Author Topic: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons  (Read 5358 times)

Offline Duchess Desire

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #25 on: July 09, 2013, 06:42:42 pm »
Then I would put a link to my profile. Maybe I am a bit narcisistic, but if i  :drinks: :drinks:would want to advertise I would promote a message like "Come fuck me" not "Come so I fuck your arse"!!!  :thumbsdown:

Offline fredpunter

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #26 on: July 09, 2013, 06:45:20 pm »
I've met two or three lasses who get a thrill out of being allowed to play with the punters bum. No harm letting them do something they enjoy occasionally.

Offline MancSean

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #27 on: July 09, 2013, 07:13:26 pm »
I have been rimmed on quite a few occasions and really enjoyed it.
Had one girl stick a finger up there whilst she sucked on my balls and wanked me off at the same time a couple of times. I never asked for it but it was ok mainly coz it seemed naughty. But I can't understand why a straight bloke would want to shagged up the bum with a strap on. Just seeks gay to me and can't see the difference between that and a real cock up there. My arse is off limits for anything phallus shaped plastic, rubber or the real thing I just think its weird and crossing the line. Girls don't have knobs in my world and should be the shaggee not the shagger

Offline fredpunter

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #28 on: July 09, 2013, 07:16:47 pm »
I have been rimmed on quite a few occasions and really enjoyed it.
Had one girl stick a finger up there whilst she sucked on my balls and wanked me off at the same time a couple of times. I never asked for it but it was ok mainly coz it seemed naughty. But I can't understand why a straight bloke would want to shagged up the bum with a strap on. Just seeks gay to me and can't see the difference between that and a real cock up there. My arse is off limits for anything phallus shaped plastic, rubber or the real thing I just think its weird and crossing the line. Girls don't have knobs in my world and should be the shaggee not the shagger

whether it's gay or straight depends entirely upon who you're doing it with, not what you're doing!

Online smiths

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #29 on: July 09, 2013, 07:25:31 pm »
I have been rimmed on quite a few occasions and really enjoyed it.
Had one girl stick a finger up there whilst she sucked on my balls and wanked me off at the same time a couple of times. I never asked for it but it was ok mainly coz it seemed naughty. But I can't understand why a straight bloke would want to shagged up the bum with a strap on. Just seeks gay to me and can't see the difference between that and a real cock up there. My arse is off limits for anything phallus shaped plastic, rubber or the real thing I just think its weird and crossing the line. Girls don't have knobs in my world and should be the shaggee not the shagger

The difference is a woman is using the Strap-On and not a man, now its an absolute fact thats not gay, as gay means same sex does it not. The fact you view the act as gay is up to you of course, in reality its got fuck all to do with being gay to me. Its got all to do with being fun and a laugh which is why i punt. I am also confident in my own sexuality, i dont feel the need to avoid doing things some others might think gay, i do what suits me.


Online smiths

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #30 on: July 09, 2013, 07:27:38 pm »
whether it's gay or straight depends entirely upon who you're doing it with, not what you're doing!

Indeed.

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #31 on: July 09, 2013, 08:36:27 pm »
Then I would put a link to my profile. Maybe I am a bit narcisistic, but if i  :drinks: :drinks:would want to advertise I would promote a message like "Come fuck me" not "Come so I fuck your arse"!!!  :thumbsdown:

You did! :crazy:

Offline Duchess Desire

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #32 on: July 09, 2013, 08:46:57 pm »
whether it's gay or straight depends entirely upon who you're doing it with, not what you're doing!
Most of the guys that enjoy things up there like to do it with a girl and would never do it with a man, so I dont think that is gay at all.
About those who try it with TS... I don`t know what to say... :unknown:

Offline NIK

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #33 on: July 09, 2013, 09:04:02 pm »
Totally agree with Smiths and Fredpunter on this. I like having my arse played with but have no gay tendencies whatsoever.
It did however take many years before I could take a full strap on. This was a few years ago with Mary of Annas Angels. It was an amazing mix of pleasure and pain, but ultimately I enjoyed it so much I asked Nicoletta to do it  me the next evening!
These are the only times I've had the 'full monty'.
After these experiences Pussycatnicole of Sheffield tried to do it on the only occasion I saw her but I couldn't take it!

Mind you there isn't much I wouldn't let Nicoletta do to me!  ;)

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #34 on: July 09, 2013, 09:06:34 pm »
Most of the guys that enjoy things up there like to do it with a girl and would never do it with a man, so I dont think that is gay at all.
About those who try it with TS... I don`t know what to say... :unknown:

Most genuine TS girls don't want to penetrate a guy, they want it the other way...

So yeah I'm not 'anal' about taking some bum fun from a girl although other than a surprise finger I've yet to try it. 


Offline Kram

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #35 on: July 09, 2013, 09:52:05 pm »
I don't see a wg fucking a guy with strap on or sticking his finger up his pooper as gay

If that's seen as a "gay" act then a punter putting any part of Him in a girls Gary must surely also be seen as a " gay" act

I'm am 100 % straight and secure enough in my sexuality but it doesn't appeal to me but then is also never say never

Offline Daffodil

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #36 on: July 09, 2013, 10:46:08 pm »
Pros: prostate-induced orgasms are apparantly mind-blowing

Cons: if your bumhole gets stretched too much or too often you can become incontinent.

The anal sphincter is muscle. You keep harping on about how use makes muscles stronger (in terms of frequently fucked vaginas being as tight/tighter than non-frequently fucked vaginas), but frequent use of the anal muscle makes it weaker?  :dash: Which is it?

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #37 on: July 09, 2013, 11:42:23 pm »
The anal sphincter is muscle. You keep harping on about how use makes muscles stronger (in terms of frequently fucked vaginas being as tight/tighter than non-frequently fucked vaginas), but frequent use of the anal muscle makes it weaker?  :dash: Which is it?

It's a completely different hole!!! :scare:

The vagina is a long, stretchy muscular tube, held up underneath by the perineal muscle (which is like a hammock in the shape of a figure of 8, roughly). If the vag gets exercise, and if the perineum is exercised regularly, it maintains it's natural shape and elasticity.

If you overstretch or tear the anal sphincter, it will NEVER be able to go back to normal. I DID NOT say "frequent use of the anal sphincter makes it weaker". Biologically, vaginas were designed to repeatedly receive, anuses weren't.

Offline Daffodil

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #38 on: July 09, 2013, 11:54:22 pm »
It's a completely different hole!!! :scare:

The vagina is a long, stretchy muscular tube, held up underneath by the perineal muscle (which is like a hammock in the shape of a figure of 8, roughly). If the vag gets exercise, and if the perineum is exercised regularly, it maintains it's natural shape and elasticity.

If you overstretch or tear the anal sphincter, it will NEVER be able to go back to normal. I DID NOT say "frequent use of the anal sphincter makes it weaker". Biologically, vaginas were designed to repeatedly receive, anuses weren't.

Bollocks again  :hi:

There are three types of muscle: skeletal, smooth, and cardiac. Obviously cardiac isn't involved here but, regardless, muscle acts as muscle. If muscle in one system can be stretched and damaged, then so can muscle in another.

You can't have your cake and eat it. Either vaginas and ani (plural?!) can be damaged, or they can't.

Let's face it, you have a vested interest to claim prossies pussies are as tight as civvies (even though your ex needed you to be bone dry just to touch the sides), so let's take your opinion on this matter with a large pinch of salt  :hi:

Offline Lz-129

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #39 on: July 09, 2013, 11:58:10 pm »
Bollocks again  :hi:

There are three types of muscle: skeletal, smooth, and cardiac. Obviously cardiac isn't involved here but, regardless, muscle acts as muscle. If muscle in one system can be stretched and damaged, then so can muscle in another.

You can't have your cake and eat it. Either vaginas and ani (plural?!) can be damaged, or they can't.

Let's face it, you have a vested interest to claim prossies pussies are as tight as civvies (even though your ex needed you to be bone dry just to touch the sides), so let's take your opinion on this matter with a large pinch of salt  :hi:

Not sure it is, I've heard of porn stars that have their arses stitched up after a lifetime of anal, while the vagina is designed to be stretched obviously so it can give birth, 2 totally different things

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #40 on: July 10, 2013, 12:06:05 am »
Bollocks again  :hi:

There are three types of muscle: skeletal, smooth, and cardiac. Obviously cardiac isn't involved here but, regardless, muscle acts as muscle. If muscle in one system can be stretched and damaged, then so can muscle in another.

You can't have your cake and eat it. Either vaginas and ani (plural?!) can be damaged, or they can't.

Let's face it, you have a vested interest to claim prossies pussies are as tight as civvies (even though your ex needed you to be bone dry just to touch the sides), so let's take your opinion on this matter with a large pinch of salt  :hi:

I never said a vaginal muscle CAN'T be damaged, obviously it CAN, otherwise some ladies wouldn't suffer prolapses and other delightful medical problems from being a childbearing being.

If you shove a baseball bat up a vagina, that will go back to "normal" easily, quickly, and far less likely to have to have surgery than if you shove a baseball bat up an arse. Biology.

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #41 on: July 10, 2013, 12:06:46 am »
Not sure it is, I've heard of porn stars that have their arses stitched up after a lifetime of anal, while the vagina is designed to be stretched obviously so it can give birth, 2 totally different things

+1 : cross posted.

Offline Daffodil

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #42 on: July 10, 2013, 12:10:47 am »
Not sure it is, I've heard of porn stars that have their arses stitched up after a lifetime of anal, while the vagina is designed to be stretched obviously so it can give birth, 2 totally different things

They're not totally different things, they're both muscular structures. Yes, the anus is more likely to be damaged, but so can the vagina. The more often it is used, or the larger the 'penetrator' the more likely this is, for both.

The vagina stretches far more than normal during childbirth due to hormonal release during pregnancy and labour.

CTG claimed the prossie vagina may actually be tighter due to more frequent 'exercise', therefore she should apply the same logic to all muscle  :hi:

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #43 on: July 10, 2013, 12:19:05 am »

CTG claimed the prossie vagina may actually be tighter due to more frequent 'exercise', therefore she should apply the same logic to all muscle  :hi:

SO you really can't see the fundimental difference between a vagina that takes cock (biologically normal, no sphincter, designed to receive and and stretch to the size of a grapefruit during childbirth) and a rectum that takes cock (biologically ABnormal, sphincter that is vulnerable to tearing, designed to expel and stretch to the size or a turd during bowel movement)?


Offline Lz-129

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #44 on: July 10, 2013, 12:25:07 am »
I dunno, I thought this was basic common knowledge, we was taught something about this at school but can't remember precisely what was said

Anyway, my mrs told me about pelvic exercises but she won't let me anywhere near it to try let alone her arse so I've got no real experience

Online aardvark

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #45 on: July 10, 2013, 01:30:05 am »
So who's (should that be whose???? Can one of the grammar nazis advise please) fault is it that this thread has derailed from the potential delight of better orgasms through bum fun, to prolapses, tears and turds??

Offline Daffodil

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #46 on: July 10, 2013, 06:26:44 am »
SO you really can't see the fundimental difference between a vagina that takes cock (biologically normal, no sphincter, designed to receive and and stretch to the size of a grapefruit during childbirth) and a rectum that takes cock (biologically ABnormal, sphincter that is vulnerable to tearing, designed to expel and stretch to the size or a turd during bowel movement)?

Another stupid post  :hi:

Vaginal tears can, and do, occur during labour. Try googling it. The tears come in all shapes and sizes (grade 1 through to 4). Regardless, labour is a specific event where the vagina relaxes much more than usual due to hormonal release. And even then it tears. And have you never heard of vaginal prolapse? If you haven't yet, I have a feeling you will  :hi:

I'm not saying the anus can't be damaged. I'm not even saying its as likely to be damaged a a vagina, and certainly not less so. What I'm saying is that both can be damaged by repeated use and/or the insertion (or expulsion) of large objects.

I don't think it's that hard to understand  :hi:


Offline Lz-129

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #47 on: July 10, 2013, 08:03:59 am »
What I'm saying is that both can be damaged by repeated use and/or the insertion (or expulsion) of large objects.


Yes agreed, but to an arse a cock is a large object and as is a baby's head to a fanny :)

Offline Duchess Desire

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #48 on: July 10, 2013, 08:10:53 am »
Not to talk about fist...and some girls have BIG hands =))

Offline Duchess Desire

Re: Prostate massage and Strap-on. Pros and Cons
« Reply #49 on: July 10, 2013, 08:14:47 am »
Anyway...IMO best feeling for guys, depending how tight they are is with 1-2 figers up there, because generally is not about girth or low long the  thing insert it, but about touching the spot  ( this excludes guys with greedy ass, that have been doing this long time and on a regular basis; and believe me, man can be so GREEDY)