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miyagi

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I had a punt recently where I booked for 30 mins and ended up cumin in under 5 mins into the booking when I was getting a blow...felt so embarassed...maybe my cock is sensitive and i cum so quick or it could be nerves...i want your advice as to what i can use - like lotions or sprays that could at least delay me cumin at least 10 mins, what do experienced punters recommend?

tonysoprano

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Have a wank an hour or 2 before you go.

miyagi

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I dont think that will help that much...i even used External Link/Members Only about 1,5 hours before the booking but that never worked like people make it out to work

Having a wank wont help much i need a better lotion or something to delay at least for 10 mins into sex


Have a wank an hour or 2 before you go.

Sparquin

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Suggest asking her to suck your balls and limit tongue work to the shaft for a bit.  Remember that from her perspective getting you off quickly makes her life easier

miyagi

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She had my balls in her mouth to start and she was doing the shaft like you said then upwards...i feel really disappointed i came so quick  :dash:

What am I supposed to do say when I book for 1hr or maybe 90mins booking...if i end up coming just from a blow job in under 2 mins even before anything else happens

do you know what lotions male pornstars use they go on for ages...surely what they use is available from shops to buy?

Suggest asking her to suck your balls and limit tongue work to the shaft for a bit.  Remember that from her perspective getting you off quickly makes her life easier
« Last Edit: September 10, 2014, 01:57:03 am by miyagi »

Salt

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I dont think that will help that much...i even used External Link/Members Only about 1,5 hours before the booking but that never worked like people make it out to work

Having a wank wont help much i need a better lotion or something to delay at least for 10 mins into sex

Have 2 wanks then......  :hi:

Sometimes a good hard nipple tweek can help as well.....

Otherwise tell her to stop for a while........

In  terms of training you may want to try wanking for 30 min without cumming.....


Toshiba

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Its happened to many, me included

Experience will help, try not going for the money shot straight away, get her to go slow

The devious girls aim to get you off quick, so go at your pace

Offline sublimetoridiculous

Yes, choose your WGs with care and don't be afraid to tell them that you come too soon. And ask them to pace things accordingly.

I've found that works for me.

JV547845

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I had a punt recently where I booked for 30 mins and ended up cumin in under 5 mins into the booking when I was getting a blow...felt so embarassed...maybe my cock is sensitive and i cum so quick or it could be nerves...i want your advice as to what i can use - like lotions or sprays that could at least delay me cumin at least 10 mins, what do experienced punters recommend?

I'd quite like that but I get hard again quite quickly.  You could just save the BJ for the end of the booking OP.  Get her ready for sex some other way.  Who is this girl anyway - sometimes a women is an expert edger, other times over the top porn star gagging style blow jobs actually make me a bit numb and I last a long while afterwards.  It sounds to me like she knows what she's doing and just assumed you wanted to cum fast.

Offline akauya

Miyagi, I think you are worrying unnecessarily. Coming in 5 minutes is not considered premature ejaculation and you shouldn't let it be a problem. I'm assuming from your posts that you are a one pop punter. Otherwise coming in 5 minutes would be great so that you can rest for 10/15 minutes and then have another go in your remaining time. Have you thought of taking viagra or similar and go for a second pop?

I agree with other posters though that it helps when you choose the right prossie. If I were you I wouldn't start with any penile stimulation whatsoever, why don't you ask the prossie to give you a massage first or you give her a massage and then start oral or sex when you're ready.

Remember you are buying the time and service so you make sure you tell them what you want from it.

Oh and for goodness' sake don't compare yourself to male porn stars. If they are not a different breed the fact that they cut between scenes gives the impression that they can last forever. Don't try to copy porn!

Lastly don't worry about it, it's not the end of the world. Going to a punt feeling anxious is bound to make you feel worse as it will become a vicious circle.  Treat the punt as a whole experience not just the orgasm, and really don't worry about it, coming in 5 minutes is great.


miyagi

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O.k will do....but not happy I could barley last at all, I am booking for 90 mins next time which is why I want some lotion to delay me coming or i might have a wank an hour before and see if that helps?


Its happened to many, me included

Experience will help, try not going for the money shot straight away, get her to go slow

The devious girls aim to get you off quick, so go at your pace

miyagi

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it was amy - ex ss and i apolgised because i felt so embarrased
I'd quite like that but I get hard again quite quickly.  You could just save the BJ for the end of the booking OP.  Get her ready for sex some other way.  Who is this girl anyway - sometimes a women is an expert edger, other times over the top porn star gagging style blow jobs actually make me a bit numb and I last a long while afterwards.  It sounds to me like she knows what she's doing and just assumed you wanted to cum fast.

miyagi

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ive booked a 90 min booking with someone which includes anal for 150ph...how do you suggest from your experience I go about this - i fear that I will come early again though :(

I will start with sex from the word go instead of blow job and just ask the lady to empty my take in the 90 mins and keep shagging until the 90 mins is up

im driving 80 miles one way to see this lady so thats why its a 90min booking

how does viagra work does it delay or just keep you hard - never used it

cockneybstrd

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You could always try smoking a joint or two if you want to delay cumming quick

miyagi

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Lets hope the priligy pills work and dont give me any side effects,  but they have to be prescribed by a doctor though?  I would feel safer buying it from boots if they sold it as i know its certified and not possibly fake or dodgy from an online store where you could maybe end up with serious complications...like you read in the papers, as ive been typing this ive found superdrug sell priligy for £28 for 3 tablets

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I will check up reviews on priligy £27 for 3 tablets is very expensive though, the problem I have is....

We start, foreplay. She touches my dick and ballsack, get hard as a baseball bat, rubbing each others bodies, im already feeling that insane pleasure on my cock, dificult to hold my cum inside and orgasm. She touches it with her fingers/mouth/or I stick it inside, and it's bursting time.

If I do little foreplay, maybe I can last like 4 or 5 pelvic thrusts before I feel like exploding, im paying 150 for the punt so i want to last...and have sex for the 90 mins, i have a few days to find a solution before my next punt, I have increased sensitivity triggering an orgasm sooner than I would like.




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« Last Edit: September 10, 2014, 09:53:25 am by miyagi »

fredpunter

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I had a punt recently where I booked for 30 mins and ended up cumin in under 5 mins into the booking when I was getting a blow...felt so embarassed...maybe my cock is sensitive and i cum so quick or it could be nerves...i want your advice as to what i can use - like lotions or sprays that could at least delay me cumin at least 10 mins, what do experienced punters recommend?

Just wait 30 years, it will cease to be a problem

touch.and.go

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Get her to play with herself first
Use an extra thick condom
Think of the most horrible thing you can as soon as you start to feel the pressure building.
Viagra etc are meant to delay ejaculation

miyagi

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some good ideas...im going to try those priligy pills and maybe viagra as well and see if that helps, when i use I'm going to try

Tauros Extra Strong delay spray on a a solo session (wank). Normally I get myself off within 2 mins or sometimes less but with this stuff i shall see, it has some good reviews as well

Viagra is that not for a rock hard erection and not for ejaculation?

Get her to play with herself first
Use an extra thick condom
Think of the most horrible thing you can as soon as you start to feel the pressure building.
Viagra etc are meant to delay ejaculation

JV547845

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ive booked a 90 min booking with someone which includes anal for 150ph...how do you suggest from your experience I go about this - i fear that I will come early again though :(

First of all you want to stop getting so worried about it like a fucking idiot and just have fun - currently you're a sex medicine snake oil salesman's wet dream.  Cumming early is not a big deal.  Tell the WG  what you want and what you expect - shagging away for 90 minutes solid is unrealistic unless you've found a real diamond of a WG who'd love to take your artless rutting for that long and deal with your immaturity.  An older WG might be less tight so you'd last for longer but I've been with Milfs who I'd have bet a grand that a child couldn't possibly have come out of, because they clamped me so hard.  Learn how to edge when wanking, then use a sex position where you control the thrusting.  If you feel yourself about to come then stop and change positions.  As for anal.  I wouldn't really worry about trying anal yet until you've started enjoying normal sex properly.  Otherwise congratulations you have the same exact problem with a different orifice.  But if you're really going to have a go at anal then lube, lube, lube, she'll have prepared a bit if you'e told her you want it.  Maybe play with her pussy for a bit first, go down on her, normal foreplay stuff.  Then when it's bum time, start off slowly with a finger or tongue for a while (might not be necessary) then when she says she's ready and you're good and hard, lube lube lube, and try sticking it in.  Good luck.

vt

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Just wait 30 years, it will cease to be a problem

Not even that long, I'm just over 40 and struggle to cum sometimes, especially with condoms. I did a 2hr Party last month, got blown and fucked by half a dozen girls and only came in the last 10 mins when I took measures into my own hands with 2 girls kissing and stroking me...phew that was close!!  :D

This month I did better and came around the 75 min mark fucking nubile hottie Pam. I never was a really quick cummer in my youth though.

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« Last Edit: September 10, 2014, 10:21:27 am by vt »

Offline mcb

Think Margaret Thatcher on a cold day.



In all seriousness, I come quicker more times than I don’t. I had a punt a little while back with Tamara Grace and went a good while in 69 but I believe that was more her doing than mind: she seemed to know exactly when I was about to cum and would move to sucking and licking my balls, then go back to the shaft. It was absolutely amazing and the best blow job I’ve had.

Unfortunately when she then straddled me for sex I came within a couple of minutes. She was (still) tight and has quite the rack.

Offline AnthG

Lets hope the priligy pills work and dont give me any side effects, 

If you are going down the Priligy route my strong advice would be to try a tablet over the weekend when you are not planning a punt first. I tried a tablet and all I can say is thank god I never popped one before a punt. The side effects for me were major.

All priligy is, is a high dose rapidly acting SSRI antidepressant. You could literally just go do your GP and say you are feeling depressed and be given a regular SSRI for free on the NHS for the same effect.

Personally though my advice would be to try some delay sprays the numb the area.
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Offline anyfucker

Lets hope the priligy pills work and dont give me any side effects,  ...

I will check up reviews on priligy £27 for 3 tablets is very expensive though, the problem I have is....
...

prilogy (dapoxetine) works, it is a genuine medicine made by large pharma co, with double bind proven tests.
I considered it as my dick seems to have mind of its own, sometimes i come very quickly and other times not at all even with the same WG.
In the end i didn't try it just enjoy the fun of not knowing what's going to happen on a punt.
It works by blocking something (don't remember what) so it will not work for all causes of PE, just like a punt your mileage may vary.

At £9 a pill, if it works for you it is a bargain compared to the price of a punt.
If your problem is mental then three pills might well give you the confidence, if not then £27 is way less than the cost of a punt.

i wouldn't recommend any of the delay sprays as your "date" may well be able to taste them, if they have good taste/smell.

Online billyjo

I have tried the super p force tablets before and although they leave you hard as a rock and cumming almost impossible I wouldn't take them again as they cause pretty bad migraines.  Try having a few wanks before your meet and it should help prevent premature ejaculation.

Offline Watts.E.Dunn

Really your only doing what mutter nature intended for you to do, get in, deliver the "goods" as quickly as possible then get out onto the next one .

She's a reall bitch is she. I've had this cum quick problem, even these older days one pop a punt but could do it within a miniute if required have to be BB 'tho so not happening with a WG.

Still the average sexual exchange is what some 10 mins or less;?.

Offline CBPaul

Don't worry about it OP, no need to be embarrassed and no need to apologize to the prossie.

If I book 30 mins I usually have a wank an hour of so beforehand. Otherwise book longer and make sure you won't be limited to one cum.

As for porn, don't believe all you see. I doubt they use creams, just a good dose of viagra and some judicious editing.

InstaPunt

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I had a punt recently where I booked for 30 mins and ended up cumin in under 5 mins into the booking when I was getting a blow...felt so embarassed...maybe my cock is sensitive and i cum so quick or it could be nerves...i want your advice as to what i can use - like lotions or sprays that could at least delay me cumin at least 10 mins, what do experienced punters recommend?
For this you need a girl who is good at foreplay. But when you feel like cumming, turn the attention to something else eg French kissing, finger her, kiss her body etc, or tell her you like having you stomach and chest licked and kissed etc and ask her to do that for a bit.

Offline ampersand

Cum as quickly as you can and then wipe the smile off her face by winding up for a second pop (or third if you are staying for 90 minutes).

Sparquin

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Think Margaret Thatcher on a cold day.
Nooo, her nipples would be erect!

I find Viagra does delay but also makes for a less intense pop. A spliff will defo do the trick but it will vary a bit depending on what weed you are smoking. Mind you, will still be nicely high afterwards.

Finally I suggest you agree a 'safe word' that you utter when you feel close and do not want to go over the top: better than saying "stop".  Think of something amusing to use to defuse the moment. Good luck.
 


Offline house music dave

Cum as quickly as you can and then wipe the smile off her face by winding up for a second pop (or third if you are staying for 90 minutes).

+ 1

You have to be in control of the punt.

Better you cum earlyish and go for round 2, don't sweat it the time is yours, it's not about showing off your sexual prowess it's about you maximising your enjoyment.

 

JV547845

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Nooo, her nipples would be erect!

I find Viagra does delay but also makes for a less intense pop. A spliff will defo do the trick but it will vary a bit depending on what weed you are smoking. Mind you, will still be nicely high afterwards.

Finally I suggest you agree a 'safe word' that you utter when you feel close and do not want to go over the top: better than saying "stop".  Think of something amusing to use to defuse the moment. Good luck.

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Offline Turtle1

Have a wank just before you leave your place. If you turn around and say that wont work then ill say then simply pop twice with the girl. if she dont let you pop twice then find a better girl.

Offline rikgrimsby

you can train your muscles so you dont cum fast. when you wee in full flow hold the wee back for as long or 5-10secounds then start again. 

James999

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I had a punt recently where I booked for 30 mins and ended up cumin in under 5 mins into the booking when I was getting a blow..

Book the older / bbw beasts that advertise on AW, you will be lucky of you can get a hard on then, let alone blow your wad quickly  :crazy:


broksonic

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I wish I could cum via a blowjob.     :unknown:

Cum via a handjob or sex 

Offline riskytimes

just as you are about to cum think of your missus bursting in to the room whilst the WG has your cock in her mouth that will delay your actions !!!!!

Offline riskytimes

think of janet street porter fixing her gnassers round your bell end that will stop you cumming quick !!!!!

Offline SamLP

I wish I could cum via a blowjob.     :unknown:

Cum via a handjob or sex

Only a select few WG's have been able to made me cum with a BJ. I prefer to cum during sex anyway but I know the feeling, there are times when I'm feeling lazy and want to be sucked dry at least for the first pop, but it just won't happen.

touch.and.go

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Offline Marshall85

If you cover your cock in de-sensitising spray, wont the WG's mouth go numb as well? :lol:

That might put an end to any banal chit chat at least.  :P

Offline blue

I've tried Priligy tablets, however, they failed me which is why I tend to book short sessions. Why don't you make shorter bookings until you learn to control yourself.

jack_walsh

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Good post and good luck. I'm guessing you're still quite young, probably under 30. I had exactly the same problem when I became more sexually active. I worked out it was cos of all the wanking off to internet porn. My cock was basically only used to my left hand giving it a good rub out. Once it came near or entered any actual fanny then that mother nature thing kicked in less than ten strokes later it was over. Tried all the creams, muscle strengthening, delay condoms, early wank off, red bull, etc. but none of them worked effectively or consistently. Best was when I stayed off the porn for a few weeks then sex was always better. The more I stayed off the porn/wanking habit then gradually my timings improved. It's never going to be like porn, that's just fake, so I lowered my expectations. Too much foreplay is also not good for me. 

Weirdly last year I fell ill and started taking anti-depressants. After a few weeks on them I could last for ages and somtimes not cum at all. A very strange feeling, knackering and frustrating at the same time.  Not ideal in my experience.  I'm still not a two pop person, that's something I'd love to crack. One step at a time though.

I hope some of this helps. Main thing is don't be hard on yourself, or embarrassed, or apologetic. Think of it like fitness training. There are no quick fixes and it will take time and some work to get results. And some of it is in the mind. Be realistic with your goals. Stop wanking.

Offline pilgrim

If you cover your cock in de-sensitising spray, wont the WG's mouth go numb as well? :lol:

If you use the spray 15 - 30 minutes beforehand, this lets the spray have an effect on your cock, and then shower at the start of the punt.

I have posted before that a lass was eager to give me OWO and her mouth went numb.  So now I spray well before and shower before the punt.

Offline myothernameis

I had a punt recently where I booked for 30 mins and ended up cumin in under 5 mins into the booking when I was getting a blow...felt so embarassed...maybe my cock is sensitive and i cum so quick or it could be nerves...i want your advice as to what i can use - like lotions or sprays that could at least delay me cumin at least 10 mins, what do experienced punters recommend?

Do some kegel exercises, at least once a day, and if you don't know how to do them, search the web


Offline myothernameis

Good post and good luck. I'm guessing you're still quite young, probably under 30. I had exactly the same problem when I became more sexually active. . And some of it is in the mind. Be realistic with your goals. Stop wanking.

Im in my 50's and I will come with in 3-5 mins, I can feel my self coming especially when the escort is giving me oral, and just before I come, I tell here to stop, so I don't come

The escort will ask me if Im ready for sex, not yet, as my penis is still sensitive, even when I go down on the escort, and erect, there that slight sensation in my penis, it feels like I will come at the slightest motion


Ben4454

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I wish I could cum a bit quicker. Takes me at least 30 minutes to blow my load from a BJ and thats with a weeks abstinence!

I think the last time I punted it took me an hour and 20 minutes of non stop sex before I bolted. I think I lost 3 stone in the process.

Anyway OP to get to your question.. you could try not moving your ass-cheeks so much and keep them planted to the ground. Theres a  technique I do where I stop just before I am about to orgasm and it makes me give the girl a facial but I do not orgasm.. which means I can keep going.. if you stop and time it right makes you last longer. I cannot pin point exactly what I do but I move some inner muscle and stops me climaxing.
« Last Edit: October 01, 2014, 04:04:40 am by Ben4454 »

richie

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I'd suggest amitop which comes in hell form over the counter. It's a local anaesthetic so you don't need to feel embarrassed about asking for it.

Just make sure it's all cleaned off before you stick your knob in her or she won't be amused ;)