Why do you punt guys?

[Baz Vegas Bob]

I wonder how many mates of posters are thinking the same thing though . . .

I suspect more than we would guess.

But doesnt it highlight that shagging a 21yr old minx is only something to be proud of if you actually pulled her rather than paying for her. At best, its nice to be reminded of the feeling of a 21yr old cunt around one's cock and a pretty face smiling (hopefully!)

I am in my mid 40's so trying to pull a 21 year old would seem to me, her and the rest of the world that I am a dirty old man. Paying a 21 year old prossie absolves my responsibilities. 

[mh]

I am relatively new to punting - nearly a year: 30plus girls, 50plus punts.
For me, when I started, it was a combination of reasons.
1) I watched a lot of porn and thought I want to do that. I want my wife to do that....she wasn't interested and was perfectly happy with the way things were. We still have Sex regularly and both enjoy it, but it is not adventurous enough for me....same old positions and just not fulfilling enough.
2) I would never leave my Wife. I love her too much. I would never have an affair, that would hurt her too much and I don't want that....if she found out about my 'hobby' that would be 'Game over' for our marriage and rightly so, as whilst I don't agree with her views on not having multiple partners, I do respect her view on it. Punting gives me the chance to fulfil my fantasies and I am a far happier person because of it.
So, originally, I justified it on those grounds.
However, the more I have thought about it, the more I have changed my thoughts slightly.
1+ 2 are still relevant, but I would now add...
3) Men are programmed to go and 'sow their seed'....all my life I have looked at Hot Girls. Photos, TV, real life in the street, all the time looking and wondering...what is she like in Bed? Oh I'd love to spend an hour with her etc....you can't help those feelings can you?
Punting gives me and you the chance to act out those thoughts....the thoughts I have always had, and that I believe are naturally occurring Male thoughts.
Marriage has been created by Religion.....and provides Rules and protection socially which is no bad thing, but I can't help feeling that it is not a natural thing to be Sexually tied to one person.
That is all !

Well put - sums up my own position very well (except the regularity of sex at home!).

[Rochdull lad]

I am in my mid 40's so trying to pull a 21 year old would seem to me, her and the rest of the world that I am a dirty old man. Paying a 21 year old prossie absolves my responsibilities.

And I'm in my mid- to late-60s, so pulling a woman in her late-30s/early-40s might seem to the world similarly.  I see punting a MILF as allowing  me to shag a more attractive woman than my long-standing friends of similar ages do in their marriages/relationships.

[mikevanman]

I have been Married for twenty years and we seem to manage it at least once possibly twice a week at home. So punting for me is not just about the sex.  for me its the basic male animal thing I suppose, wanting someone and having that one. Ok slightly different in that it comes out of my pocket, however that is probably cheaper in the scheme of things, if you take a night out for example. I dont have a type, pretty much had the full range of colour/build blah blah. and I probably am not much to look at. 

[Niblickiss]

Married for 30 years to a lovely woman who has little or no interest in a sex life regardless of attempts at counselling, toys, etc. So two years ago I found AW, found an escort just off the M3 and stopped on the way home for an hour of sexual fun! Wish I had started years before - great sex, conversation (believe it or not) and no comeback. Most escorts appear to like their time with me which is a bonus 

[Marmalade]

Hot hard cocks are best in warm wet willing pussies.

Rest is, well, details!

[robs one]

Because I can rent an Aston Martin for an hour or two, but can only afford to buy a Ford Focus. And whilst I love my "Ford Focus" I do like to test drive sexy new models that are out of my league

unfortunately  I have the opposite problem that is I brought an Aston Martin but much prefer a Ford focus as they are more fun to drive and you can do anything you want with then without it costing a fortune 

[Gatts]

Altought me and my gf of 5 years still have sex about one a week on average, things are a little boring, its either me on top or her on top, anything else like doggy she either doesnt enjoy or feels uncomfortable. She has no interest in trying anything new, and we would never have sex if I did not suggest it.

I'm not out to try a load of wild things with a WG but having something new and something with more energy is nice, sex with a WG is more like porn sex, but gf doesnt wathc porn nor does she like me watching (I still do and have told her I will alwasy do), so her being able to perform like a porn actress is never going to happen.

Also at the same time I wish my gf could see a thread like this (without my reply in it ofc) so she could see how many guys actually do stuff like this even though they have wifes/girlfriends, I'd feel like it would make her make more of an effort. But then again even if the effort was made to please me, I'm not sure I'd be 100% happy if she wasnt enjoying it and was only making more effort just for me.

[xyfek]

Interesting thread!

Similarly to other fellow punters, I no longer have the energy, the time or the patience to play the "dating game". Especially when I'm well aware that, in my case, it generally leads to either a) rejection, because the girl is way out of my league, or b) a relationship that I never wanted to be in with some uninteresting and unattractive chick.

I never really had the looks or the charm to pull the twenty-something year old hotties that I lust for, so punting is really the only alternative I have to appease that deadly sin. It is a convenient, and generally hassle-free, way of getting all the sex that I need, mostly with girls that wouldn't give me the time of day in the civvy world!

It's really hard to quit such a "hobby", especially after so many good punts (I've been quite lucky in that respect). I haven't had a proper relationship for a few years, and I'm not really looking for one anymore. Punting works for me!

[mh]

Altought me and my gf of 5 years still have sex about one a week on average, things are a little boring, its either me on top or her on top, anything else like doggy she either doesnt enjoy or feels uncomfortable. She has no interest in trying anything new, and we would never have sex if I did not suggest it.

I'm not out to try a load of wild things with a WG but having something new and something with more energy is nice, sex with a WG is more like porn sex, but gf doesnt wathc porn nor does she like me watching (I still do and have told her I will alwasy do), so her being able to perform like a porn actress is never going to happen.

I wish suggesting having sex to my wife had any effect other than eliciting the response "No". 

[dilettante]

I do it as a devout Christian in order to follow the precepts of the Bible - "It is not good for man to be alone" ...

... only kidding and do I fuck:- open to offers but I attract little interest from women and have a good hard stiff dick and some disposible income, the above is true insofar as if you save yourself up and abstain too much somebody else will enjoy it for you so as a matter of principle make sure you look after Number One first.

[Melb]

Hot hard cocks are best in warm wet willing pussies.

Or hamsters.

[jay0707]

I punt because I'm young and have no commitment, nor do I want any yet. Without tooting my own horn, I am an attractive young male and have never really had any trouble getting with women, but it seems half the women around my age (22) are inexperienced or they aren't as flexible as to what they enjoy as sex workers are. Most women my age all seems to want to rushy into a relationship anyway, it's not for me at all yet.

Ultimately I prefer escorts because I selectively choose someone who caters for me in the bedroom, there's no strings attached and some of them are down right filthy. Age also, if I want to fuck someone my age I can find them on AW or someone 10 years older I can. I think the shopping for women does it for me to be fair.

[aerofan5]

I started in my late teens, because I fancied my mates Mums, and 35-40 year olds were not up for grabs back then, but WG's were all around that age.

50+ years on and I still think 35-40 year olds are drop dead gorgeous, and I have had some fantastic shags on the journey.

[Minder]

I guess one day we look over to our mrs after 25 years of marriage, and the pretty flower we married doesn't look like a pretty flower any more  , obv a 2 way street, and she will feel we are no longer handsome guy she married 

and as standard guys have higher sex drive so if we cant get at home we will wonder

[JV547845]

Dead thread. Let it die.  Start a new one if you're still interested.

[Daffodil]

Dead thread. Let it die.  Start a new one if you're still interested.

 

Whilst other punters will berate somebody for starting a new thread on subjects that have been done before.

What is "dead"? A day? A week? A month? A year? And why should your definition, given that admin has not defined it and there is no forum-wide consensus, mean anything at all? When did you become a moderator?

Just let discussion occur, be it a new thread or by bumping an old one 

[JV547845]

Whilst other punters will berate somebody for starting a new thread on subjects that have been done before.

What is "dead"? A day? A week? A month? A year? And why should your definition, given that admin has not defined it and there is no forum-wide consensus, mean anything at all? When did you become a moderator?

Just let discussion occur, be it a new thread or by bumping an old one 

I'm sorry did I make you angry?  It's dead because nobody wants to read 9 pages of posts that they can't reply directly to anymore because they're over a year old.

[Daffodil]

I'm sorry did I make you angry?  It's dead because nobody wants to read 9 pages of posts that they can't reply directly to anymore because they're over a year old.

Yeh, it pisses me off. It discourages discussion.

You claim it's dead, that's your opinion. When did your definition become sacrosanct? Other cleverdicks will tell him to not start new threads because it's been done before.

You might not want to read nine pages, but others, with an interest in this, might.

And if you're not interested, just don't fucking post 

[yorkshire123]

I'm sorry did I make you angry?  It's dead because nobody wants to read 9 pages of posts that they can't reply directly to anymore because they're over a year old.

I quite like reading some of the older threads that i would never see, normally these are brought back to life by newer members with the best intention.

[essexmat]

Being early 40s and overweight and in a relationship where sex is something of a novelty these days I can pay my £60-100 which is less than going for a meal or a day out with travel and shoot my load (covered for penetration although I do like owo) with some 18-21 year old I would never have a chance in hell of pulling and then simply leave with the memory of it and my balls drained. Being early 40s being inside a younger girl with a decent body and firm tits is something I lust after so for the price I pay I am happy to do so

[Cornish sub]

I'm sorry did I make you angry?  It's dead because nobody wants to read 9 pages of posts that they can't reply directly to anymore because they're over a year old.

Well clearly you're not one of them as you're still reading and replying directly to posts. How about the 'Cunts' and 'Suspected Adultwork Scams' threads, are you going on those to impose your self appointed moderation and suggest they're dead too? After all, both of them have been running for significantly more pages than this thread. If so, I really look forward to your warm reception. 

[vt]

Mid-life crisis for me, trying to recapture a lost youth...and it's so bloody addictive getting to have your wicked way with all those young firm-fleshed responsive hotties...never had an OWO to completion let alone a moresome until punting...and the look of shock & pleasure on their faces when you manage to get them off, which I'm getting a lot better at now with all the practice!! 

I just love the variety and the sex! 

[Turtle1]

I have no idea why i punt. i think im messed in the head. its like a drug to me. Im still 6 months away from hitting 30. Im confident and look after my self really well. hit the gym 2 or 3  times a week for over 10 years. Iv had plenty of steady relationships, i have no trouble finding a GF, i have a decent job as a graphics designer.  but i just don't know why i punt. i get what i need and i even have sex buddies but i end up spending thousands a year punting. Maybe i need help.

How it all started, i broke up with an ex at uni, a friend of mine took me out clubbing to pull chicks and get over it. i wasnt into it and spent the night sitting down. though id spent well over £100 on drinks for girls. We left early and he walks to this road and says follow me. turns out to be a parlor. I was soo angry and was shouting at him ( i was a tad bit drunk ) that i wont fuck a hooker and that he's an asshole........20 min later after iv shagged my first WG we are outside having a ciggie and laughing. He explaind the £100 you spend trying to get your leg over a slag in a night club is better spent on a decent WG who wont be sick on you. and thats what started my fire.

[wristjob]

Considering all the crap in the news nowadays you can have a one night stand or affair and get accused of rape or whatever - punting is less risky. Not why I punt but it does put me off some casual situations.

[unclesweetheart]

I punt because I'm rather dominant in my sexual preferences and have always been afraid of it. Consequently I have always been pretty shit at sex, unless it's been with really dirty women/girls who, dumbly, I thought were fucked up themselves for wanting – demanding - quite hard, full-on sex. Meeting escorts has allowed my inner pervert to come out from hiding, and apart from acting out fantasies it's been great to talk to the girls about what turns them on etc etc between rounds one and two. I now get it that many women really like PSE type sex and that Woody Allen was right when he answered the question “Is sex dirty” with “if it's done properly, yes.” Plus, of course, I've always fancied beautiful women who were out of my league and punting allows me to Live The Dream. It also allows me to get in some practice re: finding out what turns women on. As I said on another thread, all this has built up my sexual self-confidence to the point where I can now have great, dirty sex in real life (well, at least once a couple of days ago, maybe not a pattern to be repeated...). The fear is that it's addictive and my early-retirement lump sum will end up being spunked over beautiful women the length and breadth of the South. Which, come to think of it, isn't such a dreadful thought, really.

[Happyjose]

I punt for the same reason a dog licks its balls - because I can

Though obviously I can't lick my own balls. If I could it would probably be a game changer

[MrFloppy]

For a million reasons but mainly because my wife won't take it in the ass or gag on my cock

[socks]

For a million reasons but mainly because my wife won't take it in the ass or gag on my cock

Makes you wonder how they have the cheek to join the recital of the marital vows, when we and they know they are going to renege on their end of the bargain. Mr Floppy's post is no doubt a plight mirrored in millions of homes up and down the country.

[Marmalade]

I know why I do it, and get asked the question all the time, but I've never quite had the balls to ask a client why he visits me.

More a case of why not . . .!

[gamelghari]

My wife shut up shop aged 43  .... 21 years ago. No social conscience whatsoever leaving me high and dry without any relief. In that respect I find Thai girls so very helpful, for a few quid plus a tip, and they don't moan about all and sundry before, after and during.
If I could go back in time I'd be making more than a few changes to my life.  Word of advice: keep your private life separate from your married life.

[Denholm]

Because I'm incapable of monogamy and punting is a lot less risky (and usually better fun) than having an affair

[Denhamhoop]

I punt because girls in civvie life like and trust me but don't fancy me so will become friends and might occasionally become physical but this way i guarantee sex and tbh cannot be asked to put in the time and effort to become more than friends.Hope it answers your question Tania i guarantee you would like me if you met me but just wouldnt fancy me im like beige when it comes to bfs nice safe option just no edge at all

[ziubziauk]

Great thread.

I've never really thought about it, I was always quite vanilla and my wife got me into the scene having suggested I should fulfil my fantasy and it went from there. I agree with most of the posts I already punch above my weight with my mrs she's ace. so who doesn't want to have sex with beautiful women without all the emotional BS.

[cueball]

I punt cos it's a thrill, it's better than having an affair (no emotional home wrecking shit) but I've punted single as well as in relationships, it's the horny thrill for me really

[RedKettle]

thought I needed a hobby and stamp collecting was pretty dull so moved onto this....

[Denholm]

Out of interest, do any of the other married men on here find that punting improves the sex in their marriage? Things can get a little stale when you've been together a long time but I generally find a good punt really helps to put me in the mood to get a bit dirty with the missus. Don't know why, maybe it just serves as a reminder of how much fun sex can be.
This Saturday I got up early and (taking advantage of my wife's habit of having a big lie-in at the weekend) arranged a spur of the moment booking with a nearby WG. Got home after an enjoyable punt, jumped in the shower and then marched into the bedroom and gave the missus the best fuck we'd had in ages. Should have felt guilty or seedy I suppose but being honest it was a huge turn on and a cracking start to the weekend

[Marmalade]

Out of interest, do any of the other married men on here find that punting improves the sex in their marriage? Things can get a little stale when you've been together a long time but I generally find a good punt really helps to put me in the mood to get a bit dirty with the missus. Don't know why, maybe it just serves as a reminder of how much fun sex can be.
This Saturday I got up early and (taking advantage of my wife's habit of having a big lie-in at the weekend) arranged a spur of the moment booking with a nearby WG. Got home after an enjoyable punt, jumped in the shower and then marched into the bedroom and gave the missus the best fuck we'd had in ages. Should have felt guilty or seedy I suppose but being honest it was a huge turn on and a cracking start to the weekend

I think it's a good point. I'm sure mumsnet will have kittens at the thought precisely as sex is used in marriage to enslave a man until he becomes his wife's bitch. By fucking who he wants when he wants, with willing partners of course,  a man regains his own sense of sexuality and, literally, his virility. Ironically for the wife, this also means she gets a better fuck occasionally!

[Aspen]

I think it's a good point. I'm sure mumsnet will have kittens at the thought precisely as sex is used in marriage to enslave a man until he becomes his wife's bitch. By fucking who he wants when he wants, with willing partners of course,  a man regains his own sense of sexuality and, literally, his virility. Ironically for the wife, this also means she gets a better fuck occasionally!

If she wants it and is willing to cooperate.

Not always the case.

[Marmalade]

If she wants it and is willing to cooperate.

Not always the case.

Indeed. Once she has used sex to get a man under her control she may prefer that her slave unfortunately sticks to things like paying for her offspring's welfare, new shoes, cushion covers and so on. But if you feel she still adds some sort of value to your life you might want to keep her around. Divorces are more expensive than prostitutes. If all prostitutes cost an arm and a leg, "respectable" women wouldn't hate them so much.

[squeezebox]

I think it's a good point. I'm sure mumsnet will have kittens at the thought precisely as sex is used in marriage to enslave a man until he becomes his wife's bitch. By fucking who he wants when he wants, with willing partners of course,  a man regains his own sense of sexuality and, literally, his virility. Ironically for the wife, this also means she gets a better fuck occasionally!

+1

Often overlooked and certainly true in my case.

[Marmalade]

+1

Often overlooked and certainly true in my case.

 

[Redhead Lover]

To bang a stunner a cum on her face afterwards.  Cuts out all thise "would you like a drink" bollocks.

[Marmalade]

To bang a stunner a cum on her face afterwards.  Cuts out all thise "would you like a drink" bollocks.

Indeed, hardly the most popular of civvywimmin predilections 

[Davede]

The reason I punt is because I could sit up half the night looking at or watching porn then go to bed next to the wife hoping that what ive just seen might happen but at the most she will just lay there with her legs open ill have a quick shag roll off and fart then hope I didnt get the wet patch!!
Or I could just book a fit girl who is going to be nearly as filthy as the ones in the porno's and I dont have to worry about the wet patch
Plus I havent been interested in porn since I started punting really

[mf_1101]

I originally got into punting to seek milfs, being in my early twenties when I began I always had the mature fantasy. Having baked my cake and eaten it, I now do it for the thrill. Some people enjoy the game of meeting a girl and getting her to bed...not me, I prefer the straight up no bullshit sex and excitement of visiting a new girl in a new place. For me the journey is almost as fun as the destination.....ha, just kidding but I enjoy it.

Plus relationship wise, I didn't punt in the one relationship I was in before I entered the friendzone, and at my age I still date shy virgin types that don't put out. I don't mind it so much but when I try to move things along after a FEW MONTHS you know, I kind of expect either to be shoved into the friendzone or get a result and start having a real partner.

[stuart_gla]

Plus I havent been interested in porn since I started punting really

Very true!   

[DG]

I realise it's probably done to death somewhere else on the site, but I got a tonne of results when I searched.

I know why I do it, and get asked the question all the time, but I've never quite had the balls to ask a client why he visits me.

Having just embarrassed the wife into having sex after God knows how long, it was shit!! I tend to produce a massive load when punting, only managed a quick spurt and dribble this morning. Even suggested a few techniques WGs have used on me; didn't make a blind bit of difference. I suppose Tania you've either got it or you haven't!!

[Aspen]

Most women make you feel guilty for just wanting sex, let alone actually doing it.  At least prostitutes treat it like a business transaction and you can forget about those issues as soon as you part company.

By most, I mean every single one I have had as a partner of which there have been a few, and the partners of those of my friends I have talked about this to. (even some of the women will tell you that they just don't want to do it any more, and "why should they")

There's always a honeymoon period, but when it suits them they begin to resist and the guilting then comes into play. That's no fun at all and you end up looking for alternatives.

I think that's why most guys do it.
 

[xxxx]

If you had a wife who always sucked you off when you got home from work & swallowed you'd not go seeing escorts would you?