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vorian

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Two i can name, one apologised the other stood by "advising" the WG to raise her rate as she wasnt charging enough according to his crap. Totally selfish with no thought about other punters. :thumbsdown:

I assumed that B&G was being sarcastic as I have seen the plonkers who have said this before on forums including UKP. Admittedly on here they were quite rightly challenged as they were certainly not putting the punter first.

Offline wristjob

"What went on....." - equivalent of "this page intentionally left blank". You are writing a review or you aren't and lets face it we're big boys - we don't think you were playing scrabble in there. Then again maybe you were.

I check PN about 3 times a year now and I doubt I've read an AW review all the way through ever. As far as AW goes only neg feedback counts. 90% of what I want from reviews is whether the girl is the one in the pics, were they accurate, did she offer the services she said. I guess other stuff like she was drugged up and had a shit on the bed is handy. I'm not really that interested in the nitty gritty of what a guy did but FFS drop a hint that you actually shagged her and that she was a bit enthusiastic.


SirFrank

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Yup. These are the same dickheads that whisper shit like, ''you're too nice to be doing this job'' and ''let me take you away from all this.''

 :wacko:

I pride myself on promising them the earth when Im balls deep in minge. However, as soon as I've emptied my ball juice in their gob I lose interet faster than Usain Bolt running downhill with a tail wind. I do of course always promise to be in touch as I'm running out of the door

Offline mattylondon

I pride myself on promising them the earth when Im balls deep in minge. However, as soon as I've emptied my ball juice in their gob I lose interet faster than Usain Bolt running downhill with a tail wind. I do of course always promise to be in touch as I'm running out of the door
:drinks:

Dr_V_Werdegast

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Precisely. It's utter, utter shit. In my mind, as long as I haven't farted in her face during a sloppy arse rimming (which happens 7 out of 10 times because I love beans), I have treated her well  :sarcastic:


Yes, my good sir, I totally agree with you. I want to know whether she gives a great, sloppy cock gobble, whether she covers a knob in lots of spit, whether she takes a great arse and pussy pounding etc... not 'what happened between us will remain private'. Go fuck off, get hit with Boris Johnson's bendy bus and die you fucking pathetic wet, fluffy piece of shit who thinks he's a gentleman because a 'gentleman never tells' but has forgotten he is a fucker paying for sex. Arseholes.

Completely agree with this and the other views expressed on this thread. This is is obviously a site where the punter  comes first. Punting is a business transaction FFS!!!. If you've paid, you should get the service you've paid for, if  it's a miserable service then get a grudge fuck!!.  Fluffy cunts are going to say this is  the sad revenge of a victim, a loser, a poor man’s undertaking,   not a result of bourgeois wealth or phallocratic arrogance, but their sub-product. They'll want to put an end to  hypocritical feelings of indulgence and the compla­cent irony that hides neurotic dependence, in order to reach the requirements of human beings as far as other human be­ings are concerned...what is scorned and used cannot be loved...well that the sort of fucking  crap you might read on Pro$$ienet, I'm glad there's none of it here.

Offline mattylondon

Completely agree with this and the other views expressed on this thread. This is is obviously a site where the punter  comes first. Punting is a business transaction FFS!!!. If you've paid, you should get the service you've paid for, if  it's a miserable service then get a grudge fuck!!.  Fluffy cunts are going to say this is  the sad revenge of a victim, a loser, a poor man’s undertaking,   not a result of bourgeois wealth or phallocratic arrogance, but their sub-product. They'll want to put an end to  hypocritical feelings of indulgence and the compla­cent irony that hides neurotic dependence, in order to reach the requirements of human beings as far as other human be­ings are concerned...what is scorned and used cannot be loved...well that the sort of fucking  crap you might read on Pro$$ienet, I'm glad there's none of it here.
I agree with you but you sound oh so familiar.  :rolleyes:  :D

vorian

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I agree with you but you sound oh so familiar.  :rolleyes:  :D

I thought that Matty,  but more toned down as was previously suggested.

Sailormack

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Offline mattylondon

I thought that Matty,  but more toned down as was previously suggested.
That's toned down?!  :D  As sailormack said.  :rolleyes:  :bomb:

vorian

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That's toned down?!  :D  As sailormack said.  :rolleyes:  :bomb:

Well no 'Whores' and only one 'Cunt' so somewhat toned down.  :D

Offline mattylondon

Well no 'Whores' and only one 'Cunt' so somewhat toned down.  :D
A fair point. Only one cunt!  :D

Offline webpunter

"Treat her well"
Well that's a pretty fucking obvious thing to do.  If you want to have a good time with the AW girlie
Do these guys think they are 'knights in shining armour'
'Misguided' is a polite word for them.  'Complete tossers' springs to mind

"What happens between us will remain private"
Literal translation means that they think that they are making themselves look good & hope for +ve FB themselves
I bet the AW girlies laugh at this to themselves & think 'sad fucker'
More likely the guys are shit 'on the job' with the AW girlie in question & want to keep this to themselves

I wonder how many AW guys who write this shit think that they are special to the AW girlies they have seen ?
Ideas of potential romance in the future ? - yeah right.  Dream on
Next time they get in a black cab they should try saying to the driver - 'when the fare gets to £x then stop the cab & ask me to leave'
Fucking hilarious
But we can't knock AW itself as it is our 'database' of choice
However the fluffy wanker twats who write such shit make themselves open to be taken to the cleaners
I can see a new post coming - most fluffy AW review...


Glader

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AW should use a check box saying : did the girl look like her images?

it would make reading these reviews worthwhile.

Im understanding towards performance, every lady has an off day but equally - images should reflect the girl in question "now" - not when she was at uni, her best friend, some vacation years ago.

The amount of gallery pictures with timestamps of 200X-11 is ridiculous.

jcdmj12

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It's the punting equivalent of management speak. It facilitates the production of verbiage without actually convenying information.

I bet the twats who write this say things like "going forward..." at work.

Are they implying you should treat other girls badly?   :unknown:

jcdmj12

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AW should use a check box saying : did the girl look like her images?

it would make reading these reviews worthwhile.

Im understanding towards performance, every lady has an off day but equally - images should reflect the girl in question "now" - not when she was at uni, her best friend, some vacation years ago.

The amount of gallery pictures with timestamps of 200X-11 is ridiculous.

Yeah, I've been to a few where they look like they ate the girl in the images.   Shamefully, I usually stayed because although she be a whale, the hour be late, and her blowhole be wet. 




Offline Sattob

I know I'm reviving an old thread, but it might be better than starting a new one?

I do see a problem with reviews where the guys try and be gentlemen by keeping the intimate acts private, but this is a forum for sharing, either go big or go home! A WG by her very act of sex with strangers removes this, unless she transcends the '4th wall', but this is a rare thing. In short, she's not your GF once the time runs out.

As for 'treat her well', well, I'm ambivalent on this. There are some who I've seen who expect to used as just a whore, and whilst I don't wish them bad, their lives are their business, and I have no interest in them. However, for some, I do wish them well, and sincerely hope that they only meet the kindest gentlemen. I've known a few WG, some personally outside of their professional lives. Some men are gentlemen (as I try to be), and treat them with respect. Some men are just indifferent, no nice, not nasty, just do their business and leave. Some though can be nasty, and whilst some girls I know can deal with it, some get very shaken by it. I admit, I have a soft spot for a couple of sweet girls who are extant in the industry, and at least one I know is vulnerable to this (too sweet for this industry, maybe). So, if I say 'treat her well', it's not a command, it's a request, although I think most of the guys here, at least the regular posters (of which I've become I think) would have respect, even if indifferent to the girl.

Of course, respect is earned. Some WG have no respect for us. For many, myself included, £120 or so is a lot of money. We are giving our earned money to a girl for what is often given away for free. We expect respect, that services and prices will be honoured, and that the service itself will meet reasonable expectations. This isn't always the case. I'm lucky in that I usually have a good service, and leave satisfied (even if I then get feelings of regret, but that's another thread...). As such, if a girl fails to meet the minimums, there is no way we'd say 'treat her well', because respect is both ways.

OK, I'm a soppy git! :)

Offline king tarzan

I have written a few field reports
Went into explicit detail
Otherwise pointless exercise
Banned reason: Misogynist who gets free bookings from agencies for pos reviews.
Banned by: daviemac

kamu

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Field reports are for fluffies who want to waffle on without actually telling you anything. This is the place to get the core info and make your own damn mind up without having to receive an order/request to "treat her well". It should go without saying you are going to treat them well by giving them lots of cash, having a plesant interaction and if they are lucky an orgasm or 2!

Offline scutty brown

Field reports are for fluffies who want to waffle on without actually telling you anything. This is the place to get the core info and make your own damn mind up without having to receive an order/request to "treat her well". It should go without saying you are going to treat them well by giving them lots of cash, having a plesant interaction and if they are lucky an orgasm or 2!

only two?
Surely "treating her well" means at least four or five orgasms in the hour......???

Offline Sweettunes

I despise adultwork feedback so I totally agree with this thread on the rare occasion  the WG had earned her stipes with me and exceeded my expectations I have written a field report and it's normally a list of the filth and shame that occurred... Not this fluffy white night shit....  We are paying girls to fuck and suck, we are not dating them.... If a girl does well we leave good feedback if she complelty blows my mind then she will get a porn filled field report... And a positive report on here.  If she is shit I will type out  a negative review on here so its evidenced.


Simples

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« Last Edit: March 15, 2017, 07:53:45 pm by Sweettunes »

Offline Sattob

I just read all your reviews Sweettunes, and yes, they were good, amusing even (the pussy farts, etc).  :)

Still, if you don't like 'treat her well', just ignore it?

vw

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I have written a few field reports
Went into explicit detail
Otherwise pointless exercise

was that when you were banned to keep your invisible fanclub in the loop ?

Offline NigelF

For me, the issue isn't really the request itself, it's the fact that it does fuck all to influence what the punter reading it will actually do. Ironically, you'd be better off going in to detail about how and why you should "treat her well" as that may have a greater chance (albeit still very small) of influencing someone. However that would of course be rather annoying and very patronising.

Unless you need help with basic common courtesies like having a shower before a punt (e.g. the member fairfield, who has subsequently enjoyed a higher standard of punt) then this forum is simply not the place to be trying to turn the bastards of the world into decent folk. It's a noble cause but it's still not the objective of this forum.

Of course though, if we see clear examples of bad or harmful behaviour towards WGs (unless consensual) then we should be the first to point it out and criticise. Rightly, admin may well wield his axe and label the perpetrator an "undesirable", which is very apt.

Offline Steely Dan

I know I'm reviving an old thread, but it might be better than starting a new one?
Rule of thumb.  If you feel you have to apologise for something, don't.  Just don't do that thing.
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So, if I say 'treat her well', it's not a command, it's a request, although I think most of the guys here, at least the regular posters (of which I've become I think) would have respect, even if indifferent to the girl.
I can't say this better than the guide to review writing:
THINGS NOT TO SAY Treat her with respect. As if the readers were going to treat her poorly but since you wrote this, now they wont?

Offline Brazilian Martian

was that when you were banned to keep your invisible fanclub in the loop ?

 :sarcastic:

Biggerthanmost

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I think the treat her well thing goes without saying

Why treat her like shit? She is a human being after all.

And if you are her next punt and she is pissed off with the previous twat who gave her a hard time, you aren't going to get a good service are you?

I don't mean roll over and take shit service. Tell them what you want and if they don't deliver walk away and post a negative review here.

Every punt there is a possibility of poor service, some more so than others. In my experience, you get what you pay for, and sometimes you get a lot more, and others, next to nothing at all.

Sadly there is no punting ombudsman you can complain to. But you can do your research here first.



« Last Edit: March 15, 2017, 08:43:45 pm by Biggerthanmost »

vw

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For me, the issue isn't really the request itself, it's the fact that it does fuck all to influence what the punter reading it will actually do. Ironically, you'd be better off going in to detail about how and why you should "treat her well" as that may have a greater chance (albeit still very small) of influencing someone. However that would of course be rather annoying and very patronising.

Unless you need help with basic common courtesies like having a shower before a punt (e.g. the member fairfield, who has subsequently enjoyed a higher standard of punt) then this forum is simply not the place to be trying to turn the bastards of the world into decent folk. It's a noble cause but it's still not the objective of this forum.

Of course though, if we see clear examples of bad or harmful behaviour towards WGs (unless consensual) then we should be the first to point it out and criticise. Rightly, admin may well wield his axe and label the perpetrator an "undesirable", which is very apt.

some punters like to believe all other punters are bad people and they are the only respectful one.

Nothing about helping the prossies out, all about the person wring it and their superiority complex.


Offline Brazilian Martian

Treat her well guys this girl is special, or the other thing I see some times on AW field reports is if you're lucky enough to visit her you won't be disappointed  :thumbsdown:

Offline Sweettunes

I just read all your reviews Sweettunes, and yes, they were good, amusing even (the pussy farts, etc).  :)

Still, if you don't like 'treat her well', just ignore it?

My point is why put these girls on a pedistool, be polite of course that goes without saying. But when it comes to feedback, field reports and reviews we as punters have to make it honest and give some details, so the next punter knows what he is paying for...

As this forum allows you to research a potential punt... And if your taking a chance on a TOFTT your feedback, field report and review is even more critical for the next guy....

I have really had a mixed bag to punting, from being robbed to being dictated to and being the fool. But when it does go right it's a total high... But the more you highlight the good and the bad wgs the better experience we will all have... Including the pussy farts........ And the important  details.

 :coolgirl:
« Last Edit: March 15, 2017, 08:51:53 pm by Sweettunes »

Offline Sattob

Rule of thumb.  If you feel you have to apologise for something, don't.
Apologies for not being clearer, it was more an explanation
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I can't say this better than the guide to review writing:
THINGS NOT TO SAY Treat her with respect. As if the readers were going to treat her poorly but since you wrote this, now they wont?

It's just fluff! Even if I requested 'treat this girl nicely', those who don't will ignore it, and those who do, will wonder why I said it! Now if I said, she responds well to a hard smack on the bum, that would be more interesting :)

kamu

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Apologies for not being clearer, it was more an explanationIt's just fluff! Even if I requested 'treat this girl nicely', those who don't will ignore it, and those who do, will wonder why I said it! Now if I said, she responds well to a hard smack on the bum, that would be more interesting :)

Just stick to the facts and not blab on about stuff no one gives a shit about :thumbsup:.

Offline Sattob

Just stick to the facts and not blab on about stuff no one gives a shit about :thumbsup:.
Oh but that would make reviews so boring! I do love reading reports, and the different style of writing. Sometimes the weird little details give so much colour, even stuff which isn't directly related like, how the writer was feeling, or what he ate, etc.

kamu

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Oh but that would make reviews so boring! I do love reading reports, and the different style of writing. Sometimes the weird little details give so much colour, even stuff which isn't directly related like, how the writer was feeling, or what he ate, etc.

I was referring to being overly fluffy and recommending people "treat her well" :hi:.

Offline Brazilian Martian

Oh but that would make reviews so boring! I do love reading reports, and the different style of writing. Sometimes the weird little details give so much colour, even stuff which isn't directly related like, how the writer was feeling, or what he ate, etc.

Then maybe prossienet may be more suitable for you then or maybe go to your local library and get a mills and boon book if you enjoy reading nonsense

Offline Sattob

I was referring to being overly fluffy and recommending people "treat her well" :hi:.
I know I'm fluffy...:) I don't say 'treat her well', because I know it's meaningless. However, if I did, it would be a request, but more a hope.

Offline Sattob

Then maybe prossienet may be more suitable for you then or maybe go to your local library and get a mills and boon book if you enjoy reading nonsense
No way, like, your last review, you said 'bust a nut', it's not relevant to the review, but it adds colour, and gives some context to the writer (yourself)

Offline Brazilian Martian

No way, like, your last review, you said 'bust a nut', it's not relevant to the review, but it adds colour, and gives some context to the writer (yourself)

Ohh ok my apologies I misunderstood your post  :drinks:

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Offline Brokenshed

If I am clean, pay promptly and ask for services on her likes list, sofaras I am concerned, I am "treating her well".
If I read a review on tripadvisor for a restuarant, I want to know whether the food and service are good. I don't need to be told to treat the waiting staff well, or what happened when they serve the food is between me and the chef. So when i read a review, i want to know, was she enthusiastic, firm or saggy tits and bum, clean smelling pussy, does she really do deep throat or does she just do oral. Is she a good fuck. Does she pushyou out immediately you come. Is she genuinely a cum slut nympho, or is it just marketing talk.

Offline king tarzan

I am a polite clean manner full man towards the ladies.
Due to the beauty premium price range I am a bastard as I expect the lady to be in pristine physical condition.
On her profile she has sold herself to me for me to get to her and part with my hard earned cash.

I don't want to see blobby bellies
Stretch marks
Saggy tits and arses
Thinning hair on her head

I expect for the price a very high standard of beauty and classy introductory speaking ( no need for talkies after paperwork as she will be expected to be dfkeeing non stop)

I am a bastard on this because I earn my money honestly. .
Banned reason: Misogynist who gets free bookings from agencies for pos reviews.
Banned by: daviemac

Offline NigelF

If I am clean, pay promptly and ask for services on her likes list, sofaras I am concerned, I am "treating her well".

Yeah, those are the basics/fundamentals. If these things aren't done then I think there is a role for UKP to help "educate" punters on what should be the done thing. It is fairly easy to explain why these things are important and the benefit to the punter. To be fair though, there is a fair bit more to "treating her well" than just that but then it gets more subjective and harder to articulate, it's also more likely to fall on deaf ears.

If I read a review on tripadvisor for a restuarant, I want to know whether the food and service are good. I don't need to be told to treat the waiting staff well, or what happened when they serve the food is between me and the chef. So when i read a review, i want to know, was she enthusiastic, firm or saggy tits and bum, clean smelling pussy, does she really do deep throat or does she just do oral. Is she a good fuck. Does she pushyou out immediately you come. Is she genuinely a cum slut nympho, or is it just marketing talk.

I agree. "What happened was between me and the chef"  :lol:

Offline megaman

i could do with afew tips on how too talk too the ladys, wot do you say and wot do you don't say?.
the last lady told me as long your clean and have respect that's all matters. I don't know if you talk dirty too her that breaks the rule about having respect. any tips?

Offline agent47

i could do with afew tips on how too talk too the ladys, wot do you say and wot do you don't say?.
the last lady told me as long your clean and have respect that's all matters. I don't know if you talk dirty too her that breaks the rule about having respect. any tips?

Depends on what you're saying in your dirty talk? if out of the blue you start calling her a worthless fucking cunt then yeah she may get upset  :D

Offline Brokenshed

But what if she ticked "humiliation" on her likes?

Offline megaman

Depends on what you're saying in your dirty talk? if out of the blue you start calling her a worthless fucking cunt then yeah she may get upset  :D
no I mean stuff like i like your body you have nice tits I want to fuck you now and so on, that sort of stuff  :diablo:. I was chatting too one lady and she asked me if I had a girlfriend, if I had kids. don't know why. I said no I don't have a girlfriend I'm unattractive too girls.

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no I mean stuff like i like your body you have nice tits I want to fuck you now and so on, that sort of stuff  :diablo:. I was chatting too one lady and she asked me if I had a girlfriend, if I had kids. don't know why. I said no I don't have a girlfriend I'm unattractive too girls.
Larry Laffer gets all the girls. In all seriousness I get asked this a lot to, although now it's more do I have a wife. I think it is just making conversation and not really intended as spying or offensive.

Offline agent47

no I mean stuff like i like your body you have nice tits I want to fuck you now and so on, that sort of stuff  :diablo:. I was chatting too one lady and she asked me if I had a girlfriend, if I had kids. don't know why. I said no I don't have a girlfriend I'm unattractive too girls.
Nothing wrong with complimenting her, tell her how her hair looks nice or you smell nice, and there's nothing wrong with initiating the sex that's what you're paying for.

Offline Marmalade

My point is why put these girls on a pedistool, be polite of course that goes without saying. But when it comes to feedback, field reports and reviews we as punters have to make it honest and give some details, so the next punter knows what he is paying for...

As this forum allows you to research a potential punt... And if your taking a chance on a TOFTT your feedback, field report and review is even more critical for the next guy....

I have really had a mixed bag to punting, from being robbed to being dictated to and being the fool. But when it does go right it's a total high... But the more you highlight the good and the bad wgs the better experience we will all have... Including the pussy farts........ And the important  details.

 :coolgirl:

SPOT ON!!!  :drinks:


As for the view expressed by some that fluff 'makes reviews more interesting' such shite could be better placed in another section (or 'deleted posts'). I don't read or write reviews for 'entertainment'.  :dash: and it's hardly the purpose of the site.

Offline Sattob

As for the view expressed by some that fluff 'makes reviews more interesting' such shite could be better placed in another section (or 'deleted posts'). I don't read or write reviews for 'entertainment'.  :dash: and it's hardly the purpose of the site.
Yep, your reports are fairly short on feelings, context, colour, or anything bar the actual details, so nothing that can be called fluff, and of course, everyone else should follow your example, do the same, play 'follow my leader'. Enjoyment is banned, just cold hard facts, and nowt else.

Of course, you do, in your last report, around a year ago, talk about this being your best shag, so, I'm wondering if the Fluff Police you like so much are investigating that...? Hmmm Or talking about the tattoo? Or the pictures on the walls, from earlier reports. I think the Fluff Police might be out.
« Last Edit: March 18, 2017, 09:38:09 pm by Sattob »

Offline NigelF

Yep, your reports are fairly short on feelings, context, colour, or anything bar the actual details, so nothing that can be called fluff, and of course, everyone else should follow your example, do the same, play 'follow my leader'. Enjoyment is banned, just cold hard facts, and nowt else.

Of course, you do, in your last report, around a year ago, talk about this being your best shag, so, I'm wondering if the Fluff Police you like so much are investigating that...? Hmmm Or talking about the tattoo? Or the pictures on the walls, from earlier reports. I think the Fluff Police might be out.

He's not saying enjoyment should be banned or that everyone should write as he does. He is however expressing frustration that he has wade through a lot of irrelevant shite before he can find the salient points. As he alludes to, the purpose of this site is not to provide wank fodder for the reviewer or the people reading it! I for one agree with him but I think some people would only post reviews if they're allowed to "relive the moment" in full so if it's that vs less reviews then I suppose it has to be that. Any other system would likely be unworkable anyway.

I do however think that some elucidation of "feelings" is important as sometimes it can be hard to articulate why a punt was good or bad - so it's a way of describing your opinion. Having said that, it is often hard to maintain objectivity but it's up to both the reviewer (mainly) and the reader to assess that. I don't think he said he was against feelings anyway, just all the unnecessary detail and waffle.