Definition of being a “regular”

[IAmNotFamous]

Sorry. Keen to pick the brains from the knowledge pool that is the UKP.

At what point would one consider they’ve become a regular customer  to an SP?

Three visits? Four…five…Or when they remember you (could be second visit) ? Or when you buy their T-shirt?

Or maybe not by the number of visits maybe by the questions like “how’s your mother?” Etc?

[Doyle]

Easy to measure at this time of year.  Wait and see which SPs you get a Christmas card from!

[WelshClipper]

I don’t think you can define it by the number of visits. Also the escorts I see all have different criteria so my answer is “It’s all over the shop.”

I have seen some profiles say ‘If you come see me again within X days I will give you £10 off’ other girls define a regular as someone who has consistently returned over a number of years even if only once every six months.

Very hard to define 

[PaulRuff]

Some seem to call someone who visits them once every couple of months as their regular, others wouldn't so impossible to have an answer that covers all WGs.

[bukowski]

The official definition is two visits in any 8 month period.

Your status as `regular` lapses if there are no more visits during any 8 month period but can be reintstated if there is a subsequent a visit within the 6 months following the start of the lapsed period.

In the event of any visit during a period where `regular` status is active but where the punter does not remember any previous visit within 7 days of the visit then the last visit will not be counted in regard to the `regular` status.

[IAmNotFamous]

Just to clarify. This isn’t a question about how many visits lead to a discount.

Just a question about comfortability and extra services offered once “trust” (right word?) is established.

[Punterperson1971]

Just to clarify. This isn’t a question about how many visits lead to a discount.

Just a question about comfortability and extra services offered once “trust” (right word?) is established.

My regular charges me £60 for 30 mins (even though there’s no rush)filming and anal if I choose,she only does ow but I can do much what I want,and I’ve dabbled in a strap on a few times with her.
Also she let me fuck her mate a few times same price just that she don’t escort she’s just a friend of hers even had a threesome with both of them which is better as they are best mates anyway.
Another one I see has done me 15 mins for £40,£60 for 30 minutes and even £80 for an hour although I pay normal prices now which isn’t an issue just respect what they charge

[IAmNotFamous]

My regular charges me £60 for 30 mins (even though there’s no rush)filming and anal if I choose,she only does ow but I can do much what I want,and I’ve dabbled in a strap on a few times with her.
Also she let me fuck her mate a few times same price just that she don’t escort she’s just a friend of hers even had a threesome with both of them which is better as they are best mates anyway.
Another one I see has done me 15 mins for £40,£60 for 30 minutes and even £80 for an hour although I pay normal prices now which isn’t an issue just respect what they charge

Can you remember how many visits it took to reach that comfortable stage?

[Atrueyorkie]

My definition or understanding would be anymore than 2 visits. Then I’d say you are a regular.

Your second question on comfortability/extra services that just depends on the person. I’ve gotten it on first visits, just depends who you are personality wise in my opinion. Also helps if you’re similar to the SP or there’s mutual attraction. There’s many variables

[Doc Holliday]

Can you remember how many visits it took to reach that comfortable stage?

Feeling comfortable cannot be measured by number of visits. An SP may feel very comfortable with you after one visit and never fully comfortable with someone they have seen many times.

Edit Yorkie beat me to it 

[Doc Holliday]

The official definition is two visits in any 8 month period.

Your status as `regular` lapses if there are no more visits during any 8 month period but can be reintstated if there is a subsequent a visit within the 6 months following the start of the lapsed period.

In the event of any visit during a period where `regular` status is active but where the punter does not remember any previous visit within 7 days of the visit then the last visit will not be counted in regard to the `regular` status.

I think that all changed after Brexit? There are also differences in Scotland

[RedKettle]

Feeling comfortable cannot be measured by number of visits. An SP may feel very comfortable with you after one visit and never fully comfortable with someone they have seen many times.

Edit Yorkie beat me to it 

I once had a regular who I had seen many times and assumed she was comfortable with me. I then got banned by her for a role play suggestion. I was shocked to be honest and lots of self questioning followed. Long story short I did see her again and all good.

Another regular I was comfortable with suddenly produced a husband to threaten me out of money.

It is a strange game

[Punterperson1971]

Can you remember how many visits it took to reach that comfortable stage?

I’ve known her for almost 20 years to be Honest and it’s always comfortable and relaxed atmosphere

[MissWolf]

Such a subjective question its almost impossible to give a definitive reply

I have clients I've seen twice a year for 7 years, a few I've seen once a month for 6 or 7 years and others I've seen 10 times in a year never to be seen again, all 9f which  an be classed as regulars.

Some clients feel like long lost lovers the moment they walk in the door, others never really click in that way, I had one regular I saw monthly for about 3 years, I was never 100% comfortable with him, he always edged his time a little over but other than that I couldn't put my finger on why I wasn't comfortable ashe was never disrespectfulor rude,  till he booked an overnight and in the run up started to tell me he was going to make sure he got me drunk to see how far he could get me to go, how naughty I would be if I was pissed up, he stood at 6'4" an ex rugby player,  I wouldn't have stood a chance.

Boom insta block and I now never question my gut instinct.

[king tarzan]

Too regular that's where the problems begin to surface

[mr.bluesky]

Sorry. Keen to pick the brains from the knowledge pool that is the UKP.

At what point would one consider they’ve become a regular customer  to an SP?

Three visits? Four…five…Or when they remember you (could be second visit) ? Or when you buy their T-shirt?

Or maybe not by the number of visits maybe by the questions like “how’s your mother?” Etc?

Perhaps that's a question best answered by a service provider on who they class as a "regular" 

[Stevelondon]

That’s a good question.

I called one particular SP my regular because I saw her every couple of weeks. Probably over a three year period. Breaks in between of course. Holidays, hers and mine. Hospital stuff, various others.
She raised her prices over that period but not that much. I paid the increase but she did arrange some lovely punts for me and I never paid a fortune more for the extras.
I think she saw the benefits of having a regular punter as being good business sense. An awful lot of SP’s don’t know this.
I’ve also know a pro Dom for over 20 years now and although it’s rare I session as such with her……. Rarely anyway. I still get charged half price.
I suppose it’s because we socialise vanilla more than anything……. But again not often.

[Strawberry]

Perhaps that's a question best answered by a service provider on who they class as a "regular" 

Someone who books on a regular basis, but I don't really have any hidden extras  .

[Doc Holliday]

Someone who books on a regular basis

Indeed and the problem with the term regular is by definition it means a defined interval or pattern, which will not be an accepted standard as Miss Wolf demonstrates. An alternative term is  'repeat' whereby someone has been seen more than once. As with most businesses, SP's should be looking for repeat bookings. Some of those repeats will follow a definite time scale/pattern which may have the added benefit of predicting cash flow and may give some stability.

As discussed repeat or regular bookings does not necessarily mean that the SP will be open to extra services. The latter, if it happens, will be dependent on how the SP 'views' that particular individual.

[IAmNotFamous]

Someone who books on a regular basis, but I don't really have any hidden extras  .

Sorry. Just to clarify “extras”. What I mean by that is do things differently. For example OW progessing to OWO. No kissing at first then progressing to kissing etc.

I hear the point other members have raised…mileage. The SP and client clicks at first sight (romantic, right) and things are done differently.

Which is why I make sure I work out, shave (down below) - trim my beard, shower, add some aftershave,  dress good (first impressions), turn up on time, be polite and put on the charm

[king tarzan]

Sorry. Just to clarify “extras”. What I mean by that is do things differently. For example OW progessing to OWO. No kissing at first then progressing to kissing etc.

I hear the point other members have raised…mileage. The SP and client clicks at first sight (romantic, right) and things are done differently.

Which is why I make sure I work out, shave (down below) - trim my beard, shower, add some aftershave,  dress good (first impressions), turn up on time, be polite and put on the charm

Everything should be first.. I'm not paying several times and 'hope progression '

[Strawberry]

Sorry. Just to clarify “extras”. What I mean by that is do things differently. For example OW progessing to OWO. No kissing at first then progressing to kissing etc.

I hear the point other members have raised…mileage. The SP and client clicks at first sight (romantic, right) and things are done differently.

Which is why I make sure I work out, shave (down below) - trim my beard, shower, add some aftershave,  dress good (first impressions), turn up on time, be polite and put on the charm

Sounds like this varies depending in the SP, for me those services are available at the first booking. I either offer services or I don't. If I don't or can't offer something it's due to a hygiene issue, and I will explain this in the booking.

[belamy85]

As this thread is already showing, there's not going to be a definitive answer for this.

I once saw an SP who described me as a regular on my second visit. The two visits were at least six months apart.

On the other side of the coin I have a SP who I describe as a regular. I've been seeing her for the last 8-9 years but only once, at most twice, a year.

Then there was another girl I saw four times in about six months... and she still didn't remember me, or the fact I'd been before, on that fourth visit!

[Home Alone]

The official definition is two visits in any 8 month period.

Your status as `regular` lapses if there are no more visits during any 8 month period but can be reintstated if there is a subsequent a visit within the 6 months following the start of the lapsed period.

And where is this definition to be found, please, @bukowski?

Me; I prefer the Doc's comment in Reply #9 that it's possible to have a Regular after just one meeting. Personally, the SP who held my personal record for being the SP I saw most often was one with whom I'd had a fair bit of banter in arranging my first visit and just "clicked" on the first visit.

[Moby Dick]

Surely “regular” means regular, ie recurring at uniform intervals.

“arranged in or constituting a constant or definite pattern, especially with the same space between individual instances.”

The time between “events” is not so important as long as it is regular.

I am considered regular at the pub, but that is only once a week.
I get my haircut regularly - once per month
I shit regularly - once a day.

Some punters are more regular than others
I imagine they are favoured or resented most by SPs for being a frequent regular.

[tynetunnel]

I think that all changed after Brexit? There are also differences in Scotland

Alternative rules apply in Northern Ireland due to the soft border with the Irish Republic, and the trade border in the Irish Sea. Although not for members of clergy, for whom the English rules apply, except on a Sunday when the ‘Prince Andrew exemption’ is applicable

[Moby Dick]

Sorry. Just to clarify “extras”. What I mean by that is do things differently. For example OW progessing to OWO. No kissing at first then progressing to kissing etc.

I hear the point other members have raised…mileage. The SP and client clicks at first sight (romantic, right) and things are done differently.

Which is why I make sure I work out, shave (down below) - trim my beard, shower, add some aftershave,  dress good (first impressions), turn up on time, be polite and put on the charm

FFS - you will be confusing it with dating next. 

[southcoastpunter]

Surely “regular” means regular, ie recurring at uniform intervals.

The time between “events” is not so important as long as it is regular.

not so sure i agree with that. if i have seen someone 3 times in 3 years (with roughly even spacing) does that make me a "regular"?

I would say:
1) is this the punter who sees a WG considering himself a "regular" after a certain number of visits and intending to visit again ? -or is it
2) the WG considering a punter that sees her as a "regular"? ! and 2 may not be the same
3) who the hell cares anyway! it only makes a difference if the WG gives some advantage or better service to the punter or indeed the reverse - as there are punters who report a falling off in service levels with repeat visits. There will be so much variation as to be impossible to give any definitive response

Personally, if i find someone i like, i tend to stick with them. I had one WG (about 10 years ago now) that i saw every week (sometimes twice a week) for 3 years - probably could call her a "regular"!

[bristolnick]

I had a few regulars back in the day. Saw them several times a year. Most of them have since retired.

I would love to have a regular but there seems to be far less British working girls these days. Had a bad Rom experience about 10 years ago would rather not see them unless they have 100+ feedback

[Festa]

Bloody hell. Not famous starts so many of these what ifs going. In nearly 50 years of punting, I have only seen one escort more than twice. The fun is in ...the delight of the new experiences. The one, I saw five times started to take liberties. See as many different ones you can, some will be awful, but some will be bloody marvellous.

[JustaPunter]

I think you can be considered a regular after a few months of seeing the same escort a number of times a month.

I have been seeing the same escort pretty much on a weekly basis for over 18 mths.

I would consider myself to be her regular client.

[Malvolio]

Bloody hell. Not famous starts so many of these what ifs going. In nearly 50 years of punting, I have only seen one escort more than twice. The fun is in ...the delight of the new experiences. The one, I saw five times started to take liberties. See as many different ones you can, some will be awful, but some will be bloody marvellous.

Each to their own, but when I find a bloody marvellous one I'll be going back time and again.

[bukowski]

And where is this definition to be found, please, @bukowski?

got it from here External Link/Members Only


look under `General guidance for service contracts post Brexit`

[Home Alone]

got it from here External Link/Members Only


look under `General guidance for service contracts post Brexit`

Ah, thanks, bukowski; for one wonderful moment, I thought that HM Government had come up with a definition specifically related to SPs.

I should have realised that's only like to happen when the initials above refer to the middle - not the eldest - son of our late Queen!     (Allegedly, obvs!  )

[alabama1]

For me, a reg is someone you see over a period of time, in which a pattern develops. Maybe you see her once a week, month, or year.

[mikecee]

I used to go and see an SP in West Yorkshire 6 times a year for 5 years. Pretty sure she's retired now.

[Munter84]

Whether an SP considers you a regular or not is entirely subjective and entirely up to her  I'd also say it varies massively from client to client. At the risk of encouraging any fluffy/obsessive behaviour, I imagine an SP would sooner consider a pleasant, memorable repeat client a "regular" than the weird bloke who keeps booking her and angling for extras.

I would urge copious caution though if assuming "regular" status could, should, or ought to, lead to preferential treatment. At the end of the day it's a transaction between two consenting adults. By all means test the waters (don't ask, don't get) but being pushy or attempting to leverage your past (and presumed future) custom isn't classy. If SHE wants to see you off the clock, give you a discount, offer you services not on her Likes list, etc? Fill your boots.

[king tarzan]

Whether an SP considers you a regular or not is entirely subjective and entirely up to her  I'd also say it varies massively from client to client. At the risk of encouraging any fluffy/obsessive behaviour, I imagine an SP would sooner consider a pleasant, memorable repeat client a "regular" than the weird bloke who keeps booking her and angling for extras.

I would urge copious caution though if assuming "regular" status could, should, or ought to, lead to preferential treatment. At the end of the day it's a transaction between two consenting adults. By all means test the waters (don't ask, don't get) but being pushy or attempting to leverage your past (and presumed future) custom isn't classy. If SHE wants to see you off the clock, give you a discount, offer you services not on her Likes list, etc? Fill your boots.

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