forums......most of the trolls in my experience can be long established members who think they know it all. My default in life in general is to take things on face value, have a positive helpful approach to all things  and stick with that until I’m proved to be gullible by events. The OP may well be what you suggest but why default to a negative view of him from one post.

[Little Joe]

Some of us view the "guy that stuck up for him" as being one of the biggest trolls on the site,
Whenever Willie posts, an argument ensues

A quick look back on just recent posts of yours shows a real effort to antagonise anyone that gives you the slightest opportunity.....and don’t ask me to point them out just read back your last 20 odd and ask yourself ‘how many are helpful and/or polite. As a long standing member with a decent review count I would think you would gain far more respect by actually showing the maturity of an established member. New members are a duck shoot.....there’s no kudos to be gained in hitting a slow moving target.

[Briddy]

A quick look back on just recent posts of yours shows a real effort to antagonise anyone that gives you the slightest opportunity.....and don’t ask me to point them out just read back your last 20 odd and ask yourself ‘how many are helpful and/or polite. As a long standing member with a decent review count I would think you would gain far more respect by actually showing the maturity of an established member. New members are a duck shoot.....there’s no kudos to be gained in hitting a slow moving target.

as scutty has said these kinds of posts historically have been trolls, trolls who have no intention of furthering the forum in the way of useful information such as reviews they post one discussion and then never post again.

[Little Joe]

as scutty has said these kinds of posts historically have been trolls, trolls who have no intention of furthering the forum in the way of useful information such as reviews they post one discussion and then never post again.

Yea, accept what you say Briddy but I still don’t think it exactly furthers the forum by being deliberately antagonistic......that is what I regard as ‘trolling’ quite honestly. 

[myothernameis]

New to punting and was wondering how you all start your first text to someone?

Not sure if it's best to ask if they're available on a certain day or to include what I want and how long etc.

Are you using a burner phone

[daviemac]

You get trolls on all manner of forums......most of the trolls in my experience can be long established members who think they know it all. My default in life in general is to take things on face value, have a positive helpful approach to all things  and stick with that until I’m proved to be gullible by events. The OP may well be what you suggest but why default to a negative view of him from one post.

What experience do you have of this forum though, you've only been a member a week? trolls don't last long on here no matter how long they've been members and we've seen it all before with this type of post.

The OP may well be genuine, if he is he will accept a bit of questioning and some piss-taking then come back with further comments, if not then he won't.



 

[scutty brown]

Yea, accept what you say Briddy but I still don’t think it exactly furthers the forum by being deliberately antagonistic......that is what I regard as ‘trolling’ quite honestly.

Then reappraise your view of trolling. People around here tend to be blunt and direct in what they say - some far more so than I.
There's little tolerance for fools.

[Henchmanlet95]

Just keep it simple, I usually text: 'Hey seen your ad on AW was wondering when your next available?'

I also always clarify services/prices just to be 100% certain of what I'm getting, sometimes they'll have things on there likes list which they won't actually do or the price is not accurate on there profile so I make sure to double check.

Nothing more dissapointing than going to a punt and realising she doesn't do OWO, CIM or whatever tickles your fancy etc.

[Hotpocket]

You two haven't been here very long.
Some of us have, and we've seen these troll threads numerous times before,
Under Oldadmin, the OP would probably have been banned after the first post

I might not have been here very long but iv been punting for 20+ years, i know its probably trolling from op but i want to contribute and hopefully my comment could help someone somewhere possibly 

[Captainhowdy666]

Blimey, some of these replies are a bit long winded.
I just give a simple
Hi, are you working today at around 11am for 30 minutes ?

[mattmugwump]

Blimey, some of these replies are a bit long winded.
I just give a simple
Hi, are you working today at around 11am for 30 minutes ?

That's pretty much my usual if I'm texting a SP as well

[Little Joe]

Then reappraise your view of trolling. People around here tend to be blunt and direct in what they say - some far more so than I.
There's little tolerance for fools.

My view, your view......both as passionately held I guess. It just puzzles me why someone who has been on this forum for a long time finds a need to post pretty juvenile type posts like ‘when you going back to school, dinner lady crap’ As I said, have a look back and self analyse your stuff, and then cut out the antagonistic stuff and let us all then enjoy the quality opinions you also have. There’s no need to mix and match, it won’t make your penis any bigger 

[Little Joe]

What experience do you have of this forum though, you've only been a member a week? trolls don't last long on here no matter how long they've been members and we've seen it all before with this type of post.

The OP may well be genuine, if he is he will accept a bit of questioning and some piss-taking then come back with further comments, if not then he won't.

Hello, I’ve followed the forum for some time so you can see it’s membership is much the same as on many other male dominated sites. New members always seem to get a bad time at the start, for a lot of established members it’s a sport they relish, rutting with the inexperienced, maybe they have little authority or influence in their real lives and take an opportunity to flex their muscles. I just think it’s a shame there seems a need for that to happen.
It’s just an opinion.....no big deal either way really.

[Lou2019]

I think, as a service to the wider community and extension of the social services, service providers such as your good self Lou ought to take virgin punters like the OP in hand and teach him the ropes. You could give him like a ‘5 for the price of 6 introductory offer’ 🤪🤪

How would you fancy that Oioi ?

You’re coming across as a bit of an idiot aren’t you Little Joe? If you carry on like this I suspect you’ll stay here will be short

[daviemac]

You’re coming across as a bit of an idiot aren’t you Little Joe? If you carry on like this I suspect you’ll stay here will be short

He's coming across as much of a troll as an idiot, he is as bad if not worse as those he accuses of antagonistic posts.

being deliberately antagonistic......that is what I regard as ‘trolling’ quite honestly.

What you regard as trolling and what I regard as trolling are two entirely different things. Your opinion is based as a generalisation on what happens on other fora, mine is based solely on what happens on this one and is governed by the rules laid down by the site owner.

A little bit of advice for you, forget all the crap about what you think constitutes a troll, forget and or ignore what other people post if not directed at you and concentrate on making some form of useful contributions to the forum. How it is run has nothing to do with you. 

[scutty brown]

My view, your view......both as passionately held I guess. It just puzzles me why someone who has been on this forum for a long time finds a need to post pretty juvenile type posts like ‘when you going back to school, dinner lady crap’ As I said, have a look back and self analyse your stuff, and then cut out the antagonistic stuff and let us all then enjoy the quality opinions you also have. There’s no need to mix and match, it won’t make your penis any bigger 

It puzzles me that someone with one weeks experience of the site has the temerity to dictate membership standards.
I suspect your acquaintance with the forum will be shortlived

[myothernameis]

If the op is not trolling, I see he is logged in at the moment, he could start replying to the comments in this thread

[Briddy]

Hello, I’ve followed the forum for some time so you can see it’s membership is much the same as on many other male dominated sites. New members always seem to get a bad time at the start, for a lot of established members it’s a sport they relish, rutting with the inexperienced, maybe they have little authority or influence in their real lives and take an opportunity to flex their muscles. I just think it’s a shame there seems a need for that to happen.
It’s just an opinion.....no big deal either way really.

I disagree, when I was new to the forum and started posting in threads and posting reviews I didn't get a bad time or any abuse off of long standing members, if new members are getting a hard time maybe they are deserving of it with how they are coming across

[Metalcrue]

I usually keep it polite and simple.

Usually "Hi, I saw your profile on AW, when are you next available and where-abouts in (insert town/city) are you?

I usually like to ascertain how far I'm having to travel first before getting into the nitty gritty of time and length of booking.

[Little Joe]

Well guys, I wish to remain a member so I will withdraw gracefully from this debate.

[daviemac]

I disagree, when I was new to the forum and started posting in threads and posting reviews I didn't get a bad time or any abuse off of long standing members, if new members are getting a hard time maybe they are deserving of it with how they are coming across

What tends to annoy me a little bit is those new members who say they are getting a hard time when they aren't, especially when the haven't bothered reading the rules and their second post is to out an escort's exact location.

The saying 'you reap what you sow' is very apt with regard to this forum.

[Steely Dan]

One other point.  This is a loaded question.  The answer is normally one should *not* start with a text.  Ok some escorts might prefer this, but I judge this a minority.  Most like a phone call, and a smaller group of others prefer to start with an AW email.  Yes there are some who prefer all coms by text but I have found this a smaller group.  And this small group includes those who have poor English or have a pimp doing the coms for them anyway. Which I generally avoid.

I do quite often make a rebooking with a reg via text.  But that is different again.

So whilst the comments above on being clear and direct (just say what, where, when, how long) are right, I would suggest starting with a phone call unless there are directions to the contrary on her AW page.

[tynetunnel]

New to punting and was wondering how you all start your first text to someone?

Not sure if it's best to ask if they're available on a certain day or to include what I want and how long etc.

I notice the OP hasn’t added anything to his thread beyond his opening question. For those wondering about trolls, this tends to be their modus operandi: start a new thread with a question and then never bother to return to thank posters for replying, or to update in any way.

Meanwhile:

My view, your view......both as passionately held I guess. It just puzzles me why someone who has been on this forum for a long time finds a need to post pretty juvenile type posts like ‘when you going back to school, dinner lady crap’ As I said, have a look back and self analyse your stuff, and then cut out the antagonistic stuff and let us all then enjoy the quality opinions you also have. There’s no need to mix and match, it won’t make your penis any bigger 

White flag waved guys.
My opening post was nothing more than a new members well meant contribution to the forum. I obviously have not got it right so I will put my crash helmet on and keep my head down........please feel free to remove the thread if that helps

angelgirl:

How’s it going keeping your head down? 

[myothernameis]

I notice the OP hasn’t added anything to his thread beyond his opening question.

The op last logged in at 21:40 on 13 Feb, and guess he just coming here to drool at all the replies.  I suppose rule 27 could apply to the op, if he dosnt start contributing more, the mods could take the line of banning him

If he was a genuine punter, I would have expected him to reply, to this thread, maybe by thanking us for our replies, and even comment on other threads.  So oioi, do you care to take the challenge, and start posting and prove us all wrong, have you just been trolling us, if your able to log on, your able to post

[Little Joe]

I notice the OP hasn’t added anything to his thread beyond his opening question. For those wondering about trolls, this tends to be their modus operandi: start a new thread with a question and then never bother to return to thank posters for replying, or to update in any way.

Meanwhile:

How’s it going keeping your head down? 

Very well, thanks for asking. Made my comments, none of which were particularly controversial, took on board the well meaning comments and moved on so all good.

[MikaelMika81]

For me is this type of message

Hi and the name of the girl,let me know if you are available for a booking for day of the week ,for  how long is the booking time , hour and thank her for reading the message and my name .

[vindici]

For me is this type of message

Hi and the name of the girl,let me know if you are available for a booking for day of the week ,for  how long is the booking time , hour and thank her for reading the message and my name .

I use something similar, keep it short, keep it to the point and don't be creepy.

[shagmore]

I will always try and phone first, and then if not able to get through, leave a txt, this way you can say tried phoning but got no reply, this shows you are a bit more focused. That is unless the WG says not to phone, but not any do..

[vindici]

I will always try and phone first, and then if not able to get through, leave a txt, this way you can say tried phoning but got no reply, this shows you are a bit more focused. That is unless the WG says not to phone, but not any do..

I always call first too mate. I want to speak the the WG for the same reason they want to speak to us. I want to feel her out and check with my gut if it's going to be a good meet.