Probably me being my usual cuntish self
But I think you mean you enjoy them being in debt to you and you get a kick out of that. Otherwise you would just say here is a monkey have it as charitable donation as I like to help people
No, I'm comfortable without the power thing. Yes I have given money when I've thought its genuine but more often if its something for their kids then I've bought the item myself but more often I've just agreed to do a few punts in the same week.
I've lived with girls that I've met through punting, others I've become friends of their family. Not saying I wasn't being used to some extent (not many people turn down a gift-horse) but it certainly has been a long way from being 100% one-sided, I may be soft but I'm a realist, I've got what I've wanted/needed, they've got what they wanted/needed.
I know some girls are busy on the game, many others aren't (although they don't admit it), if you think its just a case of opening your legs to get some money, try advertising your own body, it doesn't happen that easily (and yes, I have and got kicked off by a competitor making up stories).