Do girls usually carry a variety of condoms? (i.e thick and thin ones)

[jaj909]

I started Punting in London beginning of the year and have had about 5 encounters so far, 2 of which have included fs. For both of these the condom I was given to use was very thin, which provides more sensation, and which for me meant I bust a lot faster. For my civilian sex life I always use thickers ones, to last longer with a partner and also to prolong my enjoyment. Each time with the sp the dom was sitting waiting on the bedside dresser and Ive never had the presence of mind (nerves) to ask if they have something thicker that will provide less sensitivity. I gather most girls prefer to use the condoms they have purchased themselves, but do they usually have a selection - like thick and thin? What are peoples experiences with asking - if you do ask -  for a different thickness, do girls tend to have a selection, or is this just something I have to accept is out of my control, and if not, does anyone ask in the preliminary comms with them (i guess language barrier would make this tricky some of the time)? For me at least the enjoyment, ive discovered, is significantly determined by the condom used..

[Melnw6969]

What if you want to use a thicker jacket for fucking but the SP won’t do OWO first - would you expect her to have a thinner one for oral then swap to a thicker one to be fucked with?  I guess it’s worth the question on booking but in my experience you get covered with what you’re given.

[jaj909]

What if you want to use a thicker jacket for fucking but the SP won’t do OWO first - would you expect her to have a thinner one for oral then swap to a thicker one to be fucked with?  I guess it’s worth the question on booking but in my experience you get covered with what you’re given.

Yeah, i guess I'd be happy to not have a bj at all if i got to choose the dom (i dont do owo and in my last punts I didnt bother with oral at all anyway). Suppose the answer is probably just to ask in the comms beforehand and pray sergei lets em know

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Perhap the resdident ladies can offer comnent?..

[contentguy]

In my manor, getting many of the ‘International’ SPs to answer the phone is a challenge.
They reply to calls with a text, often a postcode and ‘what time you want bebe, 1 hr or 30 mins?’

A question about condom thickness is likely to be way beyond their comms ability.

More generally, if you’re going to question their selection of protection, I’d envisage that’s going to be a red flag to many SPs.  Are you asking because you don’t want to use it, insist on using your own (with the risks to them associated with that) or are just a bit wierd.

[jaj909]

In my manor, getting many of the ‘International’ SPs to answer the phone is a challenge.
They reply to calls with a text, often a postcode and ‘what time you want bebe, 1 hr or 30 mins?’

A question about condom thickness is likely to be way beyond their comms ability.

More generally, if you’re going to question their selection of protection, I’d envisage that’s going to be a red flag to many SPs.  Are you asking because you don’t want to use it, insist on using your own (with the risks to them associated with that) or are just a bit wierd.

Yeah, thought as much about the comms limitations and also about alarming them with an innocuous question about dom thickness - could be misunderstood etc
No answer to this q i guess other than just test the water and see what happens

[the_exile]

I've found that SPs are often OK with you using your own condoms so long as the pack is unopened - so they know that the contents haven't been tampered with. They may have different sizes etc. but if you want to use a particular sort you might be better off bringing some.

Re: using different condoms for oral and sex - that does happen, as an SP once explained to me that the flavoured condoms are only for oral, we changed to an "ordinary" type to fuck.

[big-al93]

Given the type of ladies that you've reviewed, and your mention of Sergei, it's likely to be a case of take what you are given.

If you find a nice experienced independant who handles her own comms, and speaks good english, most of the british ones should be fairly fluent, but others are too, and you explain beforehand. If you wanted to suggest whatever brand you use, offer to pay extra for her to get a box, and say that if she preferred you could bring a new sealed box. All that can happen is that she may say no, and you can decide to proceed or not.

[jaj909]

I've found that SPs are often OK with you using your own condoms so long as the pack is unopened - so they know that the contents haven't been tampered with. They may have different sizes etc. but if you want to use a particular sort you might be better off bringing some.

Re: using different condoms for oral and sex - that does happen, as an SP once explained to me that the flavoured condoms are only for oral, we changed to an "ordinary" type to fuck.

I was thinking this too - having an unopened box may seem a bit more appealing.

[willie loman]

i always take my own, as some sauna birds are so mean and disorganised that they use the ones they get free from the nhs busybodies who visit, these are so thick you take ages to come.also take my own lube, as the scottish girls always forget to get any.

[MissWolf]

I, like many girls carry an array of condoms, however I carry mostly on size, so passant trim, skins regular and large and a king size, all of the condoms I carry are quite thin and all are latex free because I have reactions to latex ones they make me horribly itchy, sore and smelly ffs

I'd be happy for a client to supply their own as long as they were in a sealed box and were latex free due to the info above.

I can only suggest that you do some research,  get a supply of latex and non latex that you are happy using and keep a sealed pack of both, then discuss beforehand with the escort you are booking if she is happy for you to supply the condoms for the booking, give her the reason you want to do that and explain they will be in a sealed box, you never know she may already have the ones you want to use in stock.

[alabama1]

I, like many girls carry an array of condoms, however I carry mostly on size, so passant trim, skins regular and large and a king size, all of the condoms I carry are quite thin and all are latex free because I have reactions to latex ones they make me horribly itchy, sore and smelly ffs

I'd be happy for a client to supply their own as long as they were in a sealed box and were latex free due to the info above.

I can only suggest that you do some research,  get a supply of latex and non latex that you are happy using and keep a sealed pack of both, then discuss beforehand with the escort you are booking if she is happy for you to supply the condoms for the booking, give her the reason you want to do that and explain they will be in a sealed box, you never know she may already have the ones you want to use in stock.

So he can only ever use one condom out of the box, everytime he punts ? What's he going to do with the others in the box ? He's gonna rapidly accumulate a condom mountain. 

[Strawberry]

I, like many girls carry an array of condoms, however I carry mostly on size, so passant trim, skins regular and large and a king size, all of the condoms I carry are quite thin and all are latex free because I have reactions to latex ones they make me horribly itchy, sore and smelly ffs

I'd be happy for a client to supply their own as long as they were in a sealed box and were latex free due to the info above.

I can only suggest that you do some research,  get a supply of latex and non latex that you are happy using and keep a sealed pack of both, then discuss beforehand with the escort you are booking if she is happy for you to supply the condoms for the booking, give her the reason you want to do that and explain they will be in a sealed box, you never know she may already have the ones you want to use in stock.

I carry extra thick I have had clients who requested these to delay their climax, also someone who needs these because he is very energetic alternating between wanking and intercourse as he edges continually though the booking. Changing was also important with the latter. The only problem is extra thick don't tend to come in different sizes. I do prefer to use condoms I have brought with me, not only because of tamper risk but many people automatically choose Durex a brand with poor reputation in sex work for reliability.

[jaj909]

I carry extra thick I have had clients who requested these to delay their climax, also someone who needs these because he is very energetic alternating between wanking and intercourse as he edges continually though the booking. Changing was also important with the latter. The only problem is extra thick don't tend to come in different sizes. I do prefer to use condoms I have brought with me, not only because of tamper risk but many people automatically choose Durex a brand with poor reputation in sex work for reliability.

Thanks, really appreciate your input. What brands would you say have a good reputation that I should look to pick up? Ive personally used SKYN brand before, but have no idea how good they are known to be.

[RandomGuy99]

Yes

[Strawberry]

Thanks, really appreciate your input. What brands would you say have a good reputation that I should look to pick up? Ive personally used SKYN brand before, but have no idea how good they are known to be.

Do you mean Skyns (brand) or Mates Skyns?

Mates are my preferred brand Mates Natural are impregnated with a slightly sweet lube (not sickly sweet), this eliminates any rubbery odours and tastes can be useful if expecting oral after intercourse.

I use Mates Skyns (can smell odd but some people like the better feel and these are suitable for anyone allergic to latex), Mates Conform are slightly slimmer/marginally smaller contoured fit, Mates King Size, Mates Skyns are also available in extra lubed and larger varieties.

It Mates made a small I would buy it but they do not so I use Pasante Trim. I also have Pasante Black Velvet just in case I come across a 'triangular' cock  - very wide base, narrow head. I have not had chance to try these yet.

I have also tried Pasante Unique after seeing them recommended in a UKP post, Jury is out on these - application method is quite different and there isn't the surety of a ring at the base. Also these make a crinkling sound. I tend to only use these by request, and have a little chat about the usage.

The most important thing in my opinion is learn proper application, many people stretch the condom over the head and or do not leave a teat. Lubrication is important and avoid porn-star style bouncing, this is when the penis exits the vagina on each thrust. The reentry in my experience particularly when combined with lack of lube, and incorrect application is often a factor in splitting.

Hold the base of the condom when withdrawing (quite a few men just leap back), roll off from the base, knot and bin (I bag it first). Change the condom if you wish to continue intercourse after ejaculation. Continuing to thrust can allow semen to seep down and leak out under the ring.

Also be aware oils degrade latex condoms so avoid contact with massage oils, baby oil etc and always check the expiry dates. I think that is all for now.

[jaj909]

Do you mean Skyns (brand) or Mates Skyns?

Mates are my preferred brand Mates Natural are impregnated with a slightly sweet lube (not sickly sweet), this eliminates any rubbery odours and tastes can be useful if expecting oral after intercourse.

I use Mates Skyns (can smell odd but some people like the better feel and these are suitable for anyone allergic to latex), Mates Conform are slightly slimmer/marginally smaller contoured fit, Mates King Size, Mates Skyns are also available in extra lubed and larger varieties.

It Mates made a small I would buy it but they do not so I use Pasante Trim. I also have Pasante Black Velvet just in case I come across a 'triangular' cock  - very wide base, narrow head. I have not had chance to try these yet.

I have also tried Pasante Unique after seeing them recommended in a UKP post, Jury is out on these - application method is quite different and there isn't the surety of a ring at the base. Also these make a crinkling sound. I tend to only use these by request, and have a little chat about the usage.

The most important thing in my opinion is learn proper application, many people stretch the condom over the head and or do not leave a teat. Lubrication is important and avoid porn-star style bouncing, this is when the penis exits the vagina on each thrust. The reentry in my experience particularly when combined with lack of lube, and incorrect application is often a factor in splitting.

Hold the base of the condom when withdrawing (quite a few men just leap back), roll off from the base, knot and bin (I bag it first). Change the condom if you wish to continue intercourse after ejaculation. Continuing to thrust can allow semen to seep down and leak out under the ring.

Also be aware oils degrade latex condoms so avoid contact with massage oils, baby oil etc and always check the expiry dates. I think that is all for now.

I think it's SKYN the brand. Ill check out Mates Skyn though. I'll get a variety and keep them boxed and see what the girl says. If I ever get a regular things would maybe get more straightforward, but i'm a noob to this so still very much getting a feel for the whole thing.  Thanks for you comments -)

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Bugger those Triangular dicks arent they still theres always these for those!

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[Strawberry]

I think it's SKYN the brand. Ill check out Mates Skyn though. I'll get a variety and keep them boxed and see what the girl says. If I ever get a regular things would maybe get more straightforward, but i'm a noob to this so still very much getting a feel for the whole thing.  Thanks for you comments -)

My advice would be to ask her if she has a 'safe' or 'extra' version, she may be automatically choosing most sensitive because that is what many punters/men want. If a regular you could gently ask her if she would look into some thicker, safer varieties. This way the SP can choose the brand of her preference. One problem with speciality condoms particularly if the SP is low volume, is expiry date may be reached before using, but depending on the services/activities she provides she could also use this type to cover sex toys, dildos, strap-ons, fingers for prostate massage. That said I still throwaway quite a few unopened expired condoms.

[B4bcock]

Thanks, MissWolf and Strawberry, for your useful and detailed contributions to this thread.  Have either of you ever used a femidom and, if so, would you say they are safe to use for escorting purposes? There used to be a Bristol escort who advertised BB sex but only if a femidom was used, which she provided at extra cost (£10 IIRC).  I was always too cautious to try it, but often wondered what it would have been like.  Incidentally, she stopped escorting when she fell pregnant - dunno if that was due to femidom failure or not!

[Strawberry]

Thanks, MissWolf and Strawberry, for your useful and detailed contributions to this thread.  Have either of you ever used a femidom and, if so, would you say they are safe to use for escorting purposes? There used to be a Bristol escort who advertised BB sex but only if a femidom was used, which she provided at extra cost (£10 IIRC).  I was always too cautious to try it, but often wondered what it would have been like.  Incidentally, she stopped escorting when she fell pregnant - dunno if that was due to femidom failure or not!

I tried femidom once, did not like it at all was very fiddly - this could be lack of practice.