Hi chaps.. any recommendations for this? The girlfriend has expressed an interest in doing this... whether it happens I don’t know but I can only encourage it .... have any of you done it yourselves with a partner.... let me know how it went!
I would say the key thing I did, when it was first suggested to me by my partner is act a little bit disinterested. I think from her first mentioning it to it actually happening was like 18 months. During sex I would talk about the things me and another girl would do to her, my partner is quite submissive, and slowly but surely built up to the event. My advice play the long, smart game.
We went on to see many, many escorts together, which I attribute to a great first experience.
When we finally got to the first time, I made a weekend out if it, booking a hotel, having a lovely dinner and evening. She had spent a fortune on new underwear, got her hair all done, we had massages all before hand. Candles in the room, background music etc.
Most importantly pick the girl well, my missus chose the body type and age, but it’s not that straightforward as just about every girl lists ‘Bi’ on their profile and from experience they certainly are not.
During the event, particularly the first time concentrate on your partner, kinda ignore the other girl, (in fact I remember my missus complaining that I didn’t do anything to the girl afterwards).
Hope that all helps a bit, good luck.